Source-backed quotations about loyalty, companionship, honest speech, shared joy and adversity, mutual goodwill, practical aid, trust, intimacy over time, and the difference between true friendship and convenient association.
Friendship can mean different things in different sources. Relationship quotations become more useful when they distinguish affection from trust, closeness from dependence, and loyalty from the absence of boundaries. This collection includes 184 quotations across 56 authors or source voices and 121 named sources.
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Voices: Paul the Apostle, Jesus, Seneca, Proverbs, Cicero.
Sources: Essays, First Series — Friendship, The Moral Sayings of Publius Syrus, De Amicitia, The Prophet, Eight Cousins; Or, The Aunt-Hill.
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184 quotations from 56 voices and 121 named sources.
Length mix: 154 short · 30 medium · 0 long.
The writers represented here do not necessarily agree with one another.
Frequently represented voices include Paul the Apostle, Jesus, Seneca, Proverbs. Frequently represented works include Essays, First Series — Friendship, The Moral Sayings of Publius Syrus, De Amicitia, The Prophet.
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56 distinct voices across 184 quotations and 121 named sources.
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“Charity never faileth.”
King James Bible — 1 Corinthians 13:8 · 1611Read meaning & context →“I have called you friends.”
King James Bible — John 15:15 · 1611Read meaning & context →“Nay, rather they are men.”
Moral Letters to Lucilius — Letter 47 · c. 65Read meaning & context →“A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly.”
King James Bible — Proverbs 18:24 · 1611Read meaning & context →“A true friend is, as it were, another self.”
De Amicitia · 44 BCERead meaning & context →“Before him, I may think aloud.”
Essays, First Series — Friendship · 1841Read meaning & context →“Charity never faileth.”
The brief statement gives enduring love priority over gifts and achievements that are temporary within the chapter’s larger argument.
Source note: 1 Corinthians 13:8 in the King James Version; “charity” is the KJV rendering in this passage.
“Lie not one to another.”
The short instruction makes honesty a basic requirement of life with other people.
Source note: Colossians 3:9 in the King James Version; the opening command is quoted here.
“Love mankind. Follow God.”
The compressed instruction joins humane concern for other people with commitment to a larger moral order.
Source note: Meditations; George Long translation in Thoughts of Marcus Aurelius Antoninus.
“Nay, rather they are men.”
The short correction rejects reducing people to social roles and insists on recognizing the person before the status assigned to them.
Source note: Letter 47 repeatedly answers social labels by emphasizing the common humanity of enslaved people.
“I have called you friends.”
The brief phrase reframes the relationship from mere obedience toward disclosed trust and personal closeness.
Source note: John 15:15 in the King James Version; Jesus contrasts servants with friends who have been told what he has heard.
“If you would be loved, love.”
Seneca treats affection as reciprocal practice: the desire to receive love begins with becoming someone who actively gives it.
Source note: Letter 9, on philosophy and friendship; Seneca quotes Hecato while discussing how friendship is formed.
“Before him, I may think aloud.”
The line describes the relief of a friendship in which thought can be expressed openly before it is polished for public judgment.
Source note: Emerson continues his description of sincerity between friends in the essay Friendship.
“Whither thou goest, I will go.”
The promise expresses loyalty through shared direction: love is shown by choosing to accompany another person into an uncertain future.
Source note: Ruth 1:16 in the King James Version; Ruth’s pledge to Naomi.
“Good men are mutually helpful.”
Moral development is not purely solitary; people can strengthen one another through counsel, example, correction, and shared practice.
Source note: Letter 109 considers whether one wise person can benefit another and answers that good people are mutually useful.
“At ev'ry word a reputation dies.”
Pope compresses the destructive speed of fashionable gossip into a comic line about reputations being damaged in ordinary conversation.
Source note: The Rape of the Lock, Canto III; the line occurs in a satirical description of fashionable social talk rather than as literal reportage.
“My friend, I am not what I seem.”
The outward persona is not treated as the whole self, reminding readers that appearances and social roles can conceal a much larger private inner life.
Source note: The Madman, “My Friend”; the speaker contrasts the visible self with the quieter self that remains inaccessible.
“Your friend is your needs answered.”
Friendship is described through mutual presence and response, emphasizing what dependable companionship provides.
Source note: The Prophet, “On Friendship.”
“To err is human; to forgive, divine.”
Error is treated as ordinary human limitation, while forgiveness requires an additional act of generosity.
Source note: An Essay on Criticism, Part II; Pope warns that shallow learning can produce premature confidence before deeper study tempers judgment.
“Charity suffereth long, and is kind.”
Love is defined partly through patience and kindness, shifting the idea from emotion alone toward repeated behavior under strain.
Source note: 1 Corinthians 13:4 in the King James Version; this is the opening clause of the verse.
“Fear not: for am I in the place of God?”
Joseph refuses the role of final judge over the brothers who harmed him, creating space for reconciliation after fear and guilt.
Source note: Genesis 50:19 in the King James Version; Joseph answers his brothers after Jacob’s death when they fear retaliation.
“Fair weather friends are not worth much.”
Friendship that exists only while circumstances are easy has little value when loyalty is actually tested by difficulty.
Source note: Moral printed after “The Swallow and the Crow” in the Townsend translation of the fables.
“Friendship either finds or makes equals.”
Friendship works best where people meet one another with mutual regard, either because equality is already present or because the relationship creates it.
Source note: The Moral Sayings of Publius Syrus, saying 32, D. Lyman Jr. translation (1856).
“Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.”
The advice combines generosity with judgment: goodwill can be broad while trust remains selective.
Source note: All’s Well That Ends Well, Act 1, Scene 1; the Countess gives Bertram compact advice about conduct before he leaves.
“Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.”
The command uses care for oneself as the measure for care toward another person, linking healthy self-regard with outward responsibility rather than selfishness.
Source note: Matthew 22:39 in the King James Version.
“Charity shall cover the multitude of sins.”
The verse connects enduring love with the ability of a community to survive faults without letting every offence become the whole relationship.
Source note: 1 Peter 4:8 in the King James Version; excerpt from the instruction to maintain fervent charity among one another.
“For in touch is all love and intelligence.”
Touch becomes both information and relationship for Keller, carrying emotional connection as well as practical knowledge about people and surroundings.
Source note: The World I Live In, essay on the hand; the sentence appears in Keller’s account of touch as a primary channel of contact.
“For the soul seeks not adorers, but peers.”
Respectful relationship is distinguished from worship or dependency: a developed person seeks equals capable of intelligent sympathy rather than admirers who surrender judgment.
