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“For the soul seeks not adorers, but peers.”
Respectful relationship is distinguished from worship or dependency: a developed person seeks equals capable of intelligent sympathy rather than admirers who surrender judgment.
Source note: Life Without and Life Within, in Fuller’s essay discussion of Goethe and the artistic mind; the line contrasts genuine peers with mere worshippers.
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“I must depend on myself as the only constant friend.”
The statement does not deny friendship with others; it names the continuity of one’s relationship with oneself as a reason to cultivate dependable inward resources.
Source note: Woman in the Nineteenth Century; spoken by Fuller’s illustrative figure Miranda while explaining the self-dependence encouraged by her upbringing.
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“That her hand may be given with dignity, she must be able to stand alone.”
A relationship entered from the ability to stand independently can preserve dignity more fully than one made necessary by the inability to exist outside it.
Source note: Woman in the Nineteenth Century; Fuller connects the dignity of freely giving oneself in relationship with the prior ability to stand independently.
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“And let your self-respect forbid you to do imperfectly anything that you do at all.”
Self-respect becomes a standard for workmanship: valuing oneself should appear not only in feeling but in the care brought to responsibilities and chosen work.
Source note: Woman in the Nineteenth Century and Kindred Papers; the sentence appears in advice about practical education, precision, and the development of the whole person.
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“I have urged upon the sex self-subsistence in its two forms of self-reliance and self-impulse.”
Fuller argues for the ability to stand and act from within rather than living only through prescribed dependence, making self-reliance part of a wider claim to human development.
Source note: Woman in the Nineteenth Century; Fuller explicitly names self-subsistence, self-reliance, and self-impulse within her argument about women’s independence.
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“A dignified sense of self-dependence was given as all her portion, and she found it a sure anchor.”
Fuller presents self-dependence as an anchor that makes relationships more secure rather than less human, because connection is no longer built entirely on dependence.
Source note: Woman in the Nineteenth Century, in Fuller’s account of “Miranda”; this is the narrator’s description of the illustrative figure rather than a standalone autobiographical maxim.
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“That faith and self-respect had early been awakened which must always lead, at last, to an outward serenity and an inward peace.”
Self-respect and inward faith are presented as foundations that can survive adversity and gradually produce greater steadiness in both outward life and inner experience.
Source note: Woman in the Nineteenth Century, in the discussion of Miranda; Fuller explicitly connects awakened self-respect with serenity and inward peace.