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“The will controls the beginnings of love, but not its endings.”
Entering a relationship may involve choice, but the later course of attachment can become more complicated than the decision that began it.
Source note: The Moral Sayings of Publius Syrus, saying 45, D. Lyman Jr. translation (1856).
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“Time, not the will, can put an end to love.”
The maxim distinguishes deliberate decision from emotional change, suggesting that some attachments fade through time rather than a single act of will.
Source note: The Moral Sayings of Publius Syrus, saying 43, D. Lyman Jr. translation (1856).
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“Love possesses not nor would it be possessed.”
Love is presented as relationship without ownership: closeness does not grant control over another person or require surrender of one’s own personhood.
Source note: The Prophet, “On Love”; Gibran warns against turning love into possession before describing love as sufficient unto itself.
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“And ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”
Separation can expose the depth of attachment that ordinary familiarity concealed, making loss a painful measure of how much the bond mattered.
Source note: The Prophet, “On Love.”
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“Parting is such sweet sorrow.”
Voice: Fictional character · Juliet
The phrase holds affection and pain together: separation hurts precisely because the relationship being left is valued.
Source note: Romeo and Juliet, Act 2, Scene 2; Juliet speaks as the lovers part for the night.
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“To err is human; to forgive, divine.”
Error is treated as ordinary human limitation, while forgiveness requires an additional act of generosity.
Source note: An Essay on Criticism, Part II; Pope warns that shallow learning can produce premature confidence before deeper study tempers judgment.