Source note: Life Without and Life Within, in Fuller’s essay discussion of Goethe and the artistic mind; the line contrasts genuine peers with mere worshippers.
“Confidence is the only bond of friendship.”
Trust is presented as the connective tissue of friendship: without confidence in one another, familiarity alone does not make a durable bond.
Source note: The Moral Sayings of Publius Syrus, saying 34, D. Lyman Jr. translation (1856).
“Happy is the house that shelters a friend!”
A home becomes meaningful through the quality of relationship it can shelter, not only through its comfort or possessions.
Source note: Emerson’s essay Friendship opens this passage by celebrating the house that receives a true friend.
“A true friend is, as it were, another self.”
The phrase captures the intimacy of friendship: another person becomes close enough that concern for them resembles concern for oneself.
Source note: Cicero’s De Amicitia describes true friendship as transferring natural self-love into a bond with another person.
“My good opinion once lost, is lost forever.”
Darcy presents trust and esteem as difficult to restore once serious judgment has turned against someone, revealing both the firmness and the potential rigidity of his early character.
Source note: Pride and Prejudice, Chapter XI, Project Gutenberg #1342. Fitzwilliam Darcy says this to Elizabeth Bennet during their discussion of faults; Elizabeth immediately identifies the position as implacable resentment, so the novel itself does not leave the maxim unchallenged.
“Allay the anger of your friend by kindness.”
Kindness can lower the temperature of conflict more effectively than matching a friend’s anger with additional anger.
Source note: The Moral Sayings of Publius Syrus, maxim 3, in Darius Lyman’s 1856 English rendering; maxim order can vary across editions.
“The only way to have a friend is to be one.”
Friendship is treated as reciprocal practice rather than something one can demand without embodying it.
Source note: Essay “Friendship.”
“In all you speak, let truth and candor shine.”
Pope treats candor as part of good judgment: accurate criticism should also be spoken with integrity and fairness.
Source note: An Essay on Criticism, in the section describing the moral duties of a critic.
“But let there be spaces in your togetherness.”
Closeness can coexist with individuality; healthy connection does not require erasing personal space.
Source note: The Prophet, “On Marriage.”
“To whom ye forgive any thing, I forgive also.”
Paul makes forgiveness reciprocal and communal, showing that restoration can require people to align their response rather than preserve separate grievances.
Source note: 2 Corinthians 2:10, King James Version; Paul continues instructions about forgiving and receiving a person who had caused sorrow.
“Friendship helps the young to keep from error.”
Aristotle gives friendship a practical educational role: trusted companions can help younger people avoid mistakes by supplying counsel, example and shared judgment.
Source note: Nicomachean Ethics, Book VIII, Chapter I, Project Gutenberg #8438. The sentence occurs in Aristotle’s opening inventory of why friendship is necessary across different stages of life.
“A wise man needs intercourse with his friends.”
Even the wise person benefits from conversation and relationship, showing again that Stoic independence is not social withdrawal.
Source note: Letter 109 discusses how friendship and mutual conversation can benefit people committed to wisdom.
“There is no charm equal to tenderness of heart.”
Austen gives emotional gentleness greater value than surface charm or social performance.
Source note: Emma, Volume III; the line appears in Austen’s treatment of tenderness, character, and the value placed on a warm heart.
“You pierce my soul. I am half agony, half hope.”
Wentworth’s letter holds pain and possibility together: the renewed declaration is intense because he still does not know whether Anne’s feelings have survived their long separation.
Source note: Persuasion, Chapter XXIII, Project Gutenberg #105. Captain Frederick Wentworth writes the line to Anne Elliot while listening to her conversation with Captain Harville; the letter is signed “F. W.” and is fictional character writing, not Austen autobiography.
“Do not find your happiness in another’s sorrow.”
A person’s good fortune is morally diminished when it depends on enjoying somebody else’s pain or humiliation.
Source note: The Moral Sayings of Publius Syrus, saying 18, D. Lyman Jr. translation (1856).
“The loss of a friend is the greatest of losses.”
The maxim treats friendship as a form of value that cannot be measured like property because losing the person also removes shared history and mutual presence.
Source note: The Moral Sayings of Publius Syrus, saying 37, D. Lyman Jr. translation (1856).
“There can be no alliance between Love and Fear.”
Love and fear pull a relationship in opposite directions when fear prevents honesty, security, or free affection.
Source note: The Moral Sayings of Publius Syrus, saying 40, D. Lyman Jr. translation (1856).
“A friend is a person with whom I may be sincere.”
Friendship permits unusual honesty because the relationship is secure enough to hold unguarded thought without constant performance.
Source note: In Friendship, Emerson names truth as one of the sovereign elements of the relationship.
“Three may keep a secret, if two of them are dead.”
The joke exaggerates how difficult secrecy becomes once information is shared, making discretion the safest form of confidentiality.
Source note: Poor Richard’s Almanack; one of Franklin’s compact maxims about secrecy and human behavior.
“Regard him as loyal, and you will make him loyal.”
Seneca suggests that suspicion can become self-reinforcing: treating a chosen friend as trustworthy helps create the conditions for candid, reciprocal friendship rather than teaching defensiveness from the outset.
Source note: Moral Letters to Lucilius, Letter 3, Richard M. Gummere translation. Seneca immediately contrasts this with people who fear deception so strongly that their suspicions help teach others to deceive them.
“For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow.”
Companionship matters most when one person can help another recover after a fall, setback, or moment of weakness.
Source note: Ecclesiastes 4:10, King James Version.
“Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another.”
The instruction places forgiveness beside forbearance: relationships often require both pardon after wrong and patience with ordinary human friction.
Source note: Colossians 3:13 in the King James Version; excerpt from the verse.
“He that is slow to anger is better than the mighty.”
Self-command is valued above outward dominance, redefining strength as the ability to govern one’s response.
Source note: Proverbs 16:32 in the King James Version; the first comparison is quoted here.
“A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly.”
Friendship is reciprocal: wanting reliable relationships also creates a responsibility to practice friendliness and presence toward other people.
Source note: Proverbs 18:24 in the King James Version; this record uses the opening clause.
“I pray thee, forgive the trespass of thine handmaid.”
Abigail asks pardon while attempting to prevent violence, connecting forgiveness with humility, mediation, and the practical work of interrupting retaliation.
Source note: 1 Samuel 25:28, King James Version; Abigail speaks to David during her appeal intended to avert bloodshed against Nabal’s household.
“And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.”
The prayer links asking for mercy with practicing mercy toward other people, making forgiveness a reciprocal moral discipline rather than a one-sided demand.
