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How to read mistakes quotes without flattening the idea
Mistakes can mean different things in different sources. This collection treats the topic as a question to investigate through multiple voices rather than as a keyword that automatically deserves a list. This collection includes 20 quotations across 19 authors or source voices and 20 named sources.
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What this collection contains
Voices: Oscar Wilde, Aesop, Alexander Pope, Aristotle, Charlotte Brontë.
Sources: Aesop’s Fables — The Lion, the Fox, and the Ass, An Essay on Criticism, Anne of Green Gables, Common Sense, Crime and Punishment.
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Questions worth asking: What does this source mean by mistakes? Which part depends on the original context? Which other author offers a different answer? And what would change in practice if you accepted the line as good advice?
Source identified1
“To err is human; to forgive, divine.”
Error is treated as ordinary human limitation, while forgiveness requires an additional act of generosity.
Source note: An Essay on Criticism, Part II; Pope warns that shallow learning can produce premature confidence before deeper study tempers judgment.
Source identified2
“Friendship helps the young to keep from error.”
Aristotle gives friendship a practical educational role: trusted companions can help younger people avoid mistakes by supplying counsel, example and shared judgment.
Source note: Nicomachean Ethics, Book VIII, Chapter I, Project Gutenberg #8438. The sentence occurs in Aristotle’s opening inventory of why friendship is necessary across different stages of life.
Source identified3
“The road of excess leads to the palace of wisdom.”
The proverb provocatively suggests that excess can teach limits through direct experience, though it is not a simple instruction to pursue excess.
Source note: The Marriage of Heaven and Hell, “Proverbs of Hell”; Blake presents the line as a deliberately paradoxical aphorism about experience and limits.
Source identified4
“A hasty judgement is a first step to a recantation.”
Rushing to a conclusion increases the chance that later evidence will force an embarrassing or costly reversal.
Source note: The Moral Sayings of Publius Syrus, maxim 8, in Darius Lyman’s 1856 English rendering; maxim order can vary across editions.
Source identified5
“Tomorrow is always fresh, with no mistakes in it yet.”
A new day is treated as a practical reset: past mistakes remain real without having to occupy every future choice.
Source note: Anne of Green Gables, Anne’s hopeful reflection about tomorrow.
Source identified6
“Our errors are surely not such awfully solemn things.”
James resists treating every possible intellectual mistake as catastrophic, because an excessive fear of error can itself prevent inquiry, experience and the possibility of gaining truth.
Source note: The Will to Believe, essay “The Will to Believe”; Project Gutenberg #26659. James is contrasting the risk of being mistaken with the cost of refusing every uncertain intellectual venture.
Source identified7
“Experience is the name everyone gives to their mistakes.”
The epigram turns a flattering word into a comic rebrand for error, suggesting that experience often arrives only after something has gone wrong.
Source note: Lady Windermere’s Fan; a characteristic Wildean epigram linking experience and mistakes.
Source identified8
“Experience is merely the name men gave to their mistakes.”
Voice: Narrator voice · Narrator, focalized through Lord Henry
The wit turns “experience” into a retrospective label for errors, suggesting that mistakes become useful only when understood.
Source note: The Picture of Dorian Gray, 1891 edition, Chapter 4; third-person narration focalized through Lord Henry reflects that experience is the name people give to their mistakes.
Source identified9
“We learn wisdom from failure much more than from success.”
Failure can expose what does not work and force closer observation, turning setbacks into information that uncomplicated success may never reveal.
Source note: Self-Help, Chapter XI, “Self-Culture—Facilities and Difficulties,” Project Gutenberg #935. The passage follows Charles James Fox’s contrast between early success and perseverance after failure, then leads into examples of discoveries and learning produced through mistakes and failed attempts.
Source identified10
“Happy is the man who learns from the misfortunes of others.”
Other people’s failures can become instruction when we pay attention to consequences before repeating the same mistake ourselves.
Source note: Moral printed after “The Lion, the Fox, and the Ass”; the fox changes his conduct after observing the ass’s fate.
Source identified11
“There is a vital difference between error and untruthfulness.”
Being mistaken is separated from intentional falsehood, which allows honest uncertainty and correction without confusing every factual error with deceit.
Source note: The Power of Truth, opening chapter, Project Gutenberg #56020; Jordan distinguishes sincere error from deliberate untruthfulness.
