Browse 7 quotations connecting Jane Austen with Communication, with meanings, source notes and related themes.
Each quotation is included because its central idea connects with this theme, not simply because one matching word appears in the sentence.
Sources represented here include Pride and Prejudice, Emma, Persuasion. Keeping the work and source note beside each quotation makes differences in setting, speaker and emphasis easier to see.
Sources represented here include Pride and Prejudice, Emma, Persuasion.
“If I loved you less, I might be able to talk about it more.”
The difficulty of speaking is used as evidence of emotional depth, contrasting sincere feeling with polished or excessive declaration.
Source note: Chapter 49; Mr. Knightley struggles to express the depth of his feeling to Emma.
“Seldom, very seldom, does complete truth belong to any human disclosure.”
Austen observes that even sincere accounts can contain omission, disguise, or misunderstanding, which makes careful listening and humility important in judging what people say.
Source note: Emma, Volume III, Chapter 13, during the narrator’s reflection on Emma and Mr. Knightley’s conversation.
“We live at home, quiet, confined, and our feelings prey upon us.”
Anne links emotional persistence partly to social circumstance: restricted movement and occupation can leave fewer external demands to interrupt sustained feeling.
Source note: Persuasion, Chapter XXIII, Project Gutenberg #105. Anne Elliot says this to Captain Harville while contrasting women’s domestic confinement with men’s professions, business, travel and continual occupation. It is a historically situated fictional argument, not a modern mental-health claim.
“Men have had every advantage of us in telling their own story. Education has been theirs in so much higher a degree; the pen has been in their hands.”
Anne challenges the neutrality of inherited literary evidence by pointing to unequal access to education and authorship, asking who had the power to preserve one sex’s version of experience in books.
Source note: Persuasion, Chapter XXIII, Project Gutenberg #105. Anne Elliot says this to Captain Harville while refusing to let books settle their argument about whether men or women love longer.
“Angry people are not always wise.”
Strong emotion can narrow judgment, so being certain while angry is not the same as being correct.
Source note: Pride and Prejudice; the line is preserved in the novel’s dialogue about anger, judgment, and the limits of certainty while emotions are high.
“My good opinion once lost, is lost forever.”
Darcy presents trust and esteem as difficult to restore once serious judgment has turned against someone, revealing both the firmness and the potential rigidity of his early character.
Source note: Pride and Prejudice, Chapter XI, Project Gutenberg #1342. Fitzwilliam Darcy says this to Elizabeth Bennet during their discussion of faults; Elizabeth immediately identifies the position as implacable resentment, so the novel itself does not leave the maxim unchallenged.
“I have a high respect for your nerves. They are my old friends.”
Mr. Bennet turns Mrs. Bennet’s recurring complaint into dry affection, using understatement to expose a long-established family pattern.
Source note: Pride and Prejudice, Volume 1, Chapter 1; Mr. Bennet responds to his wife’s complaint about her nerves.