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O BEAUTY, find thyself in love, not in the flattery of thy mirror.
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“O BEAUTY, find thyself in love, not in the flattery of thy mirror.”

Rabindranath Tagore

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Stray Birds
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1916
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Rabindranath Tagore — Author and self-translator · from Bengali
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Beauty is located in relationship and love rather than self-admiring reflection, pushing worth away from flattering appearance alone and toward a less self-enclosed measure.

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Stray Birds, aphorism 28, Project Gutenberg #6524, translated from Bengali by Tagore himself. ‘O BEAUTY, find thyself in love, not in the flattery of thy mirror’ is a compact personified poetic aphorism placed between numbered sayings 27 and 29. It should not be flattened into a literal rule about appearance, self-worth or relationships.

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