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“What the superior man seeks, is in himself. What the mean man seeks, is in others.”
Mature judgment begins with one’s own conduct and capacities rather than making other people the first explanation for every outcome.
Source note: The Analects of Confucius, James Legge’s public-domain English translation; Book XV contrasts inward self-examination with dependence on others.
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“By oneself the evil is done, by oneself one suffers; by oneself evil is left undone, by oneself one is purified. Purity and impurity belong to oneself, no one can purify another.”
The passage insists on personal moral agency: other people can help, but they cannot perform the work of one’s choices, restraint, and ethical development on one’s behalf.
Source note: Dhammapada 165, Chapter XII “Self,” Max Müller translation; “purity” is religious-ethical language from the source, not a claim about personal worth or bodily purity.
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“And let your self-respect forbid you to do imperfectly anything that you do at all.”
Self-respect becomes a standard for workmanship: valuing oneself should appear not only in feeling but in the care brought to responsibilities and chosen work.
Source note: Woman in the Nineteenth Century and Kindred Papers; the sentence appears in advice about practical education, precision, and the development of the whole person.
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“My first duty is to develop all the powers given to me and to make the most of myself and my own life.”
Voice: Imagined speaker · Jephthah’s daughter (imagined by Stanton)
The imagined speaker refuses to let another person dispose of her life, grounding dignity in the responsibility to develop her own capacities and possibilities.
Source note: The Woman’s Bible, Stanton’s commentary on Jephthah’s daughter; this sentence is part of an imagined protest Stanton writes for the unnamed daughter, not a biblical quotation.
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“Bad deeds, and deeds hurtful to ourselves, are easy to do; what is beneficial and good, that is very difficult to do.”
What benefits a person can require more effort than what harms them, so genuine self-care is presented as disciplined choice rather than whatever feels easiest in the moment.
Source note: Dhammapada 163 in Max Müller’s translation; the verse contrasts actions harmful to oneself with the harder work of choosing what is beneficial and good.
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“Self-development is a higher duty than self-sacrifice.”
Stanton challenges a moral standard that praises women mainly for self-denial, arguing instead that developing one’s capacities is itself an important obligation.
Source note: The Woman’s Bible, Stanton commentary; the line appears in her critique of idealizing women’s self-sacrifice and is preserved in the Project Gutenberg text.