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Epictetus Quotes: Sources, Meanings & Themes

Browse quotations by Epictetus with named works, context notes, meanings and recurring themes.

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c. 55–135 CE · Stoic teacher

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Control, acceptance, habit, judgment, freedom, resilience and disciplined response.

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If you would make anything a habit, do it.

“If you would make anything a habit, do it.”

Habit formation is reduced to repeated action: the behavior itself is what trains the pattern.

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Discourses of Epictetus, Book II, Chapter XVIII, “How we should struggle against appearances,” George Long translation; 1877 George Bell & Sons witness on Wikisource, cross-checked against Project Gutenberg #10661. This short catalog record is an excerpt of Long’s longer clause “Generally then if you would make any thing a habit, do it”; this collection lightly normalizes “any thing” to “anything.”

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If you would be a good reader, read; if a writer, write.

“If you would be a good reader, read; if a writer, write.”

Skill grows through repeated practice rather than through wanting the identity without doing the activity.

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Discourses of Epictetus, Book II, Chapter XVIII, “How we should struggle against appearances,” George Long translation; 1877 George Bell & Sons witness on Wikisource, cross-checked against Project Gutenberg #10661. Epictetus explains that habits and faculties are maintained by corresponding actions: “If you would be a good reader, read; if a writer, write.”

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Generally then if you would make anything a habit, do it.

“Generally then if you would make anything a habit, do it.”

Repeated behavior trains the corresponding habit, so change depends on practicing the desired action rather than merely endorsing it in theory.

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Discourses of Epictetus, Book II, Chapter XVIII, “How we should struggle against appearances,” George Long translation; 1877 George Bell & Sons witness on Wikisource, cross-checked against Project Gutenberg #10661. This collection lightly normalizes Long’s “any thing” to “anything”; this longer record contains the shorter retained habit excerpt represented by a separate legacy quote URL.

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No great thing is created suddenly, any more than a bunch of grapes or a fig.

“No great thing is created suddenly, any more than a bunch of grapes or a fig.”

Epictetus treats worthwhile development as organic rather than instantaneous: ability, character and reconciliation require stages of growth that cannot be skipped simply because the final result is desired now.

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Discourses of Epictetus, Book I, Chapter XV, “What Philosophy Promises,” George Long translation; 1877 George Bell & Sons witness on Wikisource, cross-checked against Project Gutenberg #10661. Epictetus answers a request for immediate improvement with the fig/grape analogy: nothing great is produced suddenly and development requires time.

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We shall both be cautious and confident, and indeed confident because of our caution.

“We shall both be cautious and confident, and indeed confident because of our caution.”

Epictetus rejects confidence as recklessness: confidence becomes rational when caution is directed toward one’s own judgments and choices rather than toward externals that cannot be controlled.

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Discourses of Epictetus, Book II, Chapter I, “That confidence (courage) is not inconsistent with caution,” George Long translation; 1877 George Bell & Sons witness on Wikisource, cross-checked against Project Gutenberg #10661. Epictetus distinguishes confidence toward externals from moral caution in the use of one’s own will.

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For if we had understanding, ought we to do any thing else both jointly and severally than to sing hymns and bless the deity, and to tell of his benefits?

“For if we had understanding, ought we to do any thing else both jointly and severally than to sing hymns and bless the deity, and to tell of his benefits?”

Epictetus links gratitude with attentive understanding: recognizing ordinary capacities and the order of life should produce praise rather than treating what sustains us as invisible or automatically deserved.

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Discourses of Epictetus, Book I, Chapter XVI, “Of Providence,” George Long translation; 1877 George Bell & Sons witness on Wikisource, cross-checked against Project Gutenberg #10661. The passage is explicitly theological Stoicism: Epictetus says understanding should lead people to sing hymns, bless the deity and recount divine benefits.

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Remember that thou art an actor in a play.

“Remember that thou art an actor in a play.”

