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Charles Cotton — Translator · French → English
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“Others form man; I only report him.”
Rather than presenting an ideal model of humanity, Montaigne describes a particular changing self and makes observation central to his method.
Source note: Essays of Montaigne, Book III, Charles Cotton translation, in his explanation of the project of the Essays.
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“He who fears he shall suffer, already suffers what he fears.”
Anticipatory fear can add suffering before any feared event occurs, effectively extending pain through imagination and expectation.
Source note: Essays of Montaigne, Book III, “Of Experience,” Charles Cotton translation.
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“I speak truth, not so much as I would, but as much as I dare.”
Frank self-description has limits, but Montaigne still treats increasing candor as part of the value of writing honestly about oneself.
Source note: Essays of Montaigne, Book III, Charles Cotton translation; the surrounding passage discusses fidelity and self-report.
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“’Tis my opinion that a man should lend himself to others, and only give himself to himself.”
Montaigne distinguishes participating in other people’s affairs from surrendering one’s whole inward life to them: engagement can be generous without allowing every external demand to possess the will.
Source note: Essays, Book III, Chapter X, “Of Managing the Will,” Charles Cotton translation; Project Gutenberg Complete Essays #3600, with the chapter also preserved in Gutenberg volume #3598. Montaigne is describing his personal method of limiting how strongly public affairs and external attachments possess him, not issuing a universal therapy rule.
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“We must learn to suffer what we cannot evade; our life, like the harmony of the world, is composed of contrary things.”
Montaigne treats an imperfect mixture of pleasant and painful conditions as part of ordinary life: wisdom includes learning to live with what cannot be escaped instead of demanding a life made only of agreeable notes.
Source note: Essays, Book III, Chapter XIII, “Of Experience,” Charles Cotton translation, Project Gutenberg #3593 / Complete Essays #3600. Montaigne immediately compares life to music made from diverse tones and says goods and evils are mixed into human existence; this is not a rule against remedying avoidable harm.