Source-backed quotations about closeness, trust, honesty, conflict, loyalty, tenderness, boundaries, and how people live with one another.
Relationship can mean different things in different sources. Relationship quotations become more useful when they distinguish affection from trust, closeness from dependence, and loyalty from the absence of boundaries. This collection includes 240 quotations across 66 authors or source voices and 145 named sources.
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Voices: Jane Austen, Proverbs, Jesus, Paul the Apostle, William Shakespeare.
Sources: The Moral Sayings of Publius Syrus, The Prophet, Essays, First Series — Friendship, Pride and Prejudice, De Amicitia.
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240 quotations from 66 voices and 145 named sources.
Length mix: 192 short · 48 medium · 0 long.
The writers represented here do not necessarily agree with one another.
Frequently represented voices include Jane Austen, Proverbs, Jesus, Paul the Apostle. Frequently represented works include The Moral Sayings of Publius Syrus, The Prophet, Essays, First Series — Friendship, Pride and Prejudice.
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66 distinct voices across 240 quotations and 145 named sources.
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“Angry people are not always wise.”
Pride and Prejudice · 1813Read meaning & context →“A soft answer turneth away wrath.”
King James Bible — Proverbs 15:1 · 1611Read meaning & context →“I have called you friends.”
King James Bible — John 15:15 · 1611Read meaning & context →“Charity suffereth long, and is kind.”
King James Bible — 1 Corinthians 13:4 · 1611Read meaning & context →“Parting is such sweet sorrow.”
Romeo and Juliet · c. 1595Read meaning & context →“Love is a great beautifier.”
Little Women · 1869Read meaning & context →“Lie not one to another.”
The short instruction makes honesty a basic requirement of life with other people.
Source note: Colossians 3:9 in the King James Version; the opening command is quoted here.
“Nay, rather they are men.”
The short correction rejects reducing people to social roles and insists on recognizing the person before the status assigned to them.
Source note: Letter 47 repeatedly answers social labels by emphasizing the common humanity of enslaved people.
“I have called you friends.”
The brief phrase reframes the relationship from mere obedience toward disclosed trust and personal closeness.
Source note: John 15:15 in the King James Version; Jesus contrasts servants with friends who have been told what he has heard.
“Love is a great beautifier.”
Affection changes perception, making the loved person and the surrounding world feel more vivid and valuable.
Source note: Little Women; the represented public-domain text places the sailing metaphor inside the novel’s broader language of learning through difficulty.
“Parting is such sweet sorrow.”
The phrase holds affection and pain together: separation hurts precisely because the relationship being left is valued.
Source note: Romeo and Juliet, Act 2, Scene 2; Juliet speaks as the lovers part for the night.
“Before him, I may think aloud.”
The line describes the relief of a friendship in which thought can be expressed openly before it is polished for public judgment.
Source note: Emerson continues his description of sincerity between friends in the essay Friendship.
“Whither thou goest, I will go.”
The promise expresses loyalty through shared direction: love is shown by choosing to accompany another person into an uncertain future.
Source note: Ruth 1:16 in the King James Version; Ruth’s pledge to Naomi.
“At ev'ry word a reputation dies.”
Pope compresses the destructive speed of fashionable gossip into a comic line about reputations being damaged in ordinary conversation.
Source note: The Rape of the Lock, Canto III; the line occurs in a satirical description of fashionable social talk rather than as literal reportage.
“Angry people are not always wise.”
Strong emotion can narrow judgment, so being certain while angry is not the same as being correct.
Source note: Pride and Prejudice; the line is preserved in the novel’s dialogue about anger, judgment, and the limits of certainty while emotions are high.
“A soft answer turneth away wrath.”
The proverb recommends a restrained response because tone can either lower or intensify conflict.
Source note: Proverbs 15:1 in the King James Version; the proverb contrasts a soft answer with speech that intensifies wrath.
“Your friend is your needs answered.”
Friendship is described through mutual presence and response, emphasizing what dependable companionship provides.
Source note: The Prophet, “On Friendship.”
“To err is human; to forgive, divine.”
Error is treated as ordinary human limitation, while forgiveness requires an additional act of generosity.
Source note: An Essay on Criticism, Part II; Pope warns that shallow learning can produce premature confidence before deeper study tempers judgment.
“Man is naturally a political animal.”
Human beings naturally form communities in which speech, judgment, cooperation, law, and shared ideas of justice shape common life.
Source note: Politics, Book I, William Ellis translation; Aristotle argues that the city develops from natural forms of association.
“Your children are not your children.”
Parenthood is framed as stewardship rather than ownership, leaving room for a child to become an independent person.
Source note: The Prophet, “On Children.”
“Charity suffereth long, and is kind.”
Love is defined partly through patience and kindness, shifting the idea from emotion alone toward repeated behavior under strain.
Source note: 1 Corinthians 13:4 in the King James Version; this is the opening clause of the verse.
“Fish and visitors stink in three days.”
Hospitality has limits, and the humor works by comparing an overlong visit with something that naturally becomes unpleasant over time.
Source note: Poor Richard’s Almanack; a comic maxim about hospitality, boundaries, and overstaying a welcome.
“No man is an island, entire of itself.”
Donne argues against imagining people as self-contained units; individual life is bound up with the lives of others.
Source note: Meditation XVII.
“If music be the food of love, play on.”
Love is treated as an appetite that can be intensified through beauty, sensation, and repeated emotional stimulation.
Source note: Act 1, Scene 1; Orsino opens the play by comparing music and appetite.
“Fear not: for am I in the place of God?”
Joseph refuses the role of final judge over the brothers who harmed him, creating space for reconciliation after fear and guilt.
Source note: Genesis 50:19 in the King James Version; Joseph answers his brothers after Jacob’s death when they fear retaliation.
“Fair weather friends are not worth much.”
Friendship that exists only while circumstances are easy has little value when loyalty is actually tested by difficulty.
Source note: Moral printed after “The Swallow and the Crow” in the Townsend translation of the fables.
“Friendship either finds or makes equals.”
Friendship works best where people meet one another with mutual regard, either because equality is already present or because the relationship creates it.
Source note: The Moral Sayings of Publius Syrus, saying 32, D. Lyman Jr. translation (1856).
“Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.”
The advice combines generosity with judgment: goodwill can be broad while trust remains selective.
Source note: All’s Well That Ends Well, Act 1, Scene 1; the Countess gives Bertram compact advice about conduct before he leaves.
“Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.”
The command uses care for oneself as the measure for care toward another person, linking healthy self-regard with outward responsibility rather than selfishness.
Source note: Matthew 22:39 in the King James Version.
“Oh Floy, take me home, and never leave me!”
Paul’s appeal to Florence makes his sister and home inseparable sources of safety and affection during his decline, intensifying the novel’s sibling bond.
Source note: Dombey and Son, Chapter 16, Project Gutenberg #821. The words are associated with the dying child Paul and his sister Florence; they are fictional dialogue, not Dickens autobiography.
“How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.”
The question opens a deliberate accounting of love, suggesting that affection becomes clearer when its different forms, depths, and expressions are named.
Source note: Sonnet 43 from Sonnets from the Portuguese; the poem proceeds by describing multiple dimensions of love.
“For grief indeed is love and grief beside.”
The sonnet treats grief as attachment plus the pain attached to what has been lost, refusing to separate sorrow cleanly from love.
Source note: Sonnets from the Portuguese, Sonnet XXXV; Project Gutenberg #2002. The statement is part of an intimate love sonnet shaped by earlier bereavements.
“For the soul seeks not adorers, but peers.”
Respectful relationship is distinguished from worship or dependency: a developed person seeks equals capable of intelligent sympathy rather than admirers who surrender judgment.
Source note: Life Without and Life Within, in Fuller’s essay discussion of Goethe and the artistic mind; the line contrasts genuine peers with mere worshippers.
“Confidence is the only bond of friendship.”
Trust is presented as the connective tissue of friendship: without confidence in one another, familiarity alone does not make a durable bond.
Source note: The Moral Sayings of Publius Syrus, saying 34, D. Lyman Jr. translation (1856).
“Happy is the house that shelters a friend!”
A home becomes meaningful through the quality of relationship it can shelter, not only through its comfort or possessions.
Source note: Emerson’s essay Friendship opens this passage by celebrating the house that receives a true friend.
“Give every man thy ear, but few thy voice.”
Listening broadly while speaking selectively is presented as a practical discipline for judgment, relationships, and self-control.
Source note: Act 1, Scene 3; Polonius advises Laertes before his departure.
“A true friend is, as it were, another self.”
The phrase captures the intimacy of friendship: another person becomes close enough that concern for them resembles concern for oneself.
Source note: Cicero’s De Amicitia describes true friendship as transferring natural self-love into a bond with another person.
“The family is one of nature’s masterpieces.”
The family is presented as a highly interdependent human arrangement in which different roles and needs support one another.
Source note: The Life of Reason, Reason in Society; the sentence opens a discussion of family bonds and reciprocal interests.
“My good opinion once lost, is lost forever.”
