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“We should never give pain without a design to amend.”
Correction should aim at improvement rather than humiliation; causing pain without a constructive purpose turns discipline into unnecessary cruelty.
Source note: Thoughts on the Education of Daughters, discussion of temper and discipline; Wollstonecraft argues against needless severity.
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“One of my favorite fancies is to look at my family as a small world.”
Voice: Fictional character · Jo Bhaer
A household becomes a miniature society where different temperaments must learn cooperation, responsibility, affection, boundaries, and ways of living together despite their differences.
Source note: Little Men; the family-as-world image frames Plumfield as a community in which varied children practice the habits needed for wider social life.
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“If I can make a good man of this wild boy, it will be the best work of my life.”
Voice: Fictional character · Jo Bhaer
Care for a difficult child is treated as meaningful work: the aim is not control for its own sake but helping character develop through patience, structure, and attachment.
Source note: Little Men; Jo reflects on the responsibility of guiding a difficult boy and measures success by the person he may become rather than by convenience.
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“It is the duty of a parent to preserve a child from receiving wrong impressions.”
Early impressions can become durable habits of judgment, so parents carry responsibility for the examples, expectations, and environments surrounding a child.
Source note: Thoughts on the Education of Daughters, discussion of early education and moral discipline.
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“Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.”
Early guidance is treated as formative, emphasizing the long reach that habits and instruction can have across a life.
Source note: Proverbs 22:6, King James Version.
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“My house is yours, mother, always”
Voice: Fictional character · Tom Tulliver
Tom gives his mother an unconditional place in his home, presenting adult family duty as continuing practical support rather than a temporary obligation.
Source note: The Mill on the Floss, Book VII, Project Gutenberg #6688. Tom speaks to Mrs Tulliver as she prepares to leave with Maggie.