Source note: Matthew 6:12 in the King James Version.
“It is when you give of yourself that you truly give.”
Giving becomes deeper when it includes time, attention, effort, and presence rather than possessions alone.
Source note: The Prophet, “On Giving.”
“I must depend on myself as the only constant friend.”
The statement does not deny friendship with others; it names the continuity of one’s relationship with oneself as a reason to cultivate dependable inward resources.
Source note: Woman in the Nineteenth Century; spoken by Fuller’s illustrative figure Miranda while explaining the self-dependence encouraged by her upbringing.
“Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God.”
Love is framed as a practice people owe one another, not only as a private emotion or preference.
Source note: 1 John 4:7 in the King James Version; this record uses the opening clause of the verse.
“He that lies down with dogs shall rise up with fleas.”
The proverb uses a comic physical image to make a serious point: companions and environments often leave consequences behind.
Source note: Poor Richard’s Almanack; Franklin uses the image as a warning about association and consequences.
“All social relations have their roots in mutual trust”
Wagner treats trust as infrastructure for social life, implying that communication becomes costly and defensive when people cannot rely on one another’s sincerity.
Source note: The Simple Life, Chapter IV, “Simplicity of Speech,” Mary Louise Hendee translation, Project Gutenberg #23092; the surrounding paragraph discusses sincerity and confidence.
“Friendship springs from nature rather than from need.”
Friendship is not reduced to usefulness; Cicero argues that it arises from natural affection before calculations of advantage.
Source note: De Amicitia argues that the best friendship is sought for its own sake rather than for revenue or convenience.
“Friendship seems to be the bond of Social Communities.”
Friendship has a public dimension as well as a private one because trust and goodwill help hold communities together.
Source note: Nicomachean Ethics, Book VIII; the discussion connects friendship with social and political association.
“Friendship has more advantages than I can easily name.”
The value of friendship is intentionally left larger than a checklist, because companionship affects many parts of life at once.
Source note: Cicero develops the many practical and moral benefits of friendship throughout De Amicitia.
“The soul selects her own society, then shuts the door.”
Dickinson’s compressed image emphasizes selective attention and the right to decide what receives intimate access.
Source note: “The Soul Selects Her Own Society”; capitalization is lightly normalized.
“The language of Friendship is not words, but meanings.”
Thoreau argues that close friendship communicates through shared understanding that can run deeper than explicit statements, explanations, or ordinary conversational exchange.
Source note: A Week on the Concord and Merrimack Rivers, Wednesday; the friendship meditation contrasts true mutual understanding with the limits of conventional conversation.
“Blessed are the merciful: for they shall obtain mercy.”
Mercy is presented as a virtue that shapes both how a person treats others and the kind of moral world that person hopes to inhabit.
Source note: Matthew 5:7 in the King James Version.
“You give but little when you give of your possessions.”
Possessions can be given without much personal cost; Gibran prepares the contrast with giving one’s own time and presence.
Source note: The Prophet, “On Giving.”
“It is peculiar to man to love even those who do wrong.”
Marcus treats humane regard as compatible with recognizing wrongdoing, because error does not erase shared human kinship.
Source note: Meditations, Book VII, section 22, George Long translation.
“There is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.”
Some friendships become as dependable as family bonds, emphasizing closeness measured by steadfast presence rather than category alone.
Source note: Proverbs 18:24 in the King James Version; concluding clause of the verse.
“Try to enjoy the great festival of life with other men.”
Life is pictured as something shared rather than possessed privately, joining enjoyment with participation in a wider human community.
Source note: The Golden Sayings of Epictetus, saying III, Hastings Crossley translation.
“Thine own friend, and thy father’s friend, forsake not.”
Longstanding relationships carry accumulated trust and should not be discarded casually when circumstances change.
Source note: Proverbs 27:10 in the King James Version; opening command of the verse.
“The ornament of a house is the friends who frequent it.”
A home gains much of its warmth and value from the people welcomed into it, not merely from possessions, decoration, or physical comfort.
Source note: Society and Solitude, “Domestic Life”; Emerson places friendship and the arrival of new people at the center of a lively and meaningful household.
“Humanity does not desire to be great, but to be beloved.”
Smith contrasts humane character with status-seeking by presenting affection and social trust, rather than greatness itself, as the fitting reward of humanity.
Source note: The Theory of Moral Sentiments, Part III, in Smith’s discussion of the rewards commonly associated with industry, truth, justice, and humanity.
“Have we not all one father? hath not one God created us?”
The questions appeal to shared origin as a reason to reject treating other people as fundamentally alien or disposable.
Source note: Malachi 2:10 in the King James Version; opening questions.
“Avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath.”
The instruction interrupts retaliation by asking people not to make personal revenge their response to injury, creating room for restraint and release.
Source note: Romans 12:19, King James Version; Paul tells readers not to avenge themselves within a larger sequence about responding to enemies and evil.
“A friend may well be reckoned the masterpiece of nature.”
The metaphor elevates a true friendship above ordinary social convenience, treating the relationship as one of human life’s finest achievements.
Source note: Emerson uses this formulation in Friendship while describing the rarity and value of genuine companions.
“Respect means love, and love and fear cannot be mingled.”
Seneca separates genuine respect from intimidation: a relationship governed by fear cannot provide the same moral bond as voluntary regard.
Source note: Letter 47, on master and slave, argues for humane treatment grounded in shared humanity.
“The “I” in me, my friend, dwells in the house of silence.”
Gibran imagines an inner self that cannot be completely translated into performance or conversation, preserving a private dimension beneath social identity.
Source note: The Madman, “My Friend”; the image follows the claim that the speaker is not identical with what others see.
“These things write we unto you, that your joy may be full.”
Shared truth and fellowship are presented as sources of complete joy, making happiness partly relational rather than purely individual.
Source note: 1 John 1:4 in the King James Version.
“Come, my friends, ’Tis not too late to seek a newer world.”
The invitation joins companionship with renewed ambition, making change a shared undertaking rather than a solitary one.
Source note: Ulysses, in the closing address to the mariners.
“I wish that we should know and trust each other, Florence.”
Edith deliberately asks for mutual knowledge and trust with Florence before marriage joins their households, framing family relationship as something that must be built.
Source note: Dombey and Son, Chapter 30, Project Gutenberg #821. Edith speaks to Florence while inviting her into closer confidence.
“What you do not want done to yourself, do not do to others.”
A simple test for conduct is to consider whether we would accept the same treatment if our positions were reversed.
Source note: The Analects of Confucius, James Legge’s public-domain English translation; Book XV gives the maxim as a concise rule for conduct toward others.