Darcy presents trust and esteem as difficult to restore once serious judgment has turned against someone, revealing both the firmness and the potential rigidity of his early character.
Source note: Pride and Prejudice, Chapter XI, Project Gutenberg #1342. Fitzwilliam Darcy says this to Elizabeth Bennet during their discussion of faults; Elizabeth immediately identifies the position as implacable resentment, so the novel itself does not leave the maxim unchallenged.
“Love cannot be stifled, but it may die out.”
Affection cannot always be suppressed by command, but it can still change over time when the conditions that sustained it disappear.
Source note: The Moral Sayings of Publius Syrus, saying 39, D. Lyman Jr. translation (1856).
“Time, not the will, can put an end to love.”
The maxim distinguishes deliberate decision from emotional change, suggesting that some attachments fade through time rather than a single act of will.
Source note: The Moral Sayings of Publius Syrus, saying 43, D. Lyman Jr. translation (1856).
“Allay the anger of your friend by kindness.”
Kindness can lower the temperature of conflict more effectively than matching a friend’s anger with additional anger.
Source note: The Moral Sayings of Publius Syrus, maxim 3, in Darius Lyman’s 1856 English rendering; maxim order can vary across editions.
“The only way to have a friend is to be one.”
Friendship is treated as reciprocal practice rather than something one can demand without embodying it.
Source note: Essay “Friendship.”
“We've got Father and Mother, and each other.”
Beth answers material lack by naming the relationships the sisters still possess, turning family presence into a concrete reason for gratitude rather than denying hardship.
Source note: Little Women, Chapter I; Beth responds while the March sisters compare their poverty and disappointments at the beginning of the novel.
“In all you speak, let truth and candor shine.”
Pope treats candor as part of good judgment: accurate criticism should also be spoken with integrity and fairness.
Source note: An Essay on Criticism, in the section describing the moral duties of a critic.
“But let there be spaces in your togetherness.”
Closeness can coexist with individuality; healthy connection does not require erasing personal space.
Source note: The Prophet, “On Marriage.”
“Love possesses not nor would it be possessed.”
Love is presented as relationship without ownership: closeness does not grant control over another person or require surrender of one’s own personhood.
Source note: The Prophet, “On Love”; Gibran warns against turning love into possession before describing love as sufficient unto itself.
“To whom ye forgive any thing, I forgive also.”
Paul makes forgiveness reciprocal and communal, showing that restoration can require people to align their response rather than preserve separate grievances.
Source note: 2 Corinthians 2:10, King James Version; Paul continues instructions about forgiving and receiving a person who had caused sorrow.
“The course of true love never did run smooth.”
Love is described as complicated rather than frictionless, which makes the line a durable reminder against idealizing relationships.
Source note: A Midsummer Night’s Dream, Act 1, Scene 1; Lysander says this to Hermia while describing the obstacles that repeatedly frustrate lovers. It is character dialogue inside their threatened relationship.
“O, she doth teach the torches to burn bright!”
Romeo’s first reaction to Juliet turns visual beauty into illumination, showing how admiration changes the way the surrounding scene is perceived.
Source note: Romeo and Juliet, Act 1, Scene 5.
“Friendship helps the young to keep from error.”
Aristotle gives friendship a practical educational role: trusted companions can help younger people avoid mistakes by supplying counsel, example and shared judgment.
Source note: Nicomachean Ethics, Book VIII, Chapter I, Project Gutenberg #8438. The sentence occurs in Aristotle’s opening inventory of why friendship is necessary across different stages of life.
“He that covereth a transgression seeketh love.”
The proverb distinguishes repairing a relationship from repeatedly reopening an offence, presenting discretion as one way love protects community.
Source note: Proverbs 17:9 in the King James Version; excerpt from the contrast between covering a transgression and repeating a matter.
“You pierce my soul. I am half agony, half hope.”
Wentworth’s letter holds pain and possibility together: the renewed declaration is intense because he still does not know whether Anne’s feelings have survived their long separation.
Source note: Persuasion, Chapter XXIII, Project Gutenberg #105. Captain Frederick Wentworth writes the line to Anne Elliot while listening to her conversation with Captain Harville; the letter is signed “F. W.” and is fictional character writing, not Austen autobiography.
“Do not find your happiness in another’s sorrow.”
A person’s good fortune is morally diminished when it depends on enjoying somebody else’s pain or humiliation.
Source note: The Moral Sayings of Publius Syrus, saying 18, D. Lyman Jr. translation (1856).
“The loss of a friend is the greatest of losses.”
The maxim treats friendship as a form of value that cannot be measured like property because losing the person also removes shared history and mutual presence.
Source note: The Moral Sayings of Publius Syrus, saying 37, D. Lyman Jr. translation (1856).
“There can be no alliance between Love and Fear.”
Love and fear pull a relationship in opposite directions when fear prevents honesty, security, or free affection.
Source note: The Moral Sayings of Publius Syrus, saying 40, D. Lyman Jr. translation (1856).
“My child! I'll go with you. You've got a mother.”
Mrs Tulliver’s immediate decision to accompany Maggie turns motherhood into concrete solidarity when her daughter expects rejection and isolation.
Source note: The Mill on the Floss, Book VII, Project Gutenberg #6688. Mrs Tulliver responds after Maggie returns under public condemnation.
“Because true mothers never forget their children”
The compact line expresses Mrs Jo’s conviction that maternal attachment persists despite separation, distance and a troubled family history.
Source note: Jo's Boys, Chapter 4, Project Gutenberg #3499. Spoken by Mrs Jo while urging Dan to remember his mother; it reflects fictional dialogue and Alcott's narrative world.
“A friend is a person with whom I may be sincere.”
Friendship permits unusual honesty because the relationship is secure enough to hold unguarded thought without constant performance.
Source note: In Friendship, Emerson names truth as one of the sovereign elements of the relationship.
“Three may keep a secret, if two of them are dead.”
The joke exaggerates how difficult secrecy becomes once information is shared, making discretion the safest form of confidentiality.
Source note: Poor Richard’s Almanack; one of Franklin’s compact maxims about secrecy and human behavior.
“Regard him as loyal, and you will make him loyal.”
Seneca suggests that suspicion can become self-reinforcing: treating a chosen friend as trustworthy helps create the conditions for candid, reciprocal friendship rather than teaching defensiveness from the outset.
Source note: Moral Letters to Lucilius, Letter 3, Richard M. Gummere translation. Seneca immediately contrasts this with people who fear deception so strongly that their suspicions help teach others to deceive them.
“The heart has its reasons, which reason knows not.”
Human judgment includes forms of intuition, feeling, and commitment that cannot always be reduced to explicit logical argument.
Source note: Pensées; Pascal contrasts forms of knowing associated with the heart and with discursive reason.
“For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow.”
Companionship matters most when one person can help another recover after a fall, setback, or moment of weakness.
Source note: Ecclesiastes 4:10, King James Version.
“What’s the good of a home, if you are never in it?”
Pooter turns his preference for staying home into a miniature philosophy, funny because the diary repeatedly treats ordinary domestic habits as matters of high principle.
Source note: The Diary of a Nobody, Chapter I; Charles Pooter explains why he prefers evenings at home with Carrie.
“You may give them your love but not your thoughts.”
Care can be generous without requiring another person to inherit every belief or preference.
Source note: The Prophet, “On Children.”
“Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another.”
The instruction places forgiveness beside forbearance: relationships often require both pardon after wrong and patience with ordinary human friction.
Source note: Colossians 3:13 in the King James Version; excerpt from the verse.
“A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly.”
Friendship is reciprocal: wanting reliable relationships also creates a responsibility to practice friendliness and presence toward other people.
Source note: Proverbs 18:24 in the King James Version; this record uses the opening clause.
“The evil you do to others you may expect in return.”
Harm has consequences that often return through retaliation, damaged trust, reputation, or the patterns of conduct we create.
Source note: The Moral Sayings of Publius Syrus, maxim 2, in Darius Lyman’s 1856 English rendering; maxim order can vary across editions.
“I pray thee, forgive the trespass of thine handmaid.”
Abigail asks pardon while attempting to prevent violence, connecting forgiveness with humility, mediation, and the practical work of interrupting retaliation.
Source note: 1 Samuel 25:28, King James Version; Abigail speaks to David during her appeal intended to avert bloodshed against Nabal’s household.
“And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.”
The prayer links asking for mercy with practicing mercy toward other people, making forgiveness a reciprocal moral discipline rather than a one-sided demand.
Source note: Matthew 6:12 in the King James Version.
“It is when you give of yourself that you truly give.”
Giving becomes deeper when it includes time, attention, effort, and presence rather than possessions alone.
Source note: The Prophet, “On Giving.”
“Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God.”
Love is framed as a practice people owe one another, not only as a private emotion or preference.
Source note: 1 John 4:7 in the King James Version; this record uses the opening clause of the verse.
“He that lies down with dogs shall rise up with fleas.”
The proverb uses a comic physical image to make a serious point: companions and environments often leave consequences behind.
Source note: Poor Richard’s Almanack; Franklin uses the image as a warning about association and consequences.
