Browse 6 quotations connecting William Shakespeare with Self-Control, with meanings, source notes and related themes.
Sources represented here include Julius Caesar, Hamlet, Henry IV, Part 1.
“Give every man thy ear, but few thy voice.”
Listening broadly while speaking selectively is presented as a practical discipline for judgment, relationships, and self-control.
Act 1, Scene 3; Polonius advises Laertes before his departure.
“The better part of valour is discretion.”
Courage is balanced with judgment here: avoiding a needless danger can sometimes be wiser than performing bravery for appearance.
Henry IV, Part 1, Act V Scene 4; reviewed against the 1917 Yale Shakespeare edition edited by Samuel B. Hemingway, printed page 110 / scan leaf 124. Falstaff says 'The better part of valour is discretion' after counterfeiting death during the battle and immediately boasts that this discretion saved his life. It remains comic fictional self-justification rather than a universal rule for courage or risk.
“Men at some time are masters of their fates.”
Circumstances matter, but people also have moments when their own decisions meaningfully shape what follows.
Julius Caesar, Act I, Scene 2, in the 1919 Yale Shakespeare edition edited by Lawrence Mason. Cassius says ‘Men at some time are masters of their fates’ immediately before the fuller stars/underlings argument; the retained short record is part of the same local persuasion scene.
“The fault, dear Brutus, is not in our stars, but in ourselves, that we are underlings.”
The line rejects passive fatalism and places responsibility for circumstances more directly on human decisions, ambition, and action.
Julius Caesar, Act I, Scene 2, in the 1919 Yale Shakespeare edition edited by Lawrence Mason. Cassius tells Brutus that men can be masters of their fates and immediately continues, ‘The fault, dear Brutus, is not in our stars, / But in ourselves, that we are underlings.’ This is Cassius’s political persuasion inside the drama, not neutral historical evidence or Shakespeare speaking directly.
“Wisely and slow; they stumble that run fast.”
Speed without judgment can undermine the very goal a person is pursuing, so patience becomes part of effective action.
Act 2, Scene 3; Friar Laurence urges Romeo to move with greater care.
“The rarer action is in virtue than in vengeance.”
Prospero chooses deliberate mercy over retaliation, presenting forgiveness not as weakness but as the more difficult exercise of reason and character.
The Tempest, Act 5, Scene 1; Prospero decides against vengeance after considering the suffering of his enemies.