“If I loved you less, I might be able to talk about it more.”
The difficulty of speaking is used as evidence of emotional depth, contrasting sincere feeling with polished or excessive declaration.
Source note: Chapter 49; Mr. Knightley struggles to express the depth of his feeling to Emma.
“Thinking of death makes us tenderly cling to our affections.”
Awareness of mortality intensifies attachment by reminding a person that relationships and opportunities for affection are finite.
Source note: Letters Written During a Short Residence in Sweden, Norway, and Denmark; Wollstonecraft connects thoughts of death with renewed tenderness toward human attachments.
“Give a little love to a child, and you get a great deal back.”
Ruskin presents affection toward children as relational rather than one-way: care given to a child can be met with trust, warmth and generosity in return.
Source note: The Crown of Wild Olive, Lecture I, “Work,” Project Gutenberg #26716, printed page 41. Ruskin places the sentence inside a Victorian Christian discussion of what he calls the loving and generous character of “right childhood”; this collection preserves that historical moral framework rather than treating every surrounding prescription as modern child-development evidence.
“Wherefore comfort yourselves together, and edify one another.”
Healthy community includes both consolation and constructive encouragement: people help each other endure and grow.
Source note: 1 Thessalonians 5:11 in the King James Version.
“Bear ye one another's burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.”
Mutual care is treated as an active responsibility: another person’s difficulty becomes something the community helps carry rather than merely observes.
Source note: Galatians 6:2 in the King James Version, in a passage about restoring and supporting one another.
“Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.”
Support becomes concrete when people help carry difficulties that would otherwise be faced alone.
Source note: Galatians 6:2 in the King James Version.
“As in water face answereth to face, so the heart of man to man.”
The comparison suggests that people recognize themselves through other people, making relationship a mirror for character and inner life.
Source note: Proverbs 27:19 in the King James Version.
“Our intellectual and active powers increase with our affection.”
Affection can call forth capacities that remain dormant in isolation; Emerson illustrates the claim with a writer who suddenly finds thoughts and words when writing to a friend.
Source note: Essays: First Series, “Friendship,” Project Gutenberg #2944. Emerson follows the sentence with the example of a scholar who cannot write abstractly but finds language when composing a letter to a friend.
“If I can stop one Heart from breaking, I shall not live in vain.”
A meaningful life is measured through alleviating even one person’s suffering rather than through scale or fame.
Source note: Opening line of the poem.
“Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep.”
Friendship and community require emotional presence in both directions, sharing another person’s joy as well as sorrow.
Source note: Romans 12:15 in the King James Version.
“Firm, steadfast, self-consistent men are to be chosen as friends.”
Reliable friendship depends on reliable character; steadiness matters because trust cannot grow when conduct constantly changes with advantage.
Source note: De Amicitia advises choosing friends whose character is firm and consistent.
“Love is like the wild rose-briar; Friendship like the holly-tree.”
Wild rose and holly become contrasting natural images for two kinds of attachment, setting up the poem’s question about beauty, season and constancy.
Source note: “Love and Friendship,” Project Gutenberg #1019. The comparison is a poetic metaphor, not a claim that friendship and romantic love always follow one fixed pattern.
“And when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have ought against any.”
The instruction makes unresolved resentment relevant even in a private act of prayer: a grievance cannot simply be separated from the way a person approaches reconciliation and mercy.
Source note: Mark 11:25 in the King James Version; excerpt from the verse.
“When a man becomes dear to me I have touched the goal of fortune.”
Emerson relocates fortune from possessions to relationship: gaining someone genuinely dear can count as a form of wealth.
Source note: Friendship presents intimate human connection as a deeper kind of good fortune than material gain.
“It is twice blest: it blesseth him that gives and him that takes.”
Mercy is described as reciprocal in effect: it helps the recipient, but it also changes the moral character of the person who chooses to give it.
Source note: The Merchant of Venice, Act 4, Scene 1; Portia explains why mercy benefits both sides.
“Is it not delightful to have friends coming from distant quarters?”
Friendship gains special warmth when distance has not weakened the relationship and reunion becomes an occasion for shared joy.
Source note: The Analects of Confucius, James Legge’s public-domain English translation; Book I pairs learning with the pleasure of welcoming distant friends.
“A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.”
Reliable relationships are revealed by constancy, especially when hardship makes support costly rather than convenient.
Source note: Proverbs 17:17, King James Version.
“there falls along with him a whole wing of the palace of our life.”
The death of a close friend is pictured as structural loss inside the survivor’s own life because shared memory, recognition and companionship disappear with that person.
Source note: Memories and Portraits; Project Gutenberg #381. The surrounding passage describes friendship, mortality and memory; the architectural metaphor is kept as grief writing rather than literal psychology.
“The wise man is self-sufficient. Nevertheless, he desires friends.”
Self-sufficiency does not require isolation; inner stability can coexist with a genuine desire for friendship and shared life.
Source note: Letter 9 contrasts Stoic self-sufficiency with the continuing value of friendship.
“You have buried one whom you loved; look about for someone to love.”
Continuing to love does not erase the person who died; it refuses to let bereavement close the capacity for relationship permanently.
Source note: Letter 63 urges remembrance of a lost friend while continuing to participate in friendship and life.
“I can no other answer make but thanks, and thanks, and ever thanks.”
Sebastian responds to Antonio’s costly loyalty with repeated thanks while also admitting that words alone are an inadequate repayment for practical care.
Source note: Twelfth Night, Act 3, Scene 3, Project Gutenberg #1526. Sebastian says this to Antonio after Antonio explains that fear for Sebastian’s safety drove him to follow despite the danger of returning to Illyria; it is character dialogue, not Shakespeare autobiography.
“A desire for Friendship may arise quickly but not Friendship itself.”
Initial liking or a wish to become friends can happen immediately, but Aristotle reserves mature friendship for a relationship tested by time, familiarity and demonstrated character.
Source note: Nicomachean Ethics, Book VIII, Chapter III, Project Gutenberg #8438. Aristotle has just argued that people must become mutually known and prove themselves fit objects of friendship before the relationship is complete.
“Humility—to put a seal upon your lips and forget what you have done.”
Drummond defines humility as allowing good work to remain larger than the ego that performed it: kindness is followed by a refusal to turn the act into self-advertisement or private self-congratulation.
Source note: “The Greatest Thing in the World,” in The Greatest Thing in the World and Other Addresses, Project Gutenberg #16739. Drummond explicitly places Humility among the “ingredients” of Christian love and glosses it as love that does not vaunt itself.
