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“The best revenge is not to be like your enemy.”
Retaliation is rejected when it would reproduce the very behavior one condemns.
Source note: Meditations 6.6; wording varies by translation.
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“Mildness and gentleness are more manly than anger and discontent.”
Strength is located in self-command and humane restraint rather than aggression, making gentleness compatible with courage.
Source note: Meditations, Book XI; George Long translation, in a reflection on responding to wrongdoing without anger.
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“A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.”
Tone can change the direction of conflict: a measured response may reduce escalation while harsh speech can intensify it.
Source note: Proverbs 15:1 in the King James Version.
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“If he trespass against thee seven times in a day ... thou shalt forgive him.”
Voice: Reported speaker · Jesus
Repeated offence makes forgiveness harder, which is exactly the point of the passage: the moral demand is not limited to the first easy opportunity to forgive.
Source note: Luke 17:4 in the King James Version; the middle repetition is shortened with an ellipsis while preserving the verse’s instruction.
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“The greatest remedy for anger is delay.”
Delay interrupts the first impulse of anger and gives judgment time to test whether the perceived offence deserves the reaction it initially provoked.
Source note: On Anger, Book II, section 29.
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“Wisely and slow; they stumble that run fast.”
Voice: Fictional character · Friar Laurence
Speed without judgment can undermine the very goal a person is pursuing, so patience becomes part of effective action.
Source note: Act 2, Scene 3; Friar Laurence urges Romeo to move with greater care.