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Explore Self-Care quotations through self-knowledge and identity, confidence without vanity, growth, standards, and habits. Compare how different writers frame the idea across distinct works and periods.

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Shortest in this collection“Labor without joy is base.” — John RuskinLongest in this collection“Let no one forget his own duty for the sake of another's, however great; let a…” — The DhammapadaEarlier source represented“Do no violence to yourself, respect in yourself the oscillations of feeling.” — Henri-Frédéric Amiel
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Labor without joy is base.
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“Labor without joy is base.”

John Ruskin · Time and Tide by Weare and Tyne · 1867
Meaning & context

Ruskin rejects an account of labor that treats ceaseless exertion as sufficient in itself, insisting that a right human life must make room for more than work alone.

Source details

Time and Tide by Weare and Tyne, Letter V, “The Corruption of Modern Pleasure—(Covent Garden Pantomime.),” paragraph 21, printed page 16 in Project Gutenberg #31196’s represented Library Edition text. “Labor without joy is base” occurs in Ruskin’s three-part discussion of labor, sorrow and joy and remains Victorian Christian-moral / social argument rather than a modern occupational-health or psychological rule.

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the crippling of my temper, and waste of my time.
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“the crippling of my temper, and waste of my time.”

John Ruskin · Time and Tide by Weare and Tyne · 1867
Meaning & context

Ruskin distinguishes financial cost from the cost imposed on temperament and finite time, recognizing that obligations can consume attention and working capacity as well as money.

Source details

Time and Tide by Weare and Tyne, Letter XIX, “Broken Reeds,” paragraph 117, printed page 77 in Project Gutenberg #31196. Ruskin distinguishes the financial cost of repeated charitable appeals from “the crippling of my temper, and waste of my time,” then explains his own limits and distress. The retained fragment remains autobiographical Victorian social-reform context rather than general advice against helping others or modern mental-health guidance.

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Do no violence to yourself, respect in yourself the oscillations of feeling.
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“Do no violence to yourself, respect in yourself the oscillations of feeling.”

Henri-Frédéric Amiel · Amiel's Journal · 1852
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Self-respect here means refusing to force inner life into an artificial uniformity; changing feelings can be observed and treated with patience instead of self-aggression.

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Amiel's Journal, entry dated April 28, 1852, in Mary Augusta Ward’s public-domain translation; Amiel counsels patience with the movement of feeling.

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Her rights under such circumstances are to use all her faculties for her own safety and happiness.
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“Her rights under such circumstances are to use all her faculties for her own safety and happiness.”

Elizabeth Cady Stanton · Solitude of Self · 1892
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The sentence frames development of one’s capacities as a right tied to safety and happiness, not as a privilege granted only through dependence on another person.

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Solitude of Self; Stanton uses an imagined solitary-island example to separate a woman’s individual rights from the incidental roles society may assign her.

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Bad deeds, and deeds hurtful to ourselves, are easy to do; what is beneficial and good, that is very difficult to do.
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“Bad deeds, and deeds hurtful to ourselves, are easy to do; what is beneficial and good, that is very difficult to do.”

The Dhammapada · The Dhammapada · ancient
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What benefits a person can require more effort than what harms them, so genuine self-care is presented as disciplined choice rather than whatever feels easiest in the moment.

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Dhammapada 163 in Max Müller’s translation; the verse contrasts actions harmful to oneself with the harder work of choosing what is beneficial and good.

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If a man hold himself dear, let him watch himself carefully; during one at least out of the three watches a wise man should be watchful.
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“If a man hold himself dear, let him watch himself carefully; during one at least out of the three watches a wise man should be watchful.”

The Dhammapada · The Dhammapada · ancient
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Holding oneself dear is expressed as careful stewardship rather than indulgence: valuing the self creates a reason to remain attentive to one’s conduct and direction.

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Dhammapada 157, Chapter XII “Self,” in Max Müller’s translation; the verse explicitly joins self-regard with watchfulness and ethical discipline.

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Let no one forget his own duty for the sake of another's, however great; let a man, after he has discerned his own duty, be always attentive to his duty.
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“Let no one forget his own duty for the sake of another's, however great; let a man, after he has discerned his own duty, be always attentive to his duty.”

The Dhammapada · The Dhammapada · ancient
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Attention to one’s own responsibility is treated as a legitimate boundary: admirable obligations elsewhere do not erase the work that actually belongs to the individual.

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Dhammapada 166, Chapter XII “Self,” Max Müller translation; the teaching closes the chapter by returning attention to one’s own discerned duty.

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Topic guide

A quick guide to self-care

Quotations about the self can point in opposite directions: accept yourself, change yourself, trust yourself, question yourself. The tension is part of the subject rather than a problem to hide.

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Self-knowledge and identityConfidence without vanityGrowth, standards, and habitsAcceptance joined with responsibility

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  1. “Labor without joy is base.” — John Ruskin · Time and Tide by Weare and Tyne
  2. “the crippling of my temper, and waste of my time.” — John Ruskin · Time and Tide by Weare and Tyne
  3. “Do no violence to yourself, respect in yourself the oscillations of feeling.” — Henri-Frédéric Amiel · Amiel's Journal
  4. “Her rights under such circumstances are to use all her faculties for her own…” — Elizabeth Cady Stanton · Solitude of Self
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The Dhammapada3 quotations in this topic
John Ruskin2 quotations in this topic
Elizabeth Cady Stanton1 quotation in this topic
Henri-Frédéric Amiel1 quotation in this topic

Named sources

The Dhammapadaancient · 3 quotations
Time and Tide by Weare and Tyne1867 · 2 quotations
Amiel's Journal1852 · 1 quotation
Solitude of Self1892 · 1 quotation