“And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another.”
Forgiveness is placed beside kindness and tenderheartedness, suggesting that pardon is not only the cancellation of a grievance but part of an ongoing way of treating people.
Source note: Ephesians 4:32 in the King James Version; excerpt from the verse before its comparison with divine forgiveness.
“every unostentatious word or smile that shows a heart awake to others”
The phrase values small, unshowy signs of attention because they reveal active awareness of other people rather than performative benevolence.
Source note: Daniel Deronda; narrator-level phrase in a passage about unnoticed social influence and responsiveness to others.
“Forgive, I pray thee now, the trespass of thy brethren, and their sin;”
The request comes after their father’s death, when Joseph’s brothers fear retaliation and appeal directly for forgiveness of the wrong they committed against him.
Source note: Genesis 50:17, King James Version; Joseph’s brothers send a message asking pardon for their earlier wrongdoing against him.
“At least I prefer to write unwisely rather than to be silent unkindly.”
Marcus explains why he risks offering awkward advice to Fronto: preserving kindness and speaking when concern matters can be preferable to staying silent simply to avoid possible embarrassment.
Source note: Project Gutenberg #2680, correspondence appendix, Ad M. Caes. ii. 2. Marcus closes a letter about Fronto’s role in the Herodes Atticus dispute with this sentence. It is personal epistolary reasoning inside a specific conflict, not a universal rule to intervene in every disagreement.
“Our chief want in life, is, somebody who shall make us do what we can.”
Useful companionship can draw out capacities that remain dormant alone; encouragement matters most when it helps another person actually exercise what they can do.
Source note: The Conduct of Life; Emerson presents another person’s demanding encouragement as a form of service that calls forth unrealized ability.
“The more I love humanity in general, the less I love man in particular.”
Abstract concern for humanity can coexist with impatience toward real people, exposing the gap between idealized benevolence and daily practice.
Source note: The Brothers Karamazov, Book II; Father Zossima recounts a doctor’s bitterly comic confession.
“And let us consider one another to provoke unto love and to good works.”
Attention to other people is meant to encourage constructive action, making community partly a practice of drawing out one another’s better conduct.
Source note: Hebrews 10:24 in the King James Version, immediately before an appeal to continue gathering and encouraging one another.
“I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven.”
The answer rejects a small numerical limit on forgiveness, making repeated mercy the point rather than merely reaching a quota.
Source note: Matthew 18:22 in the King James Version; Jesus answers Peter’s question about how often a brother should be forgiven.
“Wherefore putting away lying, speak every man truth with his neighbour.”
Truthfulness is framed as a responsibility within relationship, not merely as a private personal preference.
Source note: Ephesians 4:25 in the King James Version; the first clause and command are quoted here.
“I wish that friendship should have feet, as well as eyes and eloquence.”
Emerson wants friendship to become practical conduct rather than remain admiration or beautiful speech: real affection should show itself in ordinary acts of presence, usefulness and care.
Source note: Essays: First Series, “Friendship,” Project Gutenberg #2944. Emerson immediately explains that friendship must “plant itself on the ground” and connect lofty feeling with practical civic virtues and aid.
“Seldom, very seldom, does complete truth belong to any human disclosure.”
Austen observes that even sincere accounts can contain omission, disguise, or misunderstanding, which makes careful listening and humility important in judging what people say.
Source note: Emma, Volume III, Chapter 13, during the narrator’s reflection on Emma and Mr. Knightley’s conversation.
“Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.”
Good relationships can improve judgment and character through challenge, conversation, and mutual influence.
Source note: Proverbs 15:1 in the King James Version; the proverb contrasts a soft answer with speech that intensifies wrath.
“Adversity shows whether we have friends, or only the shadows of friends.”
Difficulty tests whether a relationship has substance because support under pressure reveals more than companionship during easy circumstances.
Source note: The Moral Sayings of Publius Syrus, saying 35, D. Lyman Jr. translation (1856).
“Men exist for the sake of one another. Teach them then or bear with them.”
Human interdependence creates two practical choices when others fall short: help them learn when possible, or practice patient endurance when change is unavailable.
Source note: Meditations, Book VIII; George Long translation in Thoughts of Marcus Aurelius Antoninus.
“Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.”
Shared effort can increase both practical results and resilience because responsibility does not rest on one person alone.
Source note: Ecclesiastes 4:9, King James Version.
“Love in action is a harsh and dreadful thing compared with love in dreams.”
Real love asks for repeated effort, patience, and inconvenience, unlike imagined love that can remain noble without enduring another person’s needs.
Source note: The Brothers Karamazov, Father Zossima’s response in the chapter “A Lady of Little Faith.”
“If ye from your hearts forgive not every one his brother their trespasses.”
The emphasis falls on forgiveness that is more than outward compliance: the teaching demands a response rooted in the heart rather than merely performed.
Source note: Matthew 18:35, King James Version; the sentence concludes the parable of the unforgiving servant and returns to forgiveness between people.
“Let not the eyes be dry when we have lost a friend, nor let them overflow.”
Grief is neither forbidden nor allowed to consume everything; the line recommends honest mourning held within proportion.
Source note: Letter 63, on grief for lost friends, argues against both emotional numbness and endless mourning.
“Friendship is certainly the finest balm for the pangs of disappointed love.”
Friendship is framed as practical emotional support when romantic hopes fail, without pretending it instantly removes disappointment.
Source note: Northanger Abbey.
“Be sincere, moderate, simple in the expression of your feelings and opinions”
The advice combines candor with restraint: truthful expression does not require exaggeration, and moderation can make feelings and opinions more faithful to their source.
Source note: The Simple Life, Chapter IV, “Simplicity of Speech,” Mary Louise Hendee translation, Project Gutenberg #23092; Wagner links sincerity, moderation and plain expression.
“What do we live for, if it is not to make life less difficult to each other?”
A meaningful life is connected with reducing other people’s burdens, making usefulness and care central rather than peripheral.
Source note: Middlemarch, Book VIII.
“If he trespass against thee seven times in a day ... thou shalt forgive him.”
Repeated offence makes forgiveness harder, which is exactly the point of the passage: the moral demand is not limited to the first easy opportunity to forgive.
Source note: Luke 17:4 in the King James Version; the middle repetition is shortened with an ellipsis while preserving the verse’s instruction.
“Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you.”
The teaching moves beyond merely withholding retaliation and asks for active goodwill toward opponents, making forgiveness part of a transformed response to hostility.
Source note: Matthew 5:44, King James Version; Jesus commands love, blessing, and good action toward enemies within the Sermon on the Mount.
