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“Selfishness must always be forgiven you know, because there is no hope of a cure.”
Voice: Fictional character · Mary Crawford
The line is comic rather than literal advice, using exaggeration to expose how readily people excuse entrenched self-interest.
Source note: Mary Crawford makes the remark while discussing motives and conduct in company.
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“We have all a better guide in ourselves, if we would attend to it, than any other person can be.”
Voice: Fictional character · Fanny Price
Inner judgment can be more reliable than social pressure when a person has reflected carefully and understands the circumstances firsthand.
Source note: The novel contrasts outside pressure with the value of attending to one’s own judgment.