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“’Tis my opinion that a man should lend himself to others, and only give himself to himself.”

Michel de Montaigne

Source
Essays of Montaigne — Book III
Date
1588
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Charles Cotton — Translator · from French
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Montaigne distinguishes participating in other people’s affairs from surrendering one’s whole inward life to them: engagement can be generous without allowing every external demand to possess the will.

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Essays, Book III, Chapter X, “Of Managing the Will,” Charles Cotton translation; Project Gutenberg Complete Essays #3600, with the chapter also preserved in Gutenberg volume #3598. Montaigne is describing his personal method of limiting how strongly public affairs and external attachments possess him, not issuing a universal therapy rule.

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