“All social relations have their roots in mutual trust”
Wagner treats trust as infrastructure for social life, implying that communication becomes costly and defensive when people cannot rely on one another’s sincerity.
Source note: The Simple Life, Chapter IV, “Simplicity of Speech,” Mary Louise Hendee translation, Project Gutenberg #23092; the surrounding paragraph discusses sincerity and confidence.
“Friendship springs from nature rather than from need.”
Friendship is not reduced to usefulness; Cicero argues that it arises from natural affection before calculations of advantage.
Source note: De Amicitia argues that the best friendship is sought for its own sake rather than for revenue or convenience.
“Friendship seems to be the bond of Social Communities.”
Friendship has a public dimension as well as a private one because trust and goodwill help hold communities together.
Source note: Nicomachean Ethics, Book VIII; the discussion connects friendship with social and political association.
“The language of Friendship is not words, but meanings.”
Thoreau argues that close friendship communicates through shared understanding that can run deeper than explicit statements, explanations, or ordinary conversational exchange.
Source note: A Week on the Concord and Merrimack Rivers, Wednesday; the friendship meditation contrasts true mutual understanding with the limits of conventional conversation.
“Blessed are the merciful: for they shall obtain mercy.”
Mercy is presented as a virtue that shapes both how a person treats others and the kind of moral world that person hopes to inhabit.
Source note: Matthew 5:7 in the King James Version.
“You give but little when you give of your possessions.”
Possessions can be given without much personal cost; Gibran prepares the contrast with giving one’s own time and presence.
Source note: The Prophet, “On Giving.”
“There is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.”
Some friendships become as dependable as family bonds, emphasizing closeness measured by steadfast presence rather than category alone.
Source note: Proverbs 18:24 in the King James Version; concluding clause of the verse.
“Love is like the measles; we all have to go through it.”
Romantic love is compared to an unavoidable childhood illness, making intense emotion comic by treating it as something people catch, endure, and eventually recover from.
Source note: The Idle Thoughts of an Idle Fellow, “On Being in Love”; the comparison opens the essay’s mock-medical treatment of romance.
“Hatred stirreth up strifes: but love covereth all sins.”
Hostility multiplies conflict, while love seeks repair and refuses to keep every wrong permanently active.
Source note: Proverbs 10:12, King James Version.
“Thine own friend, and thy father’s friend, forsake not.”
Longstanding relationships carry accumulated trust and should not be discarded casually when circumstances change.
Source note: Proverbs 27:10 in the King James Version; opening command of the verse.
“The ornament of a house is the friends who frequent it.”
A home gains much of its warmth and value from the people welcomed into it, not merely from possessions, decoration, or physical comfort.
Source note: Society and Solitude, “Domestic Life”; Emerson places friendship and the arrival of new people at the center of a lively and meaningful household.
“Humanity does not desire to be great, but to be beloved.”
Smith contrasts humane character with status-seeking by presenting affection and social trust, rather than greatness itself, as the fitting reward of humanity.
Source note: The Theory of Moral Sentiments, Part III, in Smith’s discussion of the rewards commonly associated with industry, truth, justice, and humanity.
“Have we not all one father? hath not one God created us?”
The questions appeal to shared origin as a reason to reject treating other people as fundamentally alien or disposable.
Source note: Malachi 2:10 in the King James Version; opening questions.
“Avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath.”
The instruction interrupts retaliation by asking people not to make personal revenge their response to injury, creating room for restraint and release.
Source note: Romans 12:19, King James Version; Paul tells readers not to avenge themselves within a larger sequence about responding to enemies and evil.
“Trust thyself: every heart vibrates to that iron string.”
The line makes self-trust a prerequisite for independent thought and action.
Source note: Essay “Self-Reliance.”
“Respect means love, and love and fear cannot be mingled.”
Seneca separates genuine respect from intimidation: a relationship governed by fear cannot provide the same moral bond as voluntary regard.
Source note: Letter 47, on master and slave, argues for humane treatment grounded in shared humanity.
“I wish that we should know and trust each other, Florence.”
Edith deliberately asks for mutual knowledge and trust with Florence before marriage joins their households, framing family relationship as something that must be built.
Source note: Dombey and Son, Chapter 30, Project Gutenberg #821. Edith speaks to Florence while inviting her into closer confidence.
“Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.”
The line describes intimacy as profound likeness rather than surface compatibility, making identity and attachment almost inseparable in the speaker’s imagination.
Source note: Wuthering Heights; Catherine explains the depth and identity-level nature of her attachment to Heathcliff.
“What you do not want done to yourself, do not do to others.”
A simple test for conduct is to consider whether we would accept the same treatment if our positions were reversed.
Source note: The Analects of Confucius, James Legge’s public-domain English translation; Book XV gives the maxim as a concise rule for conduct toward others.
“If I loved you less, I might be able to talk about it more.”
The difficulty of speaking is used as evidence of emotional depth, contrasting sincere feeling with polished or excessive declaration.
Source note: Chapter 49; Mr. Knightley struggles to express the depth of his feeling to Emma.
“There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear.”
Mature love is pictured as creating security rather than terror, especially where fear is tied to punishment and uncertainty.
Source note: 1 John 4:18 in the King James Version; this record uses the opening clauses of the verse.
“Give a little love to a child, and you get a great deal back.”
Ruskin presents affection toward children as relational rather than one-way: care given to a child can be met with trust, warmth and generosity in return.
Source note: The Crown of Wild Olive, Lecture I, “Work,” Project Gutenberg #26716, printed page 41. Ruskin places the sentence inside a Victorian Christian discussion of what he calls the loving and generous character of “right childhood”; this collection preserves that historical moral framework rather than treating every surrounding prescription as modern child-development evidence.
“Nothing is at last sacred but the integrity of your own mind.”
Emerson places inner integrity above conformity, arguing that a person should examine inherited standards rather than surrender judgment merely because they are socially approved.
Source note: Self-Reliance, in the passage beginning with Emerson’s argument for nonconformity.
“The will controls the beginnings of love, but not its endings.”
Entering a relationship may involve choice, but the later course of attachment can become more complicated than the decision that began it.
Source note: The Moral Sayings of Publius Syrus, saying 45, D. Lyman Jr. translation (1856).
“You did not come, And marching Time drew on, and wore me numb.”
Absence becomes more painful as time continues, with the missed meeting represented not as a single moment but as a prolonged experience of disappointed expectation.
Source note: “A Broken Appointment,” Poems of the Past and the Present (1901), Project Gutenberg #3168. The poem's speaker addresses an absent person; the line is retained as dramatic lyric context.
“Keep your eyes wide open before marriage, half shut afterwards.”
The maxim pairs careful choice before commitment with tolerance afterward, compressing a practical relationship philosophy into a comic contrast.
Source note: Poor Richard’s Almanack; a marital maxim later repeated in discussions of Franklin’s proverbial advice.
“Bear ye one another's burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.”
Mutual care is treated as an active responsibility: another person’s difficulty becomes something the community helps carry rather than merely observes.
Source note: Galatians 6:2 in the King James Version, in a passage about restoring and supporting one another.
“I have a high respect for your nerves. They are my old friends.”
Mr. Bennet turns Mrs. Bennet’s recurring complaint into dry affection, using understatement to expose a long-established family pattern.
Source note: Pride and Prejudice, Volume 1, Chapter 1; Mr. Bennet responds to his wife’s complaint about her nerves.
“Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.”
Support becomes concrete when people help carry difficulties that would otherwise be faced alone.
Source note: Galatians 6:2 in the King James Version.
“As in water face answereth to face, so the heart of man to man.”
The comparison suggests that people recognize themselves through other people, making relationship a mirror for character and inner life.
Source note: Proverbs 27:19 in the King James Version.
“Our intellectual and active powers increase with our affection.”
Affection can call forth capacities that remain dormant in isolation; Emerson illustrates the claim with a writer who suddenly finds thoughts and words when writing to a friend.
Source note: Essays: First Series, “Friendship,” Project Gutenberg #2944. Emerson follows the sentence with the example of a scholar who cannot write abstractly but finds language when composing a letter to a friend.
“No duty is more imperative than that of proving one's gratitude.”
Gratitude is framed as an obligation to recognize and answer benefits already received, not merely as a pleasant feeling toward a benefactor.
Source note: De Officiis, Book I, section 47; Cicero discusses how kindness already received creates a stronger duty of requital.
“We live at home, quiet, confined, and our feelings prey upon us.”
Anne links emotional persistence partly to social circumstance: restricted movement and occupation can leave fewer external demands to interrupt sustained feeling.
Source note: Persuasion, Chapter XXIII, Project Gutenberg #105. Anne Elliot says this to Captain Harville while contrasting women’s domestic confinement with men’s professions, business, travel and continual occupation. It is a historically situated fictional argument, not a modern mental-health claim.
“Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep.”
Friendship and community require emotional presence in both directions, sharing another person’s joy as well as sorrow.
Source note: Romans 12:15 in the King James Version.
“Trust love even if it brings sorrow. Do not close up your heart.”
