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“What the superior man seeks, is in himself. What the mean man seeks, is in others.”
Mature judgment begins with one’s own conduct and capacities rather than making other people the first explanation for every outcome.
Source note: The Analects of Confucius, James Legge’s public-domain English translation; Book XV contrasts inward self-examination with dependence on others.
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“In all the individual reforms or improvements that we desire, we must begin with ourselves.”
Large ambitions become more credible when a person begins with conduct they can actually govern instead of assigning all responsibility to external conditions.
Source note: Thrift, Chapter II, “Habits of Thrift,” Project Gutenberg #14418. The sentence summarizes Smiles’s preceding argument that social improvement begins with individual conduct, example and self-respect before one attempts to elevate others.
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“Self-development is a higher duty than self-sacrifice.”
Stanton challenges a moral standard that praises women mainly for self-denial, arguing instead that developing one’s capacities is itself an important obligation.
Source note: The Woman’s Bible, Stanton commentary; the line appears in her critique of idealizing women’s self-sacrifice and is preserved in the Project Gutenberg text.
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“There is reason and reality in some degree of self-reliance.”
Self-reliance becomes credible when it grows from tested knowledge of what one can actually endure and do, rather than from empty confidence or social display.
Source note: Life Without and Life Within, “The Poor Man”; Fuller argues that difficult experience can produce realistic knowledge of one’s resources and a grounded degree of self-reliance.
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“The spirit of self-help is the root of all genuine growth in the individual.”
Personal development begins with active responsibility for one’s own effort and choices, even when circumstances and institutions still matter.
Source note: Self-Help, Chapter I, “Self-Help—National and Individual,” Project Gutenberg #935. This is the opening chapter’s statement of Smiles’s self-help argument, where individual initiative is presented as a source of personal growth and, in his period framework, national strength.
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“Want of confidence is perhaps a greater obstacle to improvement than is generally imagined.”
Smiles argues that underestimating one’s ability can prevent effort before ability is ever tested; lack of confidence becomes harmful when it turns into hesitation and chronic non-attempt rather than realistic modesty.
Source note: Self-Help, Chapter XI, “Self-Culture—Facilities and Difficulties,” Project Gutenberg #935. In the discussion of decision and promptitude, Smiles argues that excessive guidance can weaken self-reliance and that lack of confidence can obstruct improvement by discouraging prompt action.