“Faithful are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.”
Honest correction from a real friend may hurt more than flattery, but its purpose and reliability make it more valuable.
Source note: Proverbs 27:6, King James Version.
“those who have done the most for you, those who have stood by you most closely.”
The phrase directs attention toward the people whose sustained presence and help deserve to be remembered when evaluating one’s own conduct.
Source note: Character Building, “Have You Done Your Best?”, Project Gutenberg #60484. Washington is asking students to imagine answering to parents or their nearest and dearest friends.
“Make no friendship with an angry man; and with a furious man thou shalt not go:”
The proverb treats repeated fury as socially contagious, warning that close association can shape habits and judgment.
Source note: Proverbs 22:24 in the King James Version; the next verse warns that a person can learn the ways of the habitually angry.
“Is not prosperity robbed of half its value if you have no one to share your joy?”
Good fortune becomes more meaningful when it can be shared, making companionship part of the value of prosperity itself.
Source note: Laelius on Friendship; the surrounding passage pairs shared joy with support during misfortune.
“If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him.”
This passage does not equate forgiveness with silence about harm: it places honest confrontation and forgiveness in the same sequence when repentance follows.
Source note: Luke 17:3 in the King James Version.
“Wherefore comfort yourselves together, and edify one another, even as also ye do.”
Encouragement is described as mutual work: people strengthen a community by helping one another recover perspective and continue.
Source note: 1 Thessalonians 5:11 in the King James Version, calling readers to comfort and build one another up.
“A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you.”
Love is presented as an active obligation shaped by example, not merely a private feeling.
Source note: John 13:34, King James Version.
“Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.”
The verse defines love through costly action, making willingness to sacrifice for friends a measure of devotion rather than merely affectionate language.
Source note: John 15:13 in the King James Version.
“Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others.”
Attention to other people’s interests expands life beyond self-concern and makes cooperation and care possible.
Source note: Philippians 2:4 in the King James Version.
“We run not only to congratulate the successful, but to condole with the afflicted.”
Shared life includes both celebration and consolation: Smith treats sympathetic participation in another person’s sorrow as a basic feature of social feeling.
Source note: The Theory of Moral Sentiments, Part I discussion of sympathy with joy and affliction; represented by the 1777 Dublin edition in Project Gutenberg #67363.
“The holly is dark when the rose-briar blooms, But which will bloom most constantly?”
The seasonal contrast asks whether the less showy bond may prove more constant once the most visibly attractive season has passed.
Source note: “Love and Friendship,” Project Gutenberg #1019. The question belongs to the poem’s rose-and-holly metaphor for love and friendship.
“One must learn to love, one must learn to be kind, and this from childhood onwards.”
The aphorism treats loving and kind dispositions as capacities that can be practiced and cultivated rather than assumed to arise automatically.
Source note: Human, All-Too-Human, Part I, aphorism 601, “Learning to Love”; Helen Zimmern translation; this record uses the opening sentence.
“For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.”
Forgiveness is framed as conduct expected from people who themselves depend on mercy, tying belief to the way injury is answered.
Source note: Matthew 6:14 in the King James Version.
“And ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”
Separation can expose the depth of attachment that ordinary familiarity concealed, making loss a painful measure of how much the bond mattered.
Source note: The Prophet, “On Love.”
“Be clothed with humility: for God resisteth the proud, and giveth grace to the humble.”
Humility is described as something practiced visibly in community, not merely an inward opinion about oneself.
Source note: 1 Peter 5:5 in the King James Version; this excerpt keeps the central humility clause.
“Trust not your self; but your defects to know, make use of ev’ry friend—and ev’ry foe.”
Pope treats criticism from both allies and opponents as information that can expose blind spots.
Source note: An Essay on Criticism, in the passage warning against pride in judgment.
“When one is in love one begins by deceiving oneself. And one ends by deceiving others.”
The line turns romance into a two-stage comedy of self-deception and social deception, exaggerating cynicism to expose how desire distorts judgment.
Source note: A Woman of No Importance, Act III; Lord Illingworth answers Gerald’s question about love with the romance/self-deception epigram. The exact catalog wording is supported by this play, not by The Picture of Dorian Gray.
“A friend loves you, of course; but one who loves you is not in every case your friend.”
Affection alone does not define friendship; durable friendship also involves character, trust, and a shared way of relating.
Source note: Letter 35 distinguishes friendship from affection while Seneca urges Lucilius toward moral progress.
“You are dear to me, Florence. I did not think that anything could ever be so dear to me”
Edith’s attachment to Florence becomes an unexpected form of family affection within a household otherwise marked by coldness, pride and strained marriage.
Source note: Dombey and Son, Chapter 35, Project Gutenberg #821. Edith speaks to Florence; the line belongs to their fictional relationship inside the Dombey household.
“Forgiveness to the injured does belong; But they ne’er pardon, who have done the wrong.”
Zulema cynically suggests that pardon belongs to the person who was harmed while the wrongdoer may remain trapped in shame or hostility; the drama immediately undercuts him by showing that he plans fresh deception.
Source note: The Conquest of Granada, Part II, The Works of John Dryden, Volume IV, Project Gutenberg #15349. Zulema speaks after being pardoned and immediately proposes “feigned honesty” to regain trust, making this a compromised character perspective rather than Dryden’s direct moral instruction.
“I had three chairs in my house; one for solitude, two for friendship, three for society.”
The playful inventory balances time alone with companionship and community while keeping material needs deliberately small.
Source note: Walden, chapter “Visitors”; Thoreau uses the three-chair inventory to distinguish solitude, friendship, and larger social company.
“And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity.”
Faith and hope remain important, but the chapter concludes by placing love above them as the greatest continuing virtue.
Source note: 1 Corinthians 13:13 in the King James Version.
“And hath made of one blood all nations of men for to dwell on all the face of the earth.”
Human difference is placed inside a shared human origin, supporting a broad view of common dignity and belonging.
Source note: Acts 17:26 in the King James Version; opening clause.
“My little children, let us not love in word, neither in tongue; but in deed and in truth.”
Love is measured by conduct rather than verbal display, making practical help and truthful action more important than affectionate claims alone.
Source note: 1 John 3:18 in the King James Version, following a contrast between having resources and closing oneself to another person’s need.
“For what do we live, but to make sport for our neighbours, and laugh at them in our turn?”
Mr. Bennet’s joke treats social observation as reciprocal: everyone is somebody else’s entertainment, including the people doing the laughing.
Source note: Pride and Prejudice, Chapter 57; Mr. Bennet comments on the absurd rumour concerning Elizabeth and Darcy.