The advice refuses to make sorrow a reason for emotional withdrawal, presenting openness to love as worthwhile even when attachment can also bring pain.
Source note: The Gardener, poem 27; Project Gutenberg #6686. This is dialogue within a lyric sequence, and the surrounding exchange explicitly pairs love with tears and enduring sorrow.
“Firm, steadfast, self-consistent men are to be chosen as friends.”
Reliable friendship depends on reliable character; steadiness matters because trust cannot grow when conduct constantly changes with advantage.
Source note: De Amicitia advises choosing friends whose character is firm and consistent.
“Love is like the wild rose-briar; Friendship like the holly-tree.”
Wild rose and holly become contrasting natural images for two kinds of attachment, setting up the poem’s question about beauty, season and constancy.
Source note: “Love and Friendship,” Project Gutenberg #1019. The comparison is a poetic metaphor, not a claim that friendship and romantic love always follow one fixed pattern.
“What is done out of love always takes place beyond good and evil.”
Nietzsche presents love as a motive that can resist simple moral classification, complicating attempts to judge every action by one fixed formula.
Source note: Beyond Good and Evil, aphorism 153, Helen Zimmern translation.
“And when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have ought against any.”
The instruction makes unresolved resentment relevant even in a private act of prayer: a grievance cannot simply be separated from the way a person approaches reconciliation and mercy.
Source note: Mark 11:25 in the King James Version; excerpt from the verse.
“When a man becomes dear to me I have touched the goal of fortune.”
Emerson relocates fortune from possessions to relationship: gaining someone genuinely dear can count as a form of wealth.
Source note: Friendship presents intimate human connection as a deeper kind of good fortune than material gain.
“It is twice blest: it blesseth him that gives and him that takes.”
Mercy is described as reciprocal in effect: it helps the recipient, but it also changes the moral character of the person who chooses to give it.
Source note: The Merchant of Venice, Act 4, Scene 1; Portia explains why mercy benefits both sides.
“Is it not delightful to have friends coming from distant quarters?”
Friendship gains special warmth when distance has not weakened the relationship and reunion becomes an occasion for shared joy.
Source note: The Analects of Confucius, James Legge’s public-domain English translation; Book I pairs learning with the pleasure of welcoming distant friends.
“Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath:”
Anger is acknowledged without giving it unlimited permission: the emphasis is on preventing the emotion from becoming harmful conduct or prolonged resentment.
Source note: Ephesians 4:26 in the King James Version, in a section about truthful speech, reconciliation, and conduct within community.
“Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath.”
The verse acknowledges anger while placing boundaries on what is done with it and how long it is allowed to govern a relationship.
Source note: Ephesians 4:26 in the King James Version.
“A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.”
Reliable relationships are revealed by constancy, especially when hardship makes support costly rather than convenient.
Source note: Proverbs 17:17, King James Version.
“One half of the world cannot understand the pleasures of the other.”
People often mistake their own preferences for universal standards, while real understanding requires room for different tastes and experiences.
Source note: The observation follows disagreement about what different people enjoy and value.
“How sharper than a serpent’s tooth it is to have a thankless child!”
The image captures the particular hurt of care being answered by ingratitude within a close family bond.
Source note: King Lear, Act 1, Scene 4.
“I can no other answer make but thanks, and thanks, and ever thanks.”
Sebastian responds to Antonio’s costly loyalty with repeated thanks while also admitting that words alone are an inadequate repayment for practical care.
Source note: Twelfth Night, Act 3, Scene 3, Project Gutenberg #1526. Sebastian says this to Antonio after Antonio explains that fear for Sebastian’s safety drove him to follow despite the danger of returning to Illyria; it is character dialogue, not Shakespeare autobiography.
“A desire for Friendship may arise quickly but not Friendship itself.”
Initial liking or a wish to become friends can happen immediately, but Aristotle reserves mature friendship for a relationship tested by time, familiarity and demonstrated character.
Source note: Nicomachean Ethics, Book VIII, Chapter III, Project Gutenberg #8438. Aristotle has just argued that people must become mutually known and prove themselves fit objects of friendship before the relationship is complete.
“Remember me when I am gone away, Gone far away into the silent land.”
The opening request names anticipated separation directly, making remembrance part of how love is imagined continuing after the speaker is gone.
Source note: “Remember,” first published in Goblin Market and Other Poems (1862); Project Gutenberg #16950. The sonnet later softens this request by allowing compassionate forgetting rather than demanding perpetual grief.
“One of my favorite fancies is to look at my family as a small world.”
A household becomes a miniature society where different temperaments must learn cooperation, responsibility, affection, boundaries, and ways of living together despite their differences.
Source note: Little Men; the family-as-world image frames Plumfield as a community in which varied children practice the habits needed for wider social life.
“And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another.”
Forgiveness is placed beside kindness and tenderheartedness, suggesting that pardon is not only the cancellation of a grievance but part of an ongoing way of treating people.
Source note: Ephesians 4:32 in the King James Version; excerpt from the verse before its comparison with divine forgiveness.
“The little child had come to link him once more with the whole world.”
The child reverses Silas’s isolation by creating a relationship that reconnects him with ordinary human concern, neighborhood life, affection, and a future beyond his private hoard.
Source note: Silas Marner; Eliot describes the social and emotional change produced by Eppie after Silas had withdrawn from other people and organized life around his gold.
“every unostentatious word or smile that shows a heart awake to others”
The phrase values small, unshowy signs of attention because they reveal active awareness of other people rather than performative benevolence.
Source note: Daniel Deronda; narrator-level phrase in a passage about unnoticed social influence and responsiveness to others.
“Montmorency’s ambition in life, is to get in the way and be sworn at.”
The narrator gives the dog a mock life-purpose centered on obstruction and provoking people, turning ordinary pet mischief into a grand statement of ambition.
Source note: Three Men in a Boat, packing episode; the narrator describes Montmorency repeatedly inserting himself into whatever the men are trying to pack.
“I knew it was much to be regretted, but still it was not to be helped.”
Pip recognizes that his changed ambitions separated him from a simpler life he now sees could have been better, yet he also acknowledges that the lost path cannot simply be restored by wishing.
Source note: Great Expectations, Project Gutenberg #1400. Pip says this to Biddy after admitting that settling at the forge with Joe—and perhaps eventually with Biddy—might have made him a different and better-satisfied person. The line is Pip’s fictional first-person speech.
“Forgive, I pray thee now, the trespass of thy brethren, and their sin;”
The request comes after their father’s death, when Joseph’s brothers fear retaliation and appeal directly for forgiveness of the wrong they committed against him.
Source note: Genesis 50:17, King James Version; Joseph’s brothers send a message asking pardon for their earlier wrongdoing against him.
“At least I prefer to write unwisely rather than to be silent unkindly.”
Marcus explains why he risks offering awkward advice to Fronto: preserving kindness and speaking when concern matters can be preferable to staying silent simply to avoid possible embarrassment.
Source note: Project Gutenberg #2680, correspondence appendix, Ad M. Caes. ii. 2. Marcus closes a letter about Fronto’s role in the Herodes Atticus dispute with this sentence. It is personal epistolary reasoning inside a specific conflict, not a universal rule to intervene in every disagreement.
“Our chief want in life, is, somebody who shall make us do what we can.”
Useful companionship can draw out capacities that remain dormant alone; encouragement matters most when it helps another person actually exercise what they can do.
Source note: The Conduct of Life; Emerson presents another person’s demanding encouragement as a form of service that calls forth unrealized ability.
“how anxious they are that your school life here will not be successful.”
Washington asks students to imagine the concern carried by people close to them, turning family anxiety into a reason to take school responsibilities seriously.
Source note: Character Building, “Growth,” Project Gutenberg #60484. The line sits inside a longer appeal to remember parents and others invested in the student’s success.
“Never let us be parted any more, Papa. Never let us be parted any more!”
The repeated plea marks reconciliation as a commitment to renewed family presence after years in which pride and neglect kept father and daughter emotionally apart.
Source note: Dombey and Son, Chapter 59, Project Gutenberg #821. Florence speaks while embracing her father after returning to him.
“The more I love humanity in general, the less I love man in particular.”
Abstract concern for humanity can coexist with impatience toward real people, exposing the gap between idealized benevolence and daily practice.
Source note: The Brothers Karamazov, Book II; Father Zossima recounts a doctor’s bitterly comic confession.
“I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven.”
The answer rejects a small numerical limit on forgiveness, making repeated mercy the point rather than merely reaching a quota.
Source note: Matthew 18:22 in the King James Version; Jesus answers Peter’s question about how often a brother should be forgiven.
“Wherefore putting away lying, speak every man truth with his neighbour.”
Truthfulness is framed as a responsibility within relationship, not merely as a private personal preference.
Source note: Ephesians 4:25 in the King James Version; the first clause and command are quoted here.
“Politeness and civility are the best capital ever invested in business.”
Respectful treatment is described as business capital because trust, repeat dealings, and reputation often depend on how people are treated as much as on the transaction itself.
Source note: The Art of Money Getting, “Be Polite and Kind to Your Customers”; Barnum treats civility as a practical part of durable commercial reputation.
