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“If I can make a good man of this wild boy, it will be the best work of my life.”
Voice: Fictional character · Jo Bhaer
Care for a difficult child is treated as meaningful work: the aim is not control for its own sake but helping character develop through patience, structure, and attachment.
Source note: Little Men; Jo reflects on the responsibility of guiding a difficult boy and measures success by the person he may become rather than by convenience.
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“Fathers and mothers are too absorbed in business and housekeeping to study their children”
Voice: Narrator voice · Narrator
The narrator criticizes adults who become so occupied with work and household demands that they lose the attentive knowledge needed for trust with their children.
Source note: Eight Cousins; Or, The Aunt-Hill, Chapter 17, Project Gutenberg #38567. Narrator commentary follows Mac's complaint that parents and children have never learned to talk openly.
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“We should never give pain without a design to amend.”
Correction should aim at improvement rather than humiliation; causing pain without a constructive purpose turns discipline into unnecessary cruelty.
Source note: Thoughts on the Education of Daughters, discussion of temper and discipline; Wollstonecraft argues against needless severity.
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“I can't fill his place, but I shall try to be a father to her”
Voice: Fictional character · Dr. Alec Campbell
Uncle Alec accepts that guardianship cannot erase Rose’s dead father, while still committing himself to provide dependable parental care in the life that remains.
Source note: Eight Cousins; Or, The Aunt-Hill, Chapter 2, Project Gutenberg #38567. Dr Alec speaks after Rose describes the grief of losing her father.
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“If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him.”
Voice: Reported speaker · Jesus
This passage does not equate forgiveness with silence about harm: it places honest confrontation and forgiveness in the same sequence when repentance follows.
Source note: Luke 17:3 in the King James Version.
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“Don't fret, mother. I shall soon be able to get money; I'll get a situation of some sort.”
Voice: Fictional character · Tom Tulliver
Tom responds to family financial collapse by trying to reassure his mother and assuming responsibility for earning, showing duty emerging under pressure.
Source note: The Mill on the Floss, Book III, Project Gutenberg #6688. Tom speaks after the Tulliver bankruptcy; the line belongs to a fictional family crisis.