“I don't want any time! I know who I love best, who I'm happiest with, and I choose uncle.”
Rose’s choice of guardian is grounded in affection, trust and felt happiness, making chosen family attachment central to where she understands home to be.
Source note: Eight Cousins; Or, The Aunt-Hill, Chapter 21, Project Gutenberg #38567. Rose chooses Uncle Alec when relatives ask which household she wants to join.
“He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.”
Companions shape judgment and habits, so choosing relationships also means choosing some of the influences that shape a life.
Source note: Proverbs 13:20, King James Version.
“He that has much in common with a fellow-man will have all things in common with a friend.”
Friendship grows from shared humanity and becomes deeper when common concerns are treated as mutual rather than strictly private.
Source note: Letter 48 discusses friendship, shared interests, and philosophy’s obligations to other people.
“you mustn't think o' running away from father. What 'ud father do without his little wench?”
Mr Tulliver answers a child’s impulse to run away by stressing reciprocal attachment: Maggie matters to her father as much as she depends on him.
Source note: The Mill on the Floss, Book I, Project Gutenberg #6688. Mr Tulliver speaks to Maggie; dialect and fictional voice are retained rather than normalized into authorial advice.
“Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another.”
Affection is joined with honor: care for others includes deliberately giving them regard rather than competing for status.
Source note: Romans 12:10 in the King James Version.
“Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another;”
Mutual regard includes both affection and deliberate respect, emphasizing how people treat one another rather than only what they feel privately.
Source note: Romans 12:10 in the King James Version, in a sequence of instructions about sincere love, generosity, patience, and shared responsibility.
“For hatred does not cease by hatred at any time: hatred ceases by love, this is an old rule.”
Retaliation tends to reproduce hostility, while refusing to answer hatred with hatred creates the possibility of ending the cycle rather than extending it.
Source note: Dhammapada, early verses in Max Müller’s translation; the passage contrasts retaliation with non-hatred.
“The soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul.”
The image of two lives being knit together describes friendship as deep attachment rather than casual acquaintance or temporary convenience.
Source note: 1 Samuel 18:1 in the King James Version; the verse introduces the bond between Jonathan and David.
“I cannot ever endure to write anything to you unless with mind at ease and untroubled and free.”
Marcus links intimate correspondence with mental composure: he wants to write to Fronto from an unhurried and settled state rather than forcing a personal letter while distracted or troubled.
Source note: Project Gutenberg #2680, correspondence appendix, reference iii. 21. Marcus explains why he had not written earlier while discussing Fronto’s health. This is a personal letter-writing preference in context, not a general productivity prescription.
“When friendship is settled, you must trust; before friendship is formed, you must pass judgment.”
Seneca separates two stages that are often confused: evaluate carefully before admitting someone into close friendship, then stop treating an accepted friend as though the relationship were still permanently on trial.
Source note: Moral Letters to Lucilius, Letter 3, “On True and False Friendship,” Richard M. Gummere translation. The letter argues against both careless openness and suspicious friendship; Letter 3 provenance still normalizes to the single Moral Letters work family for Seneca authority.
“I had rather be shut up in a very modest cottage with my books, my family and a few old friends.”
Jefferson contrasts private intellectual and personal companionship with public grandeur, putting books alongside family and old friends as durable sources of contentment.
Source note: Thomas Jefferson to Alexander Donald, February 7, 1788; excerpt from a longer comparison with holding a splendid public post.
“Ointment and perfume rejoice the heart: so doth the sweetness of a man’s friend by hearty counsel.”
Good counsel from a trusted friend is compared with a pleasing fragrance because it can refresh the heart while also offering substance.
Source note: Proverbs 27:9 in the King James Version.
“we must be as reliable and as responsible as it is possible for the people of any other race to be.”
Washington makes reliability and responsibility central to the institutional and racial-uplift argument of the address, tying opportunity to dependable conduct.
Source note: Character Building, “The Importance of Being Reliable,” Project Gutenberg #60484. The race language belongs to Washington’s historical response to discriminatory judgments and employment conditions.
“A principal fruit of friendship is the ease and discharge of the fulness and swellings of the heart.”
Friendship gives difficult feelings somewhere safe to go; speaking with a trusted person can reduce the pressure of thoughts carried alone.
Source note: Of Friendship; Bacon names emotional disclosure as one of friendship’s principal benefits.
“Jonathan caused David to swear again, because he loved him: for he loved him as he loved his own soul.”
Jonathan’s repeated covenant with David presents friendship as loyalty strong enough to carry obligation even under political and family pressure.
Source note: 1 Samuel 20:17 in the King James Version; Jonathan renews his covenant with David.
“It is a mere and miserable solitude to want true friends, without which the world is but a wilderness.”
Bacon distinguishes physical company from genuine companionship: crowds and acquaintances cannot replace the kind of trusted relationship that makes social life feel inhabited rather than empty.
Source note: Essays, “Of Friendship,” Project Gutenberg #56463. Bacon follows his contrast between crowds and real company by describing the absence of true friends as a deeper form of solitude.
“Love a man even in his sin, for that is the semblance of Divine Love and is the highest love on earth.”
Father Zossima separates care for a person from approval of wrongdoing, locating mercy inside his explicitly Christian teaching that human failure should not extinguish love.
Source note: The Brothers Karamazov, Father Zossima’s discourse, Constance Garnett translation, Project Gutenberg #28054. This is fictional theological speech by Zossima; it should not be flattened into a modern psychological rule or uncomplicated Dostoevsky autobiography.
“These things have I spoken unto you, that my joy might remain in you, and that your joy might be full.”
Joy is presented as something that can remain and become full through a sustained relationship rather than a passing mood.
Source note: John 15:11 in the King James Version.
“He that covereth a transgression seeketh love; but he that repeateth a matter separateth very friends.”
The proverb contrasts discretion with repeated reopening of an offence, recognizing that the way conflict is handled can preserve or fracture friendship.
Source note: Proverbs 17:9 in the King James Version.
“Happy the boys and girls who tell all things freely to father or mother, sure of pity, help, and pardon”
Family trust is pictured as freedom to disclose trouble without expecting abandonment, with pity, practical help and forgiveness making honest communication safer.
Source note: Eight Cousins; Or, The Aunt-Hill, Chapter 17, Project Gutenberg #38567. Narrator commentary on confidence between children and parents.
“Who comforteth us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble.”
Received comfort becomes a responsibility toward others, turning personal experience of difficulty into practical empathy and support.
Source note: 2 Corinthians 1:4 in the King James Version; the clause is excerpted before the verse repeats the source of comfort.
