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William Shakespeare Quotes About Relationship

Browse 13 quotations connecting William Shakespeare with Relationship, with meanings, source notes and related themes.

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Relationships, trust and conflict in Shakespeare’s dramatic voices

Thirteen Relationship-tagged quotations span nine different plays, but they are not thirteen instructions for a successful romance. The Countess in All’s Well That Ends Well advises her son Bertram to extend kindness widely while granting trust selectively; Polonius in Hamlet asks Laertes to listen generously but speak cautiously. Both are counsel from older family members whose judgments must be considered within the plays, not treated as Shakespeare’s personal rules. In King Lear, the King’s bitter image of an ungrateful child comes during an escalating confrontation with Goneril. His anger conveys real wounded attachment but is not a neutral verdict on their entire relationship. These family scenes widen this collection beyond the narrower Love page: relationships create obligations and expose competing versions of loyalty.

The romantic passages make very different claims. Lysander tells Hermia in A Midsummer Night’s Dream that the path of love encounters obstacles, immediately after her father and Theseus threaten their freedom to choose. Juliet’s reflection on Romeo’s family name in Romeo and Juliet questions inherited hostility, while her words at parting hold tenderness beside the pain of temporary separation; Romeo’s praise of her brightness in the Capulet house records his immediate idealizing attraction. These three extracts belong to distinct moments of one tragedy, not three separate relationship theories. In Twelfth Night, Orsino calls for more music at the play’s opening because he hopes an excess of feeling will cure his infatuation with Olivia. That is a theatrical appetite, not a universal recipe for deepening love.

Trust can also be deliberately misused. In Othello, Iago warns Othello about jealousy while secretly manufacturing the very suspicion he pretends to diagnose; later he tells Roderigo that emotional wounds heal gradually while urging patience in a scheme he controls. An attractive warning or comforting sentence is not automatically reliable guidance when its speaker is manipulating a listener. The second Twelfth Night passage offers a contrast: Sebastian thanks Antonio for following him into danger, though he says words cannot repay the protection. In The Two Gentlemen of Verona, Proteus counsels the banished Valentine to rely on hope while concealing his own disloyalty. That betrayal is essential to the meaning of his reassurance.

The Merchant of Venice adds another kind of bond: Portia’s claim that mercy benefits giver and receiver occurs during the trial over Antonio’s debt to Shylock. The courtroom result complicates any easy celebration of reciprocal kindness, so this is an indirect Relationship passage rather than evidence of mutual reconciliation. Taken together, the nine plays invite readers to distinguish care from possession, advice from manipulation, and gratitude from mere flattering language. The Love, Forgiveness, Hope and Wisdom collections explore adjacent themes; this page instead asks what happens between people when trust, hierarchy, conflicting duties and imperfect knowledge meet. Individual dramatic speakers, scenes, historical source links and interpretations matter more than treating an excerpt as an authorial endorsement.

Sources

Where these relationship quotations appear

Sources represented here include Romeo and Juliet, Othello, Twelfth Night.

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13 matching quotations with meanings and source context

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The course of true love never did run smooth.

“The course of true love never did run smooth.”

Voice: Fictional character · Lysander

Love is described as complicated rather than frictionless, which makes the line a durable reminder against idealizing relationships.

Source details

A Midsummer Night’s Dream, Act I, Scene 1; Lysander says this to Hermia while describing the obstacles that repeatedly frustrate lovers. Verified in the scan-backed 1918 Yale Shakespeare edition edited by Willard Higley Durham; direct evidence resolves to the reviewed Act I transcription.

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Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.

“Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.”

Voice: Fictional character · Countess of Roussillon

The advice combines generosity with judgment: goodwill can be broad while trust remains selective.

Source details

All’s Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1; the Countess of Roussillon gives Bertram the counsel “Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.” Verified against Wikisource’s 1910 facsimile transcription of the 1623 First Folio (folio spelling “Loue all, trust a few, Doe wrong to none”); direct evidence resolves to the reviewed Act I transcription.

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How sharper than a serpent’s tooth it is to have a thankless child!

“How sharper than a serpent’s tooth it is to have a thankless child!”

Voice: Fictional character · King Lear

The image captures the particular hurt of care being answered by ingratitude within a close family bond.

Source details

King Lear, Act I, Scene IV, reviewed against the scan-backed First Folio facsimile. Lear's serpent's-tooth line occurs inside his curse against Goneril after the reduction of his retinue; it is angry dramatic speech, not a neutral rule about children or family relationships.

