“a magnanimous acceptance of privation or suffering for ourselves when it is the condition of good to others”
Eliot describes a form of acceptance that is active and relational rather than passive: willingly bearing a cost can become morally significant when that cost is genuinely required for another person’s good.
Source details
The Essays of George Eliot, essay VII, ‘Worldliness and Other-Worldliness: The Poet Young,’ around printed page 247, Project Gutenberg #28289. The frozen quote is a clause extracted from Eliot's longer enumeration of virtues grounded in human sympathy—neighbor's rights, participation in others' joys and sorrows, and accepting privation when it benefits others—inside her argument that such morality need not depend directly on belief in a future state. It remains Victorian literary/theological criticism rather than a complete empirical theory of altruism.