“The best portion of a good man’s life, His little, nameless, unremembered acts of kindness and of love.”
A good life is measured through small acts of care that may never become famous or even remain in memory.
Source note: Lines Composed a Few Miles above Tintern Abbey; the speaker reflects on small, often unremembered acts of kindness and love.
“fatherly and motherly hearts often beat warm and wise in the breasts of bachelor uncles and maiden aunts”
The novel broadens family care beyond biological parents, recognizing that uncles and aunts can provide forms of affection, judgment and protection associated with parenthood.
Source note: Eight Cousins; Or, The Aunt-Hill, Chapter 17, Project Gutenberg #38567. Narrator commentary about Rose and Mac turning naturally to Dr Alec.
“No one would choose to live without friends though he should have all the other good things in the world.”
Friendship is treated not as an optional luxury but as part of a flourishing life, even when material needs and other advantages are already supplied.
Source note: Nicomachean Ethics, Book VIII; Aristotle begins his discussion of friendship by treating it as necessary to a good life.
“I see that Daisy is bound up in Nat; and if he is worthy of her I shall let them be happy in their own way”
Parental care here includes allowing an adult child to choose her own relationship when the parent judges the partner worthy rather than controlling the outcome.
Source note: Jo's Boys, Chapter 10, Project Gutenberg #3499. Mrs Meg is considering Daisy and Nat; the surrounding dialogue explicitly compares her choice with the freedom her own parents gave her.
“Wherefore putting away lying, speak every man truth with his neighbour: for we are members one of another.”
The verse connects truthful speech with mutual dependence: honesty matters because people live in relationship rather than as isolated individuals.
Source note: Ephesians 4:25 in the King James Version.
“Such friendship at once enhances the lustre of prosperity, and by dividing and sharing adversity lessens its burden.”
A good friend does not matter only in crisis: companionship can enlarge good fortune while also making hardship easier to carry because difficulty is no longer borne alone.
Source note: De Amicitia, section 6–7 transition, Project Gutenberg #7491. Cicero contrasts true and perfect friendship with merely moderate association and emphasizes its usefulness in both prosperity and adversity.
“Brothers and sisters ought to live together; especially when the brother needs some one to make home pleasant for him”
Sibling closeness is connected to the making of a home, with companionship presented as practical care rather than only a family label.
Source note: Eight Cousins; Or, The Aunt-Hill, Chapter 21, Project Gutenberg #38567. Charlie is trying to persuade Rose to choose a household after her guardianship question is raised.
“There was love between him and the child that blent them into one, and there was love between the child and the world.”
Affection between caregiver and child becomes a bridge rather than a closed bond: loving the child also draws Silas outward toward the wider world she naturally engages.
Source note: Silas Marner; the narration emphasizes that Eppie’s attachment joins Silas not only to her but also to the social world from which he had retreated.
“Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves.”
The instruction moves humility into relationships by asking people to resist rivalry and deliberately give weight to the interests and dignity of others.
Source note: Philippians 2:3 in the King James Version.
“Friendship is nothing else than entire fellow feeling as to all things human and divine with mutual good-will and affection.”
Cicero defines the strongest friendship as a broad sharing of concern, judgment and goodwill rather than a narrow exchange of favors or useful contacts.
Source note: De Amicitia, section 6, Project Gutenberg #7491. Laelius is the dialogue speaker in Cicero’s philosophical treatment of friendship; the sentence defines friendship through mutual goodwill and affection.
“What can be more delightful than to have some one to whom you can say everything with the same absolute confidence as to yourself?”
Close friendship creates a rare space for frank speech because confidence in the other person removes the need for continual self-protection.
Source note: Laelius on Friendship, translated by Evelyn S. Shuckburgh in Project Gutenberg’s Treatises on Friendship and Old Age.
“Health is the greatest of gifts, contentedness the best riches; trust is the best of relationships, Nirvana the highest happiness.”
The verse ranks contentment above possession by calling it the best form of wealth, linking well-being with enoughness, trustworthy relationship, and spiritual liberation.
Source note: Dhammapada 204, Max Müller translation; the final reference to Nirvana makes the verse explicitly Buddhist rather than a purely secular maxim.
“How selfish soever man may be supposed, there are evidently some principles in his nature, which interest him in the fortune of others.”
Smith opens his moral theory by arguing that human beings possess capacities for fellow-feeling even when another person’s welfare offers no material advantage.
Source note: The Theory of Moral Sentiments, Part I, Section I, Chapter I “Of Sympathy”; represented by Project Gutenberg’s 1777 Dublin edition.
“How happy I am, that my friend Marcus Cornelius, so distinguished as an orator and so noble as a man, thinks me worth praising and blaming.”
Marcus values a relationship in which admiration does not exclude correction: Fronto’s willingness to praise and blame him is presented as a mark of trusted friendship rather than mere approval.
Source note: Project Gutenberg #2680, Appendix “Correspondence of M. Aurelius Antoninus and M. Cornelius Fronto,” identifies this line as Ad M. Caes. iii. 17. The wording is preserved as correspondence context, not treated as a maxim from the Meditations.
“You might just as well take the sun out of the sky as friendship from life; for the immortal gods have given us nothing better or more delightful.”
Friendship is treated not as an optional ornament but as one of the basic goods that makes ordinary life worth inhabiting.
Source note: Laelius on Friendship, Shuckburgh translation.
“There is no man that imparteth his joys to his friend, but he joyeth the more; and no man that imparteth his griefs to his friend, but he grieveth the less.”
Sharing experience changes its emotional weight: celebration can become fuller when another person receives it, while grief can become less isolating when it is spoken to someone trusted.
Source note: Essays, “Of Friendship,” Project Gutenberg #56463. Bacon concludes his first “fruit” of friendship by arguing that disclosure redoubles joys and cuts griefs in halves.
“The holy passion of Friendship is of so sweet and steady and loyal and enduring a nature that it will last through a whole lifetime, if not asked to lend money.”
The sentence builds friendship into something almost sacred and then punctures the ideal with a borrowing joke, satirizing how financial pressure tests supposedly unconditional loyalty.
Source note: Pudd’nhead Wilson, Calendar epigraph before the section following Chapter VII; the lending-money qualification supplies the punch line.
“Regard friendship as the greatest thing in the world; for there is nothing which so fits in with our nature, or is so exactly what we want in prosperity or adversity.”
Cicero presents friendship as suited to human nature because it serves both celebration and hardship rather than belonging to only one circumstance.
Source note: Laelius on Friendship; Laelius frames friendship as useful and natural in both good and difficult times.
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