“I wish that friendship should have feet, as well as eyes and eloquence.”
Emerson wants friendship to become practical conduct rather than remain admiration or beautiful speech: real affection should show itself in ordinary acts of presence, usefulness and care.
Source note: Essays: First Series, “Friendship,” Project Gutenberg #2944. Emerson immediately explains that friendship must “plant itself on the ground” and connect lofty feeling with practical civic virtues and aid.
“Seldom, very seldom, does complete truth belong to any human disclosure.”
Austen observes that even sincere accounts can contain omission, disguise, or misunderstanding, which makes careful listening and humility important in judging what people say.
Source note: Emma, Volume III, Chapter 13, during the narrator’s reflection on Emma and Mr. Knightley’s conversation.
“Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.”
Good relationships can improve judgment and character through challenge, conversation, and mutual influence.
Source note: Proverbs 15:1 in the King James Version; the proverb contrasts a soft answer with speech that intensifies wrath.
“Adversity shows whether we have friends, or only the shadows of friends.”
Difficulty tests whether a relationship has substance because support under pressure reveals more than companionship during easy circumstances.
Source note: The Moral Sayings of Publius Syrus, saying 35, D. Lyman Jr. translation (1856).
“Men exist for the sake of one another. Teach them then or bear with them.”
Human interdependence creates two practical choices when others fall short: help them learn when possible, or practice patient endurance when change is unavailable.
Source note: Meditations, Book VIII; George Long translation in Thoughts of Marcus Aurelius Antoninus.
“That her hand may be given with dignity, she must be able to stand alone.”
A relationship entered from the ability to stand independently can preserve dignity more fully than one made necessary by the inability to exist outside it.
Source note: Woman in the Nineteenth Century; Fuller connects the dignity of freely giving oneself in relationship with the prior ability to stand independently.
“Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.”
Shared effort can increase both practical results and resilience because responsibility does not rest on one person alone.
Source note: Ecclesiastes 4:9, King James Version.
“Love in action is a harsh and dreadful thing compared with love in dreams.”
Real love asks for repeated effort, patience, and inconvenience, unlike imagined love that can remain noble without enduring another person’s needs.
Source note: The Brothers Karamazov, Father Zossima’s response in the chapter “A Lady of Little Faith.”
“If ye from your hearts forgive not every one his brother their trespasses.”
The emphasis falls on forgiveness that is more than outward compliance: the teaching demands a response rooted in the heart rather than merely performed.
Source note: Matthew 18:35, King James Version; the sentence concludes the parable of the unforgiving servant and returns to forgiveness between people.
“Friendship is certainly the finest balm for the pangs of disappointed love.”
Friendship is framed as practical emotional support when romantic hopes fail, without pretending it instantly removes disappointment.
Source note: Northanger Abbey.
“Be sincere, moderate, simple in the expression of your feelings and opinions”
The advice combines candor with restraint: truthful expression does not require exaggeration, and moderation can make feelings and opinions more faithful to their source.
Source note: The Simple Life, Chapter IV, “Simplicity of Speech,” Mary Louise Hendee translation, Project Gutenberg #23092; Wagner links sincerity, moderation and plain expression.
“What do we live for, if it is not to make life less difficult to each other?”
A meaningful life is connected with reducing other people’s burdens, making usefulness and care central rather than peripheral.
Source note: Middlemarch, Book VIII.
“If he trespass against thee seven times in a day ... thou shalt forgive him.”
Repeated offence makes forgiveness harder, which is exactly the point of the passage: the moral demand is not limited to the first easy opportunity to forgive.
Source note: Luke 17:4 in the King James Version; the middle repetition is shortened with an ellipsis while preserving the verse’s instruction.
“Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you.”
The teaching moves beyond merely withholding retaliation and asks for active goodwill toward opponents, making forgiveness part of a transformed response to hostility.
Source note: Matthew 5:44, King James Version; Jesus commands love, blessing, and good action toward enemies within the Sermon on the Mount.
“All happy families are alike; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.”
The famous opening contrasts shared conditions that support family stability with the many distinct ways relationships can break down.
Source note: Anna Karenina, opening sentence.
“How great my grief, my joys how few, Since first it was my fate to know thee!”
The speaker measures a relationship by the imbalance between grief and joy, making recollection itself the structure through which attachment and loss are assessed.
Source note: “How Great My Grief,” Poems of the Past and the Present (1901), Project Gutenberg #3168. It is a dramatic lyric statement and is not automatically read as direct autobiography.
“Never free to compromise her self-respect, to seek where she had been shunned.”
The narration marks self-respect as a boundary: rejection does not create an obligation to keep pursuing acceptance at the cost of dignity.
Source note: Shirley; fictional narrative description within the novel’s relationship context. The line describes a character’s restraint and must not be presented as a direct autobiographical maxim by Charlotte Brontë.
“Faithful are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.”
Honest correction from a real friend may hurt more than flattery, but its purpose and reliability make it more valuable.
Source note: Proverbs 27:6, King James Version.
“those who have done the most for you, those who have stood by you most closely.”
The phrase directs attention toward the people whose sustained presence and help deserve to be remembered when evaluating one’s own conduct.
Source note: Character Building, “Have You Done Your Best?”, Project Gutenberg #60484. Washington is asking students to imagine answering to parents or their nearest and dearest friends.
“Make no friendship with an angry man; and with a furious man thou shalt not go:”
The proverb treats repeated fury as socially contagious, warning that close association can shape habits and judgment.
Source note: Proverbs 22:24 in the King James Version; the next verse warns that a person can learn the ways of the habitually angry.
“Is not prosperity robbed of half its value if you have no one to share your joy?”
Good fortune becomes more meaningful when it can be shared, making companionship part of the value of prosperity itself.
Source note: Laelius on Friendship; the surrounding passage pairs shared joy with support during misfortune.
“If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him.”
This passage does not equate forgiveness with silence about harm: it places honest confrontation and forgiveness in the same sequence when repentance follows.
Source note: Luke 17:3 in the King James Version.
“Wherefore comfort yourselves together, and edify one another, even as also ye do.”
Encouragement is described as mutual work: people strengthen a community by helping one another recover perspective and continue.
Source note: 1 Thessalonians 5:11 in the King James Version, calling readers to comfort and build one another up.
“Selfishness must always be forgiven you know, because there is no hope of a cure.”
The line is comic rather than literal advice, using exaggeration to expose how readily people excuse entrenched self-interest.
Source note: Mary Crawford makes the remark while discussing motives and conduct in company.
“A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another; as I have loved you.”
Love is presented as an active obligation shaped by example, not merely a private feeling.
Source note: John 13:34, King James Version.
“I love talking about nothing, father. It is the only thing I know anything about.”
The line makes conversation comic by combining cheerful self-deprecation with a claim of expertise in precisely nothing.
Source note: An Ideal Husband; Lord Goring jokes with his father about the subjects he is qualified to discuss.
“Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others.”
Attention to other people’s interests expands life beyond self-concern and makes cooperation and care possible.
Source note: Philippians 2:4 in the King James Version.
“For love is the desire of the whole, and the pursuit of the whole is called love.”
Aristophanes presents love as a longing to recover wholeness, but the claim belongs to his deliberately mythic account of divided human beings rather than to a literal theory of human origins.
Source note: Symposium, Aristophanes’s speech, Benjamin Jowett translation, Project Gutenberg #1600. The sentence concludes the comic myth of humans split into halves; it is a speaker position inside Plato’s dialogue, not direct autobiography or anthropology by Plato.
“We run not only to congratulate the successful, but to condole with the afflicted.”
Shared life includes both celebration and consolation: Smith treats sympathetic participation in another person’s sorrow as a basic feature of social feeling.
Source note: The Theory of Moral Sentiments, Part I discussion of sympathy with joy and affliction; represented by the 1777 Dublin edition in Project Gutenberg #67363.
“How poor are they that have not patience! What wound did ever heal but by degrees?”
The image recognizes that wounds and complicated situations change gradually rather than instantly, but the dramatic context warns against automatically treating a persuasive maxim as trustworthy advice.
Source note: Othello, Act 2, Scene 3, Project Gutenberg #1531. Iago says this to Roderigo while encouraging patience with a manipulative plot; the speaker context is therefore essential to interpretation.
“The holly is dark when the rose-briar blooms, But which will bloom most constantly?”
The seasonal contrast asks whether the less showy bond may prove more constant once the most visibly attractive season has passed.
Source note: “Love and Friendship,” Project Gutenberg #1019. The question belongs to the poem’s rose-and-holly metaphor for love and friendship.
“For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.”
Forgiveness is framed as conduct expected from people who themselves depend on mercy, tying belief to the way injury is answered.
Source note: Matthew 6:14 in the King James Version.
“For the strength of the Pack is the Wolf, and the strength of the Wolf is the Pack.”
Individual strength and group strength reinforce one another when responsibility runs in both directions.
Source note: “The Law of the Jungle,” in The Second Jungle Book.
“Have confidence in yourself, and believe that you are proceeding on the right path.”
