“The only way to have a friend is to be one.”
Friendship is treated as reciprocal practice rather than something one can demand without embodying it.
Essay “Friendship.”
“To err is human; to forgive, divine.”
Error is treated as ordinary human limitation, while forgiveness requires an additional act of generosity.
An Essay on Criticism, Part III; Pope joins good nature and good sense before contrasting ordinary human error with the higher moral act of forgiveness.
“Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.”
The advice combines generosity with judgment: goodwill can be broad while trust remains selective.
All’s Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1; the Countess of Roussillon gives Bertram the counsel “Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.” Verified against Wikisource’s 1910 facsimile transcription of the 1623 First Folio (folio spelling “Loue all, trust a few, Doe wrong to none”); direct evidence resolves to the reviewed Act I transcription.
“Do not find your happiness in another’s sorrow.”
A person’s good fortune is morally diminished when it depends on enjoying somebody else’s pain or humiliation.
The Moral Sayings of Publius Syrus, saying 18, D. Lyman Jr. translation (1856).
“What you do not want done to yourself, do not do to others.”
A simple test for conduct is to consider whether we would accept the same treatment if our positions were reversed.
The Analects of Confucius, James Legge’s public-domain English translation; Book XV gives the maxim as a concise rule for conduct toward others.
“What do we live for, if it is not to make life less difficult to each other?”
A meaningful life is connected with reducing other people’s burdens, making usefulness and care central rather than peripheral.
Middlemarch, Book VIII, Chapter LXXII, Project Gutenberg #145. Dorothea asks what people live for if not to make life less difficult for one another while arguing that Lydgate’s friends should investigate the calumny against him and support him. It is fictional character dialogue inside the novel’s moral and social drama, not an empirical definition of life’s purpose.
“Nay, rather they are men.”
The short correction rejects reducing people to social roles and insists on recognizing the person before the status assigned to them.
Letter 47 repeatedly answers social labels by emphasizing the common humanity of enslaved people.
