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“When one is in love one begins by deceiving oneself. And one ends by deceiving others.”

Oscar Wilde · Fictional character · Lord Illingworth

Source
A Woman of No Importance
Date
1893
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Fictional character · Lord Illingworth
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The line turns romance into a two-stage comedy of self-deception and social deception, exaggerating cynicism to expose how desire distorts judgment.

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A Woman of No Importance, Act III; Lord Illingworth answers Gerald’s question about love with the romance/self-deception epigram. The exact catalog wording is supported by this play, not by The Picture of Dorian Gray.

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Fictional character · Lord Illingworth. A Woman of No Importance, Act III; Lord Illingworth answers Gerald’s question about love with the romance/self-deception epigram. The line is not Lord Henry dialogue from The Picture of Dorian Gray.

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