Seneca makes self-confidence a condition of steadiness: tranquility depends partly on trusting a course that has been examined rather than continually surrendering judgment to outside pressure.
Source note: Of Peace of Mind, section II; the public-domain Aubrey Stewart translation connects tranquility with confidence in one’s chosen path while warning against restless self-doubt.
“What’s in a name? That which we call a rose by any other word would smell as sweet.”
The line questions whether labels and inherited identities should determine the value or reality of the person beneath them.
Source note: Act 2, Scene 2; Juliet separates Romeo from the social meaning of his family name.
“Life appears to me too short to be spent in nursing animosity or registering wrongs.”
Helen Burns argues that sustained resentment consumes a life already limited by time; her position favors releasing animosity while still naming another person’s conduct as unjust.
Source note: Jane Eyre, Lowood sequence, Project Gutenberg #1260. Helen Burns says this after Jane recounts Mrs. Reed’s cruelty. Helen then explicitly says she can forgive the person while abhorring the crime, so the passage does not require pretending the wrong was acceptable.
“Dread remorse when you are tempted to err, Miss Eyre; remorse is the poison of life.”
Rochester describes remorse as corrosive because wrongdoing can continue to poison later life; the scene immediately turns to the harder question of whether repentance or actual reformation can change what follows.
Source note: Jane Eyre, Project Gutenberg #1260. Rochester says this to Jane while recounting his own decline. Jane replies that repentance is said to cure remorse; Rochester answers that reformation may be its cure. This is fictional character dialogue, not Charlotte Brontë’s direct psychological advice.
“And ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”
Separation can expose the depth of attachment that ordinary familiarity concealed, making loss a painful measure of how much the bond mattered.
Source note: The Prophet, “On Love.”
“Be clothed with humility: for God resisteth the proud, and giveth grace to the humble.”
Humility is described as something practiced visibly in community, not merely an inward opinion about oneself.
Source note: 1 Peter 5:5 in the King James Version; this excerpt keeps the central humility clause.
“Trust not your self; but your defects to know, make use of ev’ry friend—and ev’ry foe.”
Pope treats criticism from both allies and opponents as information that can expose blind spots.
Source note: An Essay on Criticism, in the passage warning against pride in judgment.
“those who are near and dear to you, those who have done more for you than anybody else”
The address explicitly centers people who have given sustained help, making awareness of that support part of the motivation for continued growth.
Source note: Character Building, “Growth,” Project Gutenberg #60484. Washington uses the phrase while urging students to make the coming year their best.
“When one is in love one begins by deceiving oneself. And one ends by deceiving others.”
The line turns romance into a two-stage comedy of self-deception and social deception, exaggerating cynicism to expose how desire distorts judgment.
Source note: A Woman of No Importance, Act III; Lord Illingworth answers Gerald’s question about love with the romance/self-deception epigram. The exact catalog wording is supported by this play, not by The Picture of Dorian Gray.
“A friend loves you, of course; but one who loves you is not in every case your friend.”
Affection alone does not define friendship; durable friendship also involves character, trust, and a shared way of relating.
Source note: Letter 35 distinguishes friendship from affection while Seneca urges Lucilius toward moral progress.
“You are dear to me, Florence. I did not think that anything could ever be so dear to me”
Edith’s attachment to Florence becomes an unexpected form of family affection within a household otherwise marked by coldness, pride and strained marriage.
Source note: Dombey and Son, Chapter 35, Project Gutenberg #821. Edith speaks to Florence; the line belongs to their fictional relationship inside the Dombey household.
“Forgiveness to the injured does belong; But they ne’er pardon, who have done the wrong.”
Zulema cynically suggests that pardon belongs to the person who was harmed while the wrongdoer may remain trapped in shame or hostility; the drama immediately undercuts him by showing that he plans fresh deception.
Source note: The Conquest of Granada, Part II, The Works of John Dryden, Volume IV, Project Gutenberg #15349. Zulema speaks after being pardoned and immediately proposes “feigned honesty” to regain trust, making this a compromised character perspective rather than Dryden’s direct moral instruction.
“To lose one parent may be regarded as a misfortune—to lose both seems like carelessness.”
Lady Bracknell’s absurdly bureaucratic response turns tragedy into a social failing, which is funny because her concern for status overwhelms ordinary sympathy.
Source note: The Importance of Being Earnest, Act 1; Lady Bracknell reacts to Jack’s uncertain parentage.
“And hath made of one blood all nations of men for to dwell on all the face of the earth.”
Human difference is placed inside a shared human origin, supporting a broad view of common dignity and belonging.
Source note: Acts 17:26 in the King James Version; opening clause.
“My little children, let us not love in word, neither in tongue; but in deed and in truth.”
Love is measured by conduct rather than verbal display, making practical help and truthful action more important than affectionate claims alone.
Source note: 1 John 3:18 in the King James Version, following a contrast between having resources and closing oneself to another person’s need.
“For what do we live, but to make sport for our neighbours, and laugh at them in our turn?”
Mr. Bennet’s joke treats social observation as reciprocal: everyone is somebody else’s entertainment, including the people doing the laughing.
Source note: Pride and Prejudice, Chapter 57; Mr. Bennet comments on the absurd rumour concerning Elizabeth and Darcy.
“A boy’s love comes from a full heart; a man’s is more often the result of a full stomach.”
The contrast punctures mature romantic eloquence by suggesting comfort and appetite can masquerade as passion, while youthful awkwardness may reveal more direct feeling.
Source note: The Idle Thoughts of an Idle Fellow, “On Being in Love”; the narrator contrasts youthful shyness with the polished declarations of older men.
“I don't want any time! I know who I love best, who I'm happiest with, and I choose uncle.”
Rose’s choice of guardian is grounded in affection, trust and felt happiness, making chosen family attachment central to where she understands home to be.
Source note: Eight Cousins; Or, The Aunt-Hill, Chapter 21, Project Gutenberg #38567. Rose chooses Uncle Alec when relatives ask which household she wants to join.
“He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.”
Companions shape judgment and habits, so choosing relationships also means choosing some of the influences that shape a life.
Source note: Proverbs 13:20, King James Version.
“He that has much in common with a fellow-man will have all things in common with a friend.”
Friendship grows from shared humanity and becomes deeper when common concerns are treated as mutual rather than strictly private.
Source note: Letter 48 discusses friendship, shared interests, and philosophy’s obligations to other people.
“Papa! Dearest Papa! Pardon me, forgive me! I have come back to ask forgiveness on my knees.”
Florence approaches her estranged father through humility and forgiveness, making reunion depend on restored relationship rather than on winning an argument about the past.
Source note: Dombey and Son, Chapter 59, Project Gutenberg #821. Florence returns to Mr Dombey after his collapse and asks for reconciliation.
“you mustn't think o' running away from father. What 'ud father do without his little wench?”
Mr Tulliver answers a child’s impulse to run away by stressing reciprocal attachment: Maggie matters to her father as much as she depends on him.
Source note: The Mill on the Floss, Book I, Project Gutenberg #6688. Mr Tulliver speaks to Maggie; dialect and fictional voice are retained rather than normalized into authorial advice.
“’Tis my opinion that a man should lend himself to others, and only give himself to himself.”
Montaigne distinguishes participating in other people’s affairs from surrendering one’s whole inward life to them: engagement can be generous without allowing every external demand to possess the will.
Source note: Essays, Book III, Chapter X, “Of Managing the Will,” Charles Cotton translation; Project Gutenberg Complete Essays #3600, with the chapter also preserved in Gutenberg volume #3598. Montaigne is describing his personal method of limiting how strongly public affairs and external attachments possess him, not issuing a universal therapy rule.
“Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another;”
Mutual regard includes both affection and deliberate respect, emphasizing how people treat one another rather than only what they feel privately.
Source note: Romans 12:10 in the King James Version, in a sequence of instructions about sincere love, generosity, patience, and shared responsibility.
“First keep thyself in peace, and then shalt thou be able to be a peacemaker towards others.”
The devotional instruction makes inward steadiness prior to outward peacemaking: a person who is internally ruled by agitation will struggle to reduce conflict in relationships around them.
Source note: The Imitation of Christ, Chapter III, “Of the good, peaceable man,” William Benham translation, Project Gutenberg #1653. The surrounding passage is explicitly Christian devotional teaching about peace, suspicion, anger and living peaceably with difficult people.
“The soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul.”
The image of two lives being knit together describes friendship as deep attachment rather than casual acquaintance or temporary convenience.
Source note: 1 Samuel 18:1 in the King James Version; the verse introduces the bond between Jonathan and David.
“the two children forgot everything else in the sense that they had one father and one sorrow.”
Shared grief temporarily overrides conflict between Tom and Maggie, revealing their sibling bond through the experience of loving and fearing for the same father.
Source note: The Mill on the Floss, Book III, Project Gutenberg #6688. Narrator commentary while Tom and Maggie sit beside their father.
“When friendship is settled, you must trust; before friendship is formed, you must pass judgment.”