Source identified12
“It is a mistake always to contemplate the good and ignore the evil”
Keller explicitly rejects an optimism that refuses to see harm, making clear-eyed attention to difficult facts part of her constructive outlook.
Source note: Optimism: An Essay (1903), Project Gutenberg #31622. The following paragraph calls ignorant or indifferent optimism dangerous and false.
Source identified13
“Insincerity is always weakness; sincerity even in error is strength.”
The claim values genuine conviction over calculated pose in literary work, while allowing that sincere writers can still be factually or critically mistaken.
Source note: The Principles of Success in Literature, discussion of sincerity, Project Gutenberg #10420; preserved as Lewes’s literary-critical principle rather than a universal law.
Source identified14
“To go wrong in one’s own way is better than to go right in someone else’s.”
Voice: Fictional character · Razumihin
Razumihin values the capacity to make and correct one’s own mistakes over passive dependence on borrowed conclusions, making independent error part of an active search for truth.
Source note: Crime and Punishment, Part III, Chapter I, Constance Garnett translation, Project Gutenberg #2554. Razumihin says this during an excited argument about error, truth and Russia’s habit of living on other people’s ideas; it is character dialogue, not direct Dostoevsky autobiography.
Source identified15
“Error of opinion may be tolerated, where reason is left free to combat it.”
Jefferson argues that political disagreement need not be suppressed when open reasoning remains available to challenge error, treating free contest rather than coercion as the safer response to mistaken opinion.
Source note: First Inaugural Address, March 4, 1801; the wording is preserved by Monticello’s Jefferson Quotes & Family Letters from Jefferson’s manuscript and contemporary printing. The surrounding address condemns political intolerance and says differences of opinion are not always differences of principle.
Source identified16
“I ardently wished to extinguish that life which I had so thoughtlessly bestowed.”
Voice: Fictional narrator · Victor Frankenstein
Victor’s regret is inseparable from responsibility and revenge: after William and Justine’s deaths, he wishes he could reverse the act of creation whose consequences he believes he failed to foresee or govern.
Source note: Frankenstein, Chapter 9 in the represented Project Gutenberg #84 text. Victor narrates this while describing overwhelming remorse and guilt after Justine’s execution; his reaction also turns toward hatred and revenge, so the line is not presented as a complete model of healthy repair.
Source identified17
“He that answereth a matter before he heareth it, it is folly and shame unto him.”
Answering before listening mistakes speed for competence; understanding requires enough restraint to hear the matter before judging it.
Source note: Proverbs 18:13 in the King James Version.
Source identified18
“Dread remorse when you are tempted to err, Miss Eyre; remorse is the poison of life.”
Voice: Fictional character · Edward Rochester
Rochester describes remorse as corrosive because wrongdoing can continue to poison later life; the scene immediately turns to the harder question of whether repentance or actual reformation can change what follows.
Source note: Jane Eyre, Project Gutenberg #1260. Rochester says this to Jane while recounting his own decline. Jane replies that repentance is said to cure remorse; Rochester answers that reformation may be its cure. This is fictional character dialogue, not Charlotte Brontë’s direct psychological advice.
Source identified19
“To have faults and not to reform them,—this, indeed, should be pronounced having faults.”
Making an error is less serious than refusing to correct it after the problem has become visible.
Source note: The Analects of Confucius, James Legge’s public-domain English translation; Book XV distinguishes ordinary faults from the refusal to reform them.
Source identified20
“A long habit of not thinking a thing wrong, gives it a superficial appearance of being right.”
Custom can disguise error by making the familiar feel legitimate; critical judgment requires re-examining practices that have escaped scrutiny through repetition.
Source note: Common Sense, Introduction; Paine uses the observation to explain the resistance that unfamiliar political arguments may initially provoke.
Questions about this collectionHow to use these mistakes quotes
What do these mistakes quotes focus on?
The collection brings together quotations whose central idea connects with mistakes. The topic guide and related themes help distinguish different ways authors approach the idea.
Which authors and sources appear here?
Representative voices include Oscar Wilde, Aesop, Alexander Pope. Representative sources include Aesop’s Fables — The Lion, the Fox, and the Ass, An Essay on Criticism, Anne of Green Gables. Author and source links make it easy to continue reading in context.
How should I read the attribution labels?
“Source identified” means the quotation is connected with a named source. “Attribution review” or “Disputed” signals that the attribution needs extra caution. Editions, punctuation and translations can still vary.
Why include a meaning under every quote?
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