Life is pictured as a role with conditions we did not choose, while the quality of our performance remains our responsibility.

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Enchiridion 17; the longer passage compares human life with playing the role assigned in a drama.

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Wish the things which happen to be as they are.

“Wish the things which happen to be as they are.”

The advice is not passivity; it is a call to stop fighting reality before deciding how to respond to it.

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A concise clause from Enchiridion 8, where Epictetus contrasts demanding preferred outcomes with accepting what occurs.

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Disease is an impediment to the body, but not to the will.

“Disease is an impediment to the body, but not to the will.”

Physical limitation and inner choice are treated as different domains, preserving agency even under constraint.

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Enchiridion 9; Epictetus uses illness to illustrate the distinction between external limits and the will.

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Remember that you must behave in life as at a dinner party.

“Remember that you must behave in life as at a dinner party.”

The dinner-party image recommends waiting for what comes in proper order instead of grabbing anxiously, turning restraint into a model for daily conduct.

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Enchiridion, chapter 15; the following sentences explain waiting until things come round to you.

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Seek not that the things which happen should happen as you wish.

“Seek not that the things which happen should happen as you wish.”

Peace becomes more possible when desire stops demanding that reality conform perfectly to preference before a useful response can begin.

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Enchiridion, section VIII, George Long translation; the following clause advises wishing events to be as they are.

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Men are disturbed not by the things which happen, but by the opinions about the things.

“Men are disturbed not by the things which happen, but by the opinions about the things.”

Epictetus separates an event from the judgment placed on it, making interpretation a practical point of leverage.

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Enchiridion 5 in George Long’s translation; the passage distinguishes events from the opinions that disturb us.

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The man did not know the rest of my faults, for he would not have mentioned these only.

“The man did not know the rest of my faults, for he would not have mentioned these only.”

Epictetus answers insult without retaliation by turning attention toward his own fallibility; the joke reduces the critic’s power because reputation is treated as an external judgment rather than something that must be avenged.

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Enchiridion, section 33 in George Long’s public-domain translation, Project Gutenberg #10661. The line is the suggested reply after hearing that someone has spoken ill of you; it is Stoic self-command, not an instruction to accept abuse without boundaries.

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If you would improve, submit to be considered without sense and foolish with respect to externals.

“If you would improve, submit to be considered without sense and foolish with respect to externals.”

Improvement can require tolerating other people’s low opinion when their standards are based on external status rather than the character being cultivated.

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Enchiridion, section XIII, George Long translation; the advice warns against pursuing both inner discipline and external reputation.

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When you have decided that a thing ought to be done, and are doing it, never avoid being seen doing it.

“When you have decided that a thing ought to be done, and are doing it, never avoid being seen doing it.”

Once judgment has concluded an action is right, misplaced criticism should not become a reason to hide or abandon the action.

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Enchiridion, chapter 35, George Long translation; the following sentence distinguishes right action from fear of wrong criticism.

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Demand not that events should happen as you wish; but wish them to happen as they do happen, and you will go on well.

“Demand not that events should happen as you wish; but wish them to happen as they do happen, and you will go on well.”

Peace is sought by aligning desire with reality rather than requiring reality to obey preference, a central Stoic distinction between response and circumstance.

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Enchiridion, section 8; Epictetus applies Stoic acceptance to events outside personal control.

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On the occasion of every accident that befalls you, remember to turn to yourself and inquire what power you have for turning it to use.

“On the occasion of every accident that befalls you, remember to turn to yourself and inquire what power you have for turning it to use.”

Instead of beginning with what an event has taken away, the practice asks which capacity—endurance, restraint, patience, or judgment—can still be exercised.

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Enchiridion, section X, George Long translation; Epictetus gives examples such as endurance under pain and patience under abuse.

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No man is free who is not master of himself.

“No man is free who is not master of himself.”

