3 quotations linked to Of Friendship by or associated with Francis Bacon, with source notes, explanations and related topics.
True company, emotional disclosure, counsel, practical aid, trust, solitude, shared joy and grief.
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“A principal fruit of friendship is the ease and discharge of the fulness and swellings of the heart.”
Friendship gives difficult feelings somewhere safe to go; speaking with a trusted person can reduce the pressure of thoughts carried alone.
Source note: Of Friendship; Bacon names emotional disclosure as one of friendship’s principal benefits.
“It is a mere and miserable solitude to want true friends, without which the world is but a wilderness.”
Bacon distinguishes physical company from genuine companionship: crowds and acquaintances cannot replace the kind of trusted relationship that makes social life feel inhabited rather than empty.
Source note: Essays, “Of Friendship,” Project Gutenberg #56463. Bacon follows his contrast between crowds and real company by describing the absence of true friends as a deeper form of solitude.
“There is no man that imparteth his joys to his friend, but he joyeth the more; and no man that imparteth his griefs to his friend, but he grieveth the less.”
Sharing experience changes its emotional weight: celebration can become fuller when another person receives it, while grief can become less isolating when it is spoken to someone trusted.
Source note: Essays, “Of Friendship,” Project Gutenberg #56463. Bacon concludes his first “fruit” of friendship by arguing that disclosure redoubles joys and cuts griefs in halves.