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“One half of the world cannot understand the pleasures of the other.”
Voice: Fictional character · Emma Woodhouse
People often mistake their own preferences for universal standards, while real understanding requires room for different tastes and experiences.
Source note: The observation follows disagreement about what different people enjoy and value.
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“Seldom, very seldom, does complete truth belong to any human disclosure.”
Voice: Narrator voice · Narrator
Austen observes that even sincere accounts can contain omission, disguise, or misunderstanding, which makes careful listening and humility important in judging what people say.
Source note: Emma, Volume III, Chapter 13, during the narrator’s reflection on Emma and Mr. Knightley’s conversation.
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“We have all a better guide in ourselves, if we would attend to it, than any other person can be.”
Voice: Fictional character · Fanny Price
Inner judgment can be more reliable than social pressure when a person has reflected carefully and understands the circumstances firsthand.
Source note: The novel contrasts outside pressure with the value of attending to one’s own judgment.
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“Angry people are not always wise.”
Voice: Narrator voice · Narrator
Strong emotion can narrow judgment, so being certain while angry is not the same as being correct.
Source note: Pride and Prejudice; the line is preserved in the novel’s dialogue about anger, judgment, and the limits of certainty while emotions are high.
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“My good opinion once lost, is lost forever.”
Voice: Fictional character · Fitzwilliam Darcy
Darcy presents trust and esteem as difficult to restore once serious judgment has turned against someone, revealing both the firmness and the potential rigidity of his early character.
Source note: Pride and Prejudice, Chapter XI, Project Gutenberg #1342. Fitzwilliam Darcy says this to Elizabeth Bennet during their discussion of faults; Elizabeth immediately identifies the position as implacable resentment, so the novel itself does not leave the maxim unchallenged.
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“Think only of the past as its remembrance gives you pleasure.”
Voice: Fictional character · Elizabeth Bennet
The advice does not erase the past; it questions repeated attention to memories that no longer help the present.
Source note: Pride and Prejudice, Chapter 58.
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“Know your own happiness. You want nothing but patience—or give it a more fascinating name: call it hope.”
Voice: Fictional character · Mrs. Dashwood
Happiness can depend less on dramatic change than on recognizing what is already possible and waiting without giving up.
Source note: Sense and Sensibility.