Self-command is presented as a prerequisite for freedom because uncontrolled impulses can rule a person as effectively as an outside master.

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The Golden Sayings of Epictetus, saying XV, Hastings Crossley translation.

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Freedom is the name of virtue: Slavery, of vice.

“Freedom is the name of virtue: Slavery, of vice.”

Freedom is treated as an ethical condition of character rather than simply the absence of external restraint.

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The Golden Sayings of Epictetus, saying X, Hastings Crossley translation.

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Try to enjoy the great festival of life with other men.

“Try to enjoy the great festival of life with other men.”

Life is pictured as something shared rather than possessed privately, joining enjoyment with participation in a wider human community.

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The Golden Sayings of Epictetus, saying III, Hastings Crossley translation.

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Fortify thyself with contentment: that is an impregnable stronghold.

“Fortify thyself with contentment: that is an impregnable stronghold.”

Contentment creates a form of inward security because satisfaction becomes less dependent on circumstances that can be taken away.

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The Golden Sayings of Epictetus, saying XVII, Hastings Crossley translation.

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Place then thy happiness in that wherein thou art equal to the Gods.

“Place then thy happiness in that wherein thou art equal to the Gods.”

Epictetus locates happiness in the rational and moral capacities a person can exercise rather than in rank, possessions, or bodily advantages.

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The Golden Sayings of Epictetus, saying XXXIII, Hastings Crossley translation.

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A ship should not ride on a single anchor, nor life on a single hope.

“A ship should not ride on a single anchor, nor life on a single hope.”

The image warns against making one uncertain outcome carry the whole weight of a life; resilience benefits from more than one source of meaning and support.

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The Golden Sayings of Epictetus, saying XVI, Hastings Crossley translation.

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Choose the life that is noblest, for custom can make it sweet to thee.

“Choose the life that is noblest, for custom can make it sweet to thee.”

A demanding way of living can become more natural through practice, so character is shaped partly by the customs a person repeatedly chooses.

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The Golden Sayings of Epictetus, saying XX, Hastings Crossley translation.

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True instruction is this:—to learn to wish that each thing should come to pass as it does.

“True instruction is this:—to learn to wish that each thing should come to pass as it does.”

Stoic instruction begins by reducing the conflict between reality and demand, leaving judgment and action to work with what actually occurs.

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The Golden Sayings of Epictetus, saying XXVI, Hastings Crossley translation.

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What then? have you not received greatness of heart, received courage, received fortitude?

“What then? have you not received greatness of heart, received courage, received fortitude?”

The rhetorical question redirects attention from hardship toward capacities already available for meeting it—courage, endurance, and largeness of spirit.

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The Golden Sayings of Epictetus, saying XIV, in the passage comparing life’s difficulties with enduring the Olympic festival.

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Give me by all means the shorter and nobler life, instead of one that is longer but of less account!

“Give me by all means the shorter and nobler life, instead of one that is longer but of less account!”

Length alone does not make a life better; Epictetus places moral quality and nobility above mere duration.

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The Golden Sayings of Epictetus, saying IX, Hastings Crossley translation.

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Have this thought ever present with thee, when thou losest any outward thing, what thou gainest in its stead.

“Have this thought ever present with thee, when thou losest any outward thing, what thou gainest in its stead.”

Loss is not automatically the whole story; the instruction asks what freedom, clarity, experience, or other value may accompany what has been given up.

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The Golden Sayings of Epictetus, saying XXVII, Hastings Crossley translation.

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You must know that it is no easy thing for a principle to become a man’s own, unless each day he maintain it and hear it maintained, as well as work it out in life.

“You must know that it is no easy thing for a principle to become a man’s own, unless each day he maintain it and hear it maintained, as well as work it out in life.”

Principles become character through repetition: they must be rehearsed, tested, and practiced until they survive ordinary pressure.

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The Golden Sayings of Epictetus, saying XXX, Hastings Crossley translation.