13 quotations linked to Enchiridion by or associated with Epictetus, with source notes, explanations and related topics.
Control, judgment, acceptance, self-command, freedom, fear, calm, mindfulness and Stoic distinctions between what depends on us and what does not.
Dates represented in this collection: c. 125 · c. 125 CE. Individual quotation notes provide the most specific context for a passage.
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“Remember that thou art an actor in a play.”
Life is pictured as a role with conditions we did not choose, while the quality of our performance remains our responsibility.
Enchiridion 17; the longer passage compares human life with playing the role assigned in a drama.
“Some things are in our control and others not.”
The opening distinction of the Enchiridion asks people to separate what depends on their own judgment and action from what does not.
Classical work; English wording varies by translation.
“Wish the things which happen to be as they are.”
The advice is not passivity; it is a call to stop fighting reality before deciding how to respond to it.
A concise clause from Enchiridion 8, where Epictetus contrasts demanding preferred outcomes with accepting what occurs.
“Disease is an impediment to the body, but not to the will.”
Physical limitation and inner choice are treated as different domains, preserving agency even under constraint.
Enchiridion 9; Epictetus uses illness to illustrate the distinction between external limits and the will.
“Remember that you must behave in life as at a dinner party.”
The dinner-party image recommends waiting for what comes in proper order instead of grabbing anxiously, turning restraint into a model for daily conduct.
Enchiridion, chapter 15; the following sentences explain waiting until things come round to you.
“Seek not that the things which happen should happen as you wish.”
Peace becomes more possible when desire stops demanding that reality conform perfectly to preference before a useful response can begin.
Enchiridion, section VIII, George Long translation; the following clause advises wishing events to be as they are.
“Men are disturbed not by things, but by the views which they take of things.”
Epictetus places much emotional disturbance in interpretation rather than in events alone, making judgment a central target for practice.
Enchiridion 5; English wording varies by translation.
“Men are disturbed not by the things which happen, but by the opinions about the things.”
Epictetus separates an event from the judgment placed on it, making interpretation a practical point of leverage.
Enchiridion 5 in George Long’s translation; the passage distinguishes events from the opinions that disturb us.
“The man did not know the rest of my faults, for he would not have mentioned these only.”
Epictetus answers insult without retaliation by turning attention toward his own fallibility; the joke reduces the critic’s power because reputation is treated as an external judgment rather than something that must be avenged.
Enchiridion, section 33 in George Long’s public-domain translation, Project Gutenberg #10661. The line is the suggested reply after hearing that someone has spoken ill of you; it is Stoic self-command, not an instruction to accept abuse without boundaries.
“If you would improve, submit to be considered without sense and foolish with respect to externals.”
Improvement can require tolerating other people’s low opinion when their standards are based on external status rather than the character being cultivated.
Enchiridion, section XIII, George Long translation; the advice warns against pursuing both inner discipline and external reputation.
“When you have decided that a thing ought to be done, and are doing it, never avoid being seen doing it.”
Once judgment has concluded an action is right, misplaced criticism should not become a reason to hide or abandon the action.
Enchiridion, chapter 35, George Long translation; the following sentence distinguishes right action from fear of wrong criticism.
“Demand not that events should happen as you wish; but wish them to happen as they do happen, and you will go on well.”
Peace is sought by aligning desire with reality rather than requiring reality to obey preference, a central Stoic distinction between response and circumstance.
Enchiridion, section 8; Epictetus applies Stoic acceptance to events outside personal control.
“On the occasion of every accident that befalls you, remember to turn to yourself and inquire what power you have for turning it to use.”
Instead of beginning with what an event has taken away, the practice asks which capacity—endurance, restraint, patience, or judgment—can still be exercised.
Enchiridion, section X, George Long translation; Epictetus gives examples such as endurance under pain and patience under abuse.
