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“What the superior man seeks, is in himself. What the mean man seeks, is in others.”
Mature judgment begins with one’s own conduct and capacities rather than making other people the first explanation for every outcome.
Source note: The Analects of Confucius, James Legge’s public-domain English translation; Book XV contrasts inward self-examination with dependence on others.
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“Self-development is a higher duty than self-sacrifice.”
Stanton challenges a moral standard that praises women mainly for self-denial, arguing instead that developing one’s capacities is itself an important obligation.
Source note: The Woman’s Bible, Stanton commentary; the line appears in her critique of idealizing women’s self-sacrifice and is preserved in the Project Gutenberg text.
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“My first duty is to develop all the powers given to me and to make the most of myself and my own life.”
Voice: Imagined speaker · Jephthah’s daughter (imagined by Stanton)
The imagined speaker refuses to let another person dispose of her life, grounding dignity in the responsibility to develop her own capacities and possibilities.
Source note: The Woman’s Bible, Stanton’s commentary on Jephthah’s daughter; this sentence is part of an imagined protest Stanton writes for the unnamed daughter, not a biblical quotation.
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“Self-help is the best help.”
Asking for help does not replace the responsibility to make the effort that is already within one’s own power.
Source note: Moral printed after “Hercules and the Wagoner” in the Townsend translation; Hercules first tells the driver to help himself.
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“The spirit of self-help is the root of all genuine growth in the individual.”
Personal development begins with active responsibility for one’s own effort and choices, even when circumstances and institutions still matter.
Source note: Self-Help, Chapter I, “Self-Help—National and Individual,” Project Gutenberg #935. This is the opening chapter’s statement of Smiles’s self-help argument, where individual initiative is presented as a source of personal growth and, in his period framework, national strength.
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“Self-respect, originating in self-love, instigates the first step of improvement.”
Improvement can begin when a person values themselves enough to believe that their conduct, circumstances, and future are worth deliberate effort.
Source note: Thrift, Chapter II, “Habits of Thrift,” Project Gutenberg #14418. In a discussion of self-improvement and moral independence, Smiles presents self-respect as the impulse that makes a person rise, develop intelligence and improve condition.