“Fish and visitors stink in three days.”
Hospitality has limits, and the humor works by comparing an overlong visit with something that naturally becomes unpleasant over time.
Poor Richard’s Almanack; a comic maxim about hospitality, boundaries, and overstaying a welcome.
“Three may keep a secret, if two of them are dead.”
The joke exaggerates how difficult secrecy becomes once information is shared, making discretion the safest form of confidentiality.
Poor Richard’s Almanack; one of Franklin’s compact maxims about secrecy and human behavior.
“A soft answer turneth away wrath.”
The proverb recommends a restrained response because tone can either lower or intensify conflict.
Proverbs 15:1 in the King James Version; the proverb contrasts a soft answer with speech that intensifies wrath.
“Angry people are not always wise.”
Strong emotion can narrow judgment, so being certain while angry is not the same as being correct.
Pride and Prejudice; the line is preserved in the novel’s dialogue about anger, judgment, and the limits of certainty while emotions are high.
“Give every man thy ear, but few thy voice.”
Listening broadly while speaking selectively is presented as a practical discipline for judgment, relationships, and self-control.
Act 1, Scene 3; Polonius advises Laertes before his departure.
“I have a high respect for your nerves. They are my old friends.”
Mr. Bennet turns Mrs. Bennet’s recurring complaint into dry affection, using understatement to expose a long-established family pattern.
Pride and Prejudice, Volume 1, Chapter 1; Mr. Bennet responds to his wife’s complaint about her nerves.
“Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.”
Good relationships can improve judgment and character through challenge, conversation, and mutual influence.
Proverbs 27:17 in the King James Version; the proverb uses sharpening as an image for the way one person can strengthen or refine another.
