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“The only possible society is oneself.”
Voice: Fictional character · Lord Goring
The comic exaggeration makes self-company part of Wilde’s joke about society while still centering comfort with oneself.
Source note: An Ideal Husband, Act III, spoken by Lord Goring immediately before the lifelong-romance line.
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“The soul selects her own society, then shuts the door.”
Dickinson’s compressed image emphasizes selective attention and the right to decide what receives intimate access.
Source note: “The Soul Selects Her Own Society”; capitalization is lightly normalized.
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“If I am a princess in rags and tatters, I can be a princess inside.”
Voice: Fictional character · Sara Crewe
Dignity is separated from possessions and appearance, locating self-worth in conduct and inner standards when external status has been stripped away.
Source note: A Little Princess; Sara uses an imagined inner identity to preserve dignity during poverty and mistreatment.
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“That her hand may be given with dignity, she must be able to stand alone.”
A relationship entered from the ability to stand independently can preserve dignity more fully than one made necessary by the inability to exist outside it.
Source note: Woman in the Nineteenth Century; Fuller connects the dignity of freely giving oneself in relationship with the prior ability to stand independently.
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“My long-crushed spirit rose, cowardice departed, bold defiance took its place.”
Resistance restored a sense of personhood and self-command, marking a psychological turning point even before Douglass obtained legal freedom.
Source note: Narrative, Chapter X; the line follows Douglass’s physical resistance to Edward Covey and precedes his resolve never again to be a slave in fact.
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“We have to forfeit three-fourths of ourselves in order to become like other people.”
Conformity is described as costly when fitting in requires surrendering too much individuality, judgment, or temperament.
Source note: Counsels and Maxims, in Schopenhauer’s discussion of society and individuality; T. Bailey Saunders translation.