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“On the occasion of every accident that befalls you, remember to turn to yourself and inquire what power you have for turning it to use.”
Instead of beginning with what an event has taken away, the practice asks which capacity—endurance, restraint, patience, or judgment—can still be exercised.
Source note: Enchiridion, section X, George Long translation; Epictetus gives examples such as endurance under pain and patience under abuse.
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“Happy am I, though this has happened to me.”
The point is not denial of hardship but refusal to let an event dictate the whole evaluation of one’s life and character.
Source note: Meditations, Book IV; George Long translation, in the reflection on meeting misfortune without being crushed by it.
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“I am the master of my fate: I am the captain of my soul.”
The closing declaration emphasizes agency over one’s response and character even when external circumstances remain harsh or uncontrollable.
Source note: Closing lines of Invictus; Henley ends a poem about hardship with a statement of inner command.
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“The art of life is more like the wrestler’s art than the dancer’s.”
Life requires readiness for unexpected pressure, closer to maintaining balance in a contest than performing a fully choreographed sequence.
Source note: Meditations, Book VII, section 61, George Long translation; the full sentence emphasizes readiness for sudden and unexpected onsets.
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“If you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you.”
Composure under social pressure is treated as a mark of maturity, especially when panic and blame are spreading around you.
Source note: Poem “If—,” opening lines.
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“Fortune has often in the past got the upper hand of you, and yet you have not surrendered, but have leaped up and stood your ground still more eagerly.”
Past recovery is evidence of present capacity: being struck down by fortune is different from surrendering to it.
Source note: Moral Letters to Lucilius, Letter 13, section 3, Richard M. Gummere translation.