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For the soul seeks not adorers, but peers.
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“For the soul seeks not adorers, but peers.”

Margaret Fuller

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Life Without and Life Within
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1859
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Meaning of “For the soul seeks not adorers, but peers.”

Respectful relationship is distinguished from worship or dependency: a developed person seeks equals capable of intelligent sympathy rather than admirers who surrender judgment.

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Life Without and Life Within, Part I ‘Reviews,’ essay ‘Menzel's View of Gœthe,’ Project Gutenberg #39037. ‘For the soul seeks not adorers, but peers’ appears in Fuller's discussion of the youth of genius, mockers and worshippers, immediately contrasting blind worship with ‘intelligent sympathy.’ It remains nineteenth-century literary criticism and intellectual reflection rather than a universal social or relationship rule.

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Be YourselfEqualityFriendshipIdentityIndependenceLoveRelationshipSelf LoveSelf RelianceSelf TrustSelf-Respect Quotes About Dignity & BoundariesSelf-WorthShortTrustUnderstandingEmpathySoul
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