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“The greatest remedy for anger is delay.”
Delay interrupts the first impulse of anger and gives judgment time to test whether the perceived offence deserves the reaction it initially provoked.
Source note: On Anger, Book II, section 29.
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“Wisely and slow; they stumble that run fast.”
Voice: Fictional character · Friar Laurence
Speed without judgment can undermine the very goal a person is pursuing, so patience becomes part of effective action.
Source note: Act 2, Scene 3; Friar Laurence urges Romeo to move with greater care.
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“The rarer action is in virtue than in vengeance.”
Voice: Fictional character · Prospero
Prospero chooses deliberate mercy over retaliation, presenting forgiveness not as weakness but as the more difficult exercise of reason and character.
Source note: The Tempest, Act 5, Scene 1; Prospero decides against vengeance after considering the suffering of his enemies.
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“For the wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God.”
Anger is not automatically justified by intensity; the verse separates human wrath from the moral outcome a person may claim to be pursuing.
Source note: James 1:20 in the King James Version, immediately following the instruction to be slow to wrath.
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“Let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath.”
Good judgment starts by hearing more quickly than speaking or reacting, especially when anger is close to the surface.
Source note: James 1:19 in the King James Version, pairing readiness to listen with restraint in speech and anger.
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“Be not hasty in thy spirit to be angry: for anger resteth in the bosom of fools.”
The warning treats speed itself as part of the danger of anger: delay creates room for judgment before emotion hardens into conduct.
Source note: Ecclesiastes 7:9 in the King James Version.