Seneca separates two stages that are often confused: evaluate carefully before admitting someone into close friendship, then stop treating an accepted friend as though the relationship were still permanently on trial.
Source note: Moral Letters to Lucilius, Letter 3, “On True and False Friendship,” Richard M. Gummere translation. The letter argues against both careless openness and suspicious friendship; Letter 3 provenance still normalizes to the single Moral Letters work family for Seneca authority.
“Ointment and perfume rejoice the heart: so doth the sweetness of a man’s friend by hearty counsel.”
Good counsel from a trusted friend is compared with a pleasing fragrance because it can refresh the heart while also offering substance.
Source note: Proverbs 27:9 in the King James Version.
“we must be as reliable and as responsible as it is possible for the people of any other race to be.”
Washington makes reliability and responsibility central to the institutional and racial-uplift argument of the address, tying opportunity to dependable conduct.
Source note: Character Building, “The Importance of Being Reliable,” Project Gutenberg #60484. The race language belongs to Washington’s historical response to discriminatory judgments and employment conditions.
“O, beware, my lord, of jealousy; It is the green-eyed monster which doth mock the meat it feeds on.”
Jealousy is described as self-consuming because it feeds on suspicion while tormenting the person who carries it.
Source note: Othello, Act 3, Scene 3.
“A principal fruit of friendship is the ease and discharge of the fulness and swellings of the heart.”
Friendship gives difficult feelings somewhere safe to go; speaking with a trusted person can reduce the pressure of thoughts carried alone.
Source note: Of Friendship; Bacon names emotional disclosure as one of friendship’s principal benefits.
“Jonathan caused David to swear again, because he loved him: for he loved him as he loved his own soul.”
Jonathan’s repeated covenant with David presents friendship as loyalty strong enough to carry obligation even under political and family pressure.
Source note: 1 Samuel 20:17 in the King James Version; Jonathan renews his covenant with David.
“It is a mere and miserable solitude to want true friends, without which the world is but a wilderness.”
Bacon distinguishes physical company from genuine companionship: crowds and acquaintances cannot replace the kind of trusted relationship that makes social life feel inhabited rather than empty.
Source note: Essays, “Of Friendship,” Project Gutenberg #56463. Bacon follows his contrast between crowds and real company by describing the absence of true friends as a deeper form of solitude.
“Love a man even in his sin, for that is the semblance of Divine Love and is the highest love on earth.”
Father Zossima separates care for a person from approval of wrongdoing, locating mercy inside his explicitly Christian teaching that human failure should not extinguish love.
Source note: The Brothers Karamazov, Father Zossima’s discourse, Constance Garnett translation, Project Gutenberg #28054. This is fictional theological speech by Zossima; it should not be flattened into a modern psychological rule or uncomplicated Dostoevsky autobiography.
“He that covereth a transgression seeketh love; but he that repeateth a matter separateth very friends.”
The proverb contrasts discretion with repeated reopening of an offence, recognizing that the way conflict is handled can preserve or fracture friendship.
Source note: Proverbs 17:9 in the King James Version.
“Happy the boys and girls who tell all things freely to father or mother, sure of pity, help, and pardon”
Family trust is pictured as freedom to disclose trouble without expecting abandonment, with pity, practical help and forgiveness making honest communication safer.
Source note: Eight Cousins; Or, The Aunt-Hill, Chapter 17, Project Gutenberg #38567. Narrator commentary on confidence between children and parents.
“Who comforteth us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort them which are in any trouble.”
Received comfort becomes a responsibility toward others, turning personal experience of difficulty into practical empathy and support.
Source note: 2 Corinthians 1:4 in the King James Version; the clause is excerpted before the verse repeats the source of comfort.
“Solitude will cure us when we are sick of crowds, and crowds will cure us when we are sick of solitude.”
Neither isolation nor company is treated as a universal cure; Seneca recommends changing conditions when either extreme becomes mentally exhausting, favoring flexible balance over rigid withdrawal.
Source note: Of Peace of Mind; near the work’s practical close, Seneca recommends alternating solitude and company rather than treating either condition as sufficient by itself.
“fatherly and motherly hearts often beat warm and wise in the breasts of bachelor uncles and maiden aunts”
The novel broadens family care beyond biological parents, recognizing that uncles and aunts can provide forms of affection, judgment and protection associated with parenthood.
Source note: Eight Cousins; Or, The Aunt-Hill, Chapter 17, Project Gutenberg #38567. Narrator commentary about Rose and Mac turning naturally to Dr Alec.
“No one would choose to live without friends though he should have all the other good things in the world.”
Friendship is treated not as an optional luxury but as part of a flourishing life, even when material needs and other advantages are already supplied.
Source note: Nicomachean Ethics, Book VIII; Aristotle begins his discussion of friendship by treating it as necessary to a good life.
“There are chance meetings with strangers that interest us from the first moment, before a word is spoken.”
The narrator observes that attention and interest can arise before conversation, capturing the immediate impressions people sometimes form in an encounter without claiming those impressions are necessarily accurate.
Source note: Crime and Punishment, Part I, Chapter II, Constance Garnett translation, Project Gutenberg #2554. This is narrator voice introducing Raskolnikov’s first interest in Marmeladov at the tavern, not a universal psychological law.
“I see that Daisy is bound up in Nat; and if he is worthy of her I shall let them be happy in their own way”
Parental care here includes allowing an adult child to choose her own relationship when the parent judges the partner worthy rather than controlling the outcome.
Source note: Jo's Boys, Chapter 10, Project Gutenberg #3499. Mrs Meg is considering Daisy and Nat; the surrounding dialogue explicitly compares her choice with the freedom her own parents gave her.
“Wherefore putting away lying, speak every man truth with his neighbour: for we are members one of another.”
The verse connects truthful speech with mutual dependence: honesty matters because people live in relationship rather than as isolated individuals.
Source note: Ephesians 4:25 in the King James Version.
“The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen nor even touched, but just felt in the heart.”
Some of the most valuable parts of life are experienced through affection, meaning, trust, and inner response rather than physical possession.
Source note: The Story of My Life; the sentence appears in Keller’s correspondence included in the volume.
“Snow-bound in woodland, a mournful word, Dropt now and then from the bill of a bird, Reached me on wind-wafts.”
A winter bird-call reaches the speaker inside a snowbound wood, giving a postponed meeting an atmosphere of distance, waiting and subdued natural sound.
Source note: “Postponement,” collected in Wessex Poems and Other Verses (1898), Project Gutenberg #3167. The poem's landscape frames a delayed relationship encounter and is not generic weather description.
“the mother pleased herself with wearing out her own hands to save the hands that had so much more life in them.”
The narrator depicts maternal sacrifice through physical labour, showing Mrs Tulliver taking extra wear upon herself to preserve more possibility for her daughter.
Source note: The Mill on the Floss, Book IV, Project Gutenberg #6688. Narrator commentary on Mrs Tulliver's work for Maggie; the period gender context remains part of the scene.
“My mother gave it to me; and when you read it try to believe that neither of your mothers will ever forget you.”
A book passed from one mother to another generation becomes a symbol of continuing care, linking memory, reading and the idea of maternal presence across absence.
Source note: Jo's Boys, Chapter 4, Project Gutenberg #3499. Mrs Jo gives Dan a book that came from her own mother and speaks of both maternal bonds.
“It was Phebe, poor little Phebe, who never had a home, never knew the love of father or mother, brother or sister”
Phebe’s exclusion from ordinary family relationships makes the household’s sense of home visible by contrast and deepens Rose’s awareness of what belonging provides.
Source note: Eight Cousins; Or, The Aunt-Hill, Chapter 19, Project Gutenberg #38567. Narrator description contrasts Phebe's childhood without family with the Campbell household around her.
“There is no investment a business man can make that will pay him a greater per cent, than patience and amiability.”
Marden applies temperament to commerce, arguing that patience and pleasant treatment of other people can have practical value in business relationships.
Source note: Cheerfulness as a Life Power; Project Gutenberg #18394. The sentence reflects late nineteenth-century business advice and period language.
“Such friendship at once enhances the lustre of prosperity, and by dividing and sharing adversity lessens its burden.”
A good friend does not matter only in crisis: companionship can enlarge good fortune while also making hardship easier to carry because difficulty is no longer borne alone.
Source note: De Amicitia, section 6–7 transition, Project Gutenberg #7491. Cicero contrasts true and perfect friendship with merely moderate association and emphasizes its usefulness in both prosperity and adversity.
“I like persons better than principles, and I like persons with no principles better than anything else in the world.”
Lord Henry pushes his preference for people over abstract morality into deliberate absurdity, making provocation itself part of the humor.
Source note: The Picture of Dorian Gray, 1891 edition, Chapter 1; Lord Henry tells Basil that he likes persons better than principles and extends the joke to people with no principles.
“It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune, must be in want of a wife.”
The famous opening exposes assumptions about money, marriage, and social expectations while sounding as if it were stating an unquestionable fact.
Source note: Opening sentence of Chapter 1; the narrator immediately signals the novel’s social irony.
