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Ask yourself whether you are happy, and you cease to be so.
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“Ask yourself whether you are happy, and you cease to be so.”

John Stuart Mill

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1873
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Meaning of “Ask yourself whether you are happy, and you…”

The aphoristic warning concerns excessive self-monitoring: repeatedly testing an experience for happiness can interrupt the very absorption that makes enjoyment possible.

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Autobiography, Chapter V; Mill states this within his post-crisis philosophy of pursuing ends beyond happiness itself.

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“The old believe everything: the middle-aged suspect everything: the young know everything.”

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Where Ignorance is Bliss, ’Tis Folly to be wise.
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