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How poor are they that have not patience! What wound did ever heal but by degrees?

“How poor are they that have not patience! What wound did ever heal but by degrees?”

Voice: Fictional character · Iago

The image recognizes that wounds and complicated situations change gradually rather than instantly, but the dramatic context warns against automatically treating a persuasive maxim as trustworthy advice.

Source details

Othello, commonly numbered Act II, Scene III in modern editions. In the represented 1910 First Folio facsimile the continuous Cyprus scene is routed as Act II, Scene II; Iago says 'How poore are they that haue not Patience? / What wound did euer heale but by degrees?' while manipulating Roderigo. The edition-specific scene-number difference is preserved explicitly.

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O, beware, my lord, of jealousy; It is the green-eyed monster which doth mock the meat it feeds on.

“O, beware, my lord, of jealousy; It is the green-eyed monster which doth mock the meat it feeds on.”

Voice: Fictional character · Iago

Jealousy is described as self-consuming because it feeds on suspicion while tormenting the person who carries it.

Source details

Othello, Act III, Scene III, reviewed against the scan-backed First Folio facsimile. Iago's green-eyed-monster image is manipulative fictional dialogue used while cultivating Othello's jealousy; it is not Shakespeare's direct psychological diagnosis or clinical evidence.

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Parting is such sweet sorrow.

“Parting is such sweet sorrow.”

Voice: Fictional character · Juliet

The phrase holds affection and pain together: separation hurts precisely because the relationship being left is valued.

Source details

Romeo and Juliet, Act 2, Scene 2; Juliet speaks as the lovers part for the night.

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What’s in a name? That which we call a rose by any other word would smell as sweet.

“What’s in a name? That which we call a rose by any other word would smell as sweet.”

Voice: Fictional character · Juliet

The line questions whether labels and inherited identities should determine the value or reality of the person beneath them.

Source details

Act 2, Scene 2; Juliet separates Romeo from the social meaning of his family name.

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It is twice blest: it blesseth him that gives and him that takes.

“It is twice blest: it blesseth him that gives and him that takes.”

Voice: Fictional character · Portia

Mercy is described as reciprocal in effect: it helps the recipient, but it also changes the moral character of the person who chooses to give it.

Source details

The Merchant of Venice, Act 4, Scene 1; Portia explains why mercy benefits both sides.

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Hope is a lover's staff; walk hence with that And manage it against despairing thoughts.
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“Hope is a lover's staff; walk hence with that And manage it against despairing thoughts.”

Voice: Fictional character · Proteus

Proteus describes hope as a walking staff for a lover who has been forced away from the person he loves: it offers something to lean on while facing separation. His advice is complicated by his own disloyalty to Valentine.

Source details

The Two Gentlemen of Verona, Act III, Scene 1: Proteus speaks to Valentine after the Duke banishes him. Although the words sound encouraging in isolation, Proteus has secretly betrayed Valentine’s plan. The MIT play transcription supplies the displayed public-domain wording and scene; this is fictional dialogue rather than Shakespeare’s personal confession.

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If music be the food of love, play on.

“If music be the food of love, play on.”

Voice: Fictional character · Duke Orsino

Love is treated as an appetite that can be intensified through beauty, sensation, and repeated emotional stimulation.

Source details

Twelfth Night, Act I, Scene 1, Orsino; 1922 Yale Shakespeare edition edited by George Henry Nettleton, printed page 1 / Wikisource scan leaf 13. “If music be the food of love, play on” opens Orsino’s attempt to use excess music to surfeit and extinguish his appetite for love. It remains fictional dramatic speech shaped by Orsino’s self-dramatizing desire, not Shakespeare speaking autobiographically or a modern psychological claim about music and emotion.

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I can no other answer make but thanks, and thanks, and ever thanks.

“I can no other answer make but thanks, and thanks, and ever thanks.”

Voice: Fictional character · Sebastian

Sebastian responds to Antonio’s costly loyalty with repeated thanks while also admitting that words alone are an inadequate repayment for practical care.

Source details

Twelfth Night, Act III, Scene 3, Sebastian; 1922 Yale Shakespeare edition edited by George Henry Nettleton, printed page 56 / Wikisource scan leaf 68. Sebastian tells Antonio, “I can no other answer make but thanks, and thanks, and ever thanks,” after Antonio explains that concern for Sebastian’s safety drove him onward despite danger in Illyria. It remains fictional gratitude dialogue tied to Antonio’s costly loyalty, not Shakespeare autobiography.

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