“Brothers and sisters ought to live together; especially when the brother needs some one to make home pleasant for him”
Sibling closeness is connected to the making of a home, with companionship presented as practical care rather than only a family label.
Source note: Eight Cousins; Or, The Aunt-Hill, Chapter 21, Project Gutenberg #38567. Charlie is trying to persuade Rose to choose a household after her guardianship question is raised.
“There was love between him and the child that blent them into one, and there was love between the child and the world.”
Affection between caregiver and child becomes a bridge rather than a closed bond: loving the child also draws Silas outward toward the wider world she naturally engages.
Source note: Silas Marner; the narration emphasizes that Eppie’s attachment joins Silas not only to her but also to the social world from which he had retreated.
“Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves.”
The instruction moves humility into relationships by asking people to resist rivalry and deliberately give weight to the interests and dignity of others.
Source note: Philippians 2:3 in the King James Version.
“Friendship is nothing else than entire fellow feeling as to all things human and divine with mutual good-will and affection.”
Cicero defines the strongest friendship as a broad sharing of concern, judgment and goodwill rather than a narrow exchange of favors or useful contacts.
Source note: De Amicitia, section 6, Project Gutenberg #7491. Laelius is the dialogue speaker in Cicero’s philosophical treatment of friendship; the sentence defines friendship through mutual goodwill and affection.
“Those things which a man cannot amend in himself or in others, he ought patiently to bear, until God shall otherwise ordain.”
The devotional advice separates attempted correction from patient endurance: when a fault cannot presently be changed, continued struggle to control it may need to give way to forbearance.
Source note: The Imitation of Christ, Book I, Chapter XVI, “Of bearing with the faults of others,” William Benham translation, Project Gutenberg #1653. The chapter is explicitly Christian devotional teaching and continues by urging patience with others partly because each person also has faults that others must bear.
“We stood by a pond that winter day, And the sun was white, as though chidden of God, And a few leaves lay on the starving sod.”
A drained winter landscape mirrors the emotional coldness of a failing relationship, with pale sun, dead leaves and barren ground shaping the poem's remembered scene.
Source note: “Neutral Tones,” collected in Wessex Poems and Other Verses (1898), Project Gutenberg #3167. Hardy's landscape is part of a dramatic lyric memory, not a claim that winter inherently causes sadness.
“Regrets are the natural property of grey hairs; and I enjoy, in common with all other men, at least my share of such inheritance.”
Old Martin treats regret as an almost ordinary inheritance of age: living long enough produces memories of choices, estrangements and missed opportunities that cannot all be revisited without hindsight.
Source note: Martin Chuzzlewit, Chapter X, Project Gutenberg #968. Old Martin Chuzzlewit says this while speaking to Pecksniff. The scene is part of a deliberately strategic performance inside the novel, so the maxim remains attached to the character rather than being flattened into direct Dickens autobiography.
“What can be more delightful than to have some one to whom you can say everything with the same absolute confidence as to yourself?”
Close friendship creates a rare space for frank speech because confidence in the other person removes the need for continual self-protection.
Source note: Laelius on Friendship, translated by Evelyn S. Shuckburgh in Project Gutenberg’s Treatises on Friendship and Old Age.
“Health is the greatest of gifts, contentedness the best riches; trust is the best of relationships, Nirvana the highest happiness.”
The verse ranks contentment above possession by calling it the best form of wealth, linking well-being with enoughness, trustworthy relationship, and spiritual liberation.
Source note: Dhammapada 204, Max Müller translation; the final reference to Nirvana makes the verse explicitly Buddhist rather than a purely secular maxim.
“She had been forced into prudence in her youth, she learned romance as she grew older: the natural sequel of an unnatural beginning.”
The narrator summarizes Anne’s development as a reversal: excessive caution shaped her early choice, while experience later teaches her to value warmer confidence and attachment.
Source note: Persuasion, Chapter IV, Project Gutenberg #105. This is narrator commentary after Anne reconsiders the engagement she ended at nineteen under Lady Russell’s persuasion.
“A dog like that don’t want any encouragement. It’s the natural, original sin that is born in him that makes him do things like that.”
The mock-theological explanation treats ordinary canine mischief as inherited moral corruption, exaggerating the dog’s nuisance behavior into a theory of original sin.
Source note: Three Men in a Boat, packing episode; the narrator rejects Harris’s claim that he encourages Montmorency’s disruptive behavior.
“And so the good man ought to be Self-loving: because by doing what is noble he will have advantage himself and will do good to others.”
Aristotle distinguishes a worthy form of self-love from selfish appetite: the good person values the rational and noble part of life in a way that benefits both the self and other people.
Source note: Nicomachean Ethics, Book IX, Chapter VIII, Project Gutenberg #8438. The surrounding argument explicitly contrasts this noble “Self-loving” with the blameworthy form that grasps at wealth, honours and bodily pleasures, so the line is not a defense of simple selfishness.
“How selfish soever man may be supposed, there are evidently some principles in his nature, which interest him in the fortune of others.”
Smith opens his moral theory by arguing that human beings possess capacities for fellow-feeling even when another person’s welfare offers no material advantage.
Source note: The Theory of Moral Sentiments, Part I, Section I, Chapter I “Of Sympathy”; represented by Project Gutenberg’s 1777 Dublin edition.
“How happy I am, that my friend Marcus Cornelius, so distinguished as an orator and so noble as a man, thinks me worth praising and blaming.”
Marcus values a relationship in which admiration does not exclude correction: Fronto’s willingness to praise and blame him is presented as a mark of trusted friendship rather than mere approval.
Source note: Project Gutenberg #2680, Appendix “Correspondence of M. Aurelius Antoninus and M. Cornelius Fronto,” identifies this line as Ad M. Caes. iii. 17. The wording is preserved as correspondence context, not treated as a maxim from the Meditations.
“You might just as well take the sun out of the sky as friendship from life; for the immortal gods have given us nothing better or more delightful.”
Friendship is treated not as an optional ornament but as one of the basic goods that makes ordinary life worth inhabiting.
Source note: Laelius on Friendship, Shuckburgh translation.
“There is a stubbornness about me that never can bear to be frightened at the will of others. My courage always rises with every attempt to intimidate me.”
Elizabeth frames self-respect as resistance to intimidation: another person’s status or deliberate pressure does not automatically earn the power to determine how she speaks or behaves.
Source note: Pride and Prejudice, Chapter XXXI, Project Gutenberg #1342. Elizabeth Bennet says this to Mr. Darcy at Rosings while he stands near the pianoforte as she plays. Darcy immediately teases her that she sometimes enjoys professing opinions that are not entirely her own, so the line also carries Austen’s character comedy.
“There is no man that imparteth his joys to his friend, but he joyeth the more; and no man that imparteth his griefs to his friend, but he grieveth the less.”
Sharing experience changes its emotional weight: celebration can become fuller when another person receives it, while grief can become less isolating when it is spoken to someone trusted.
Source note: Essays, “Of Friendship,” Project Gutenberg #56463. Bacon concludes his first “fruit” of friendship by arguing that disclosure redoubles joys and cuts griefs in halves.
“The equality of married persons before the law, is not only the sole mode in which that particular relation can be made consistent with justice to both sides.”
Mill applies equal legal standing to marriage, arguing that a just relationship cannot rest on one adult possessing a superior legal status over the other.
Source note: The Subjection of Women, later discussion of marriage; this is a legal and ethical argument about equality within the marital relation.
“All the privilege I claim for my own sex (it is not a very enviable one; you need not covet it), is that of loving longest, when existence or when hope is gone.”
Anne claims endurance in love for women within a debate about constancy, but Austen gives the argument to a character in a particular social setting rather than presenting it as objective psychology about either sex.
Source note: Persuasion, Chapter XXIII, Project Gutenberg #105. Anne Elliot says this to Captain Harville after he describes men’s attachment to wives and families; the exchange immediately leads into Wentworth’s written declaration.
“The holy passion of Friendship is of so sweet and steady and loyal and enduring a nature that it will last through a whole lifetime, if not asked to lend money.”
The sentence builds friendship into something almost sacred and then punctures the ideal with a borrowing joke, satirizing how financial pressure tests supposedly unconditional loyalty.
Source note: Pudd’nhead Wilson, Calendar epigraph before the section following Chapter VII; the lending-money qualification supplies the punch line.
“Regard friendship as the greatest thing in the world; for there is nothing which so fits in with our nature, or is so exactly what we want in prosperity or adversity.”
Cicero presents friendship as suited to human nature because it serves both celebration and hardship rather than belonging to only one circumstance.
Source note: Laelius on Friendship; Laelius frames friendship as useful and natural in both good and difficult times.
“Since then, keen lessons that love deceives, And wrings with wrong, have shaped to me Your face, and the God-curst sun, and a tree, And a pond edged with grayish leaves.”
The speaker remembers a painful relationship through the landscape that surrounded it, showing how later experience can fuse emotional lessons with particular natural images.
Source note: “Neutral Tones,” Wessex Poems and Other Verses; Project Gutenberg #3167. The statement belongs to the poem's speaker and should not be treated as Hardy's universal doctrine that love deceives.
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