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He will win who knows when to fight and when not to fight.

“He will win who knows when to fight and when not to fight.”

Judgment includes restraint: choosing the wrong contest can be as damaging as fighting badly once the contest begins.

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The Art of War, Chapter III “Attack by Stratagem,” section 17, Lionel Giles translation (1910), printed page 24 / scan leaf 80 in the original Giles edition on Wikisource, cross-checked against Project Gutenberg #17405. “He will win who knows when to fight and when not to fight” is the first of five listed military essentials for victory; it remains battlefield-strategy judgment rather than a context-free maxim about every disagreement.

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Supreme excellence consists in breaking the enemy’s resistance without fighting.

“Supreme excellence consists in breaking the enemy’s resistance without fighting.”

The highest strategic result achieves the objective while avoiding the destruction, expense, and uncertainty of direct battle when another path can work.

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The Art of War, Chapter III “Attack by Stratagem,” section 2, Lionel Giles translation (1910), printed page 17 / scan leaf 73 in the original Giles edition on Wikisource, cross-checked against Project Gutenberg #17405. “Supreme excellence consists in breaking the enemy’s resistance without fighting” contrasts mere battlefield victory with achieving the strategic objective without direct combat. This remains ancient military-strategy argument in translation, not generic advice for business, relationships or ordinary personal conflict.

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It is good to tame the mind, which is difficult to hold in and flighty, rushing wherever it listeth; a tamed mind brings happiness.

“It is good to tame the mind, which is difficult to hold in and flighty, rushing wherever it listeth; a tamed mind brings happiness.”

The verse treats inward steadiness as trained rather than accidental: a mind that is repeatedly brought under wise direction becomes a source of greater stability and happiness.

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Dhammapada 35, F. Max Müller translation; the wording belongs to the chapter on thought and is preserved as a translated canonical verse rather than attributed to a modern individual author.

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If a man hold himself dear, let him watch himself carefully; during one at least out of the three watches a wise man should be watchful.

“If a man hold himself dear, let him watch himself carefully; during one at least out of the three watches a wise man should be watchful.”

Holding oneself dear is expressed as careful stewardship rather than indulgence: valuing the self creates a reason to remain attentive to one’s conduct and direction.

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Dhammapada 157, Chapter XII “Self,” in Max Müller’s translation; the verse explicitly joins self-regard with watchfulness and ethical discipline.

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Far and away the best prize that life offers is the chance to work hard at work worth doing.

“Far and away the best prize that life offers is the chance to work hard at work worth doing.”

Work is valuable not merely because it is difficult, but because the difficulty is attached to something judged worth doing.

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Speech at Syracuse, New York, September 7, 1903.

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It is only through labor and painful effort, by grim energy and resolute courage, that we move on to better things.

“It is only through labor and painful effort, by grim energy and resolute courage, that we move on to better things.”

Progress is framed as requiring energy and courage rather than comfort, while the phrase also acknowledges that effort can be painful.

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Speech “The Strenuous Life,” April 10, 1899.

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First keep thyself in peace, and then shalt thou be able to be a peacemaker towards others.

“First keep thyself in peace, and then shalt thou be able to be a peacemaker towards others.”

The devotional instruction makes inward steadiness prior to outward peacemaking: a person who is internally ruled by agitation will struggle to reduce conflict in relationships around them.

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The Imitation of Christ, Book II, Chapter III, “Of the good, peaceable man,” William Benham translation, Project Gutenberg #1653.

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Those things which a man cannot amend in himself or in others, he ought patiently to bear, until God shall otherwise ordain.

“Those things which a man cannot amend in himself or in others, he ought patiently to bear, until God shall otherwise ordain.”

The devotional advice separates attempted correction from patient endurance: when a fault cannot presently be changed, continued struggle to control it may need to give way to forbearance.

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The Imitation of Christ, Book I, Chapter XVI, “Of bearing with the faults of others,” William Benham translation, Project Gutenberg #1653. The chapter advises patiently bearing what cannot presently be amended while also urging prayer and mutual forbearance; it remains Christian devotional counsel rather than permission to tolerate preventable harm.

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Here is my work, here or nowhere.

“Here is my work, here or nowhere.”

Carlyle’s imagined capable leader locates responsibility in the actual sphere available to him rather than waiting for a more convenient setting in which to act.

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Latter-Day Pamphlets, No. IV “The New Downing Street”; Project Gutenberg #1140. The sentence occurs inside Carlyle’s controversial political argument about leadership; this collection uses it for work/responsibility while retaining that historical context.

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Do the Duty which lies nearest thee

“Do the Duty which lies nearest thee”

Voice: Fictional narrator · Diogenes Teufelsdröckh (framed voice)

The advice narrows attention from an overwhelming field of possibilities to the responsibility that is already clear enough to act on, with later duties expected to become clearer through action.

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Sartor Resartus, Book II, Chapter IX, “The Everlasting Yea,” printed page 156 / Wikisource scan leaf 188 in The Works of Thomas Carlyle, Centenary Edition, Vol. I (New York: Charles Scribner’s Sons, 1896). “Do the Duty which lies nearest thee” follows the doubt/action sentence and is explicitly described as a precept that was of invaluable service to Teufelsdröckh. It remains fictional-philosophical and religious conduct-of-life rhetoric rather than a context-free productivity command.

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For if once a man indulges himself in murder, very soon he comes to think little of robbing;

“For if once a man indulges himself in murder, very soon he comes to think little of robbing;”

De Quincey parodies moral slippery-slope arguments by absurdly treating murder as the first step toward increasingly ordinary vices such as robbery, drinking and procrastination.

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Second Paper on Murder (1839), represented in Project Gutenberg #10708 under the Murder Considered as One of the Fine Arts sequence. The passage is deliberate black comedy and satire; it does not endorse violence or present a serious behavioral progression.

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What female heart can gold despise? What cat's averse to fish?

“What female heart can gold despise? What cat's averse to fish?”

Gray humorously gives the cat both human vanity and animal appetite, using the joke to set up a mock-moral warning about attractive things that conceal danger.

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“Ode on the Death of a Favourite Cat, Drowned in a Tub of Gold Fishes,” represented in Project Gutenberg #11254. The poem is comic mock-moral verse about Horace Walpole’s cat Selima; the gendered eighteenth-century joke remains historical literary language rather than a modern claim about women.

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When angry, count ten, before you speak; if very angry, an hundred.

“When angry, count ten, before you speak; if very angry, an hundred.”

Jefferson’s practical rule inserts a deliberate delay between anger and speech, giving judgment time to return before emotion becomes an irreversible response.

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Thomas Jefferson to Thomas Jefferson Smith, February 21, 1825, Founders Online / National Archives. The sentence is item 10 in a short list of “canons of conduct” sent to his namesake relative; the archive currently labels the transcription an Early Access document rather than a final authoritative edition.

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Slow and steady wins the race.

“Slow and steady wins the race.”

The moral values sustained progress over bursts of speed that are not matched by attention or follow-through.

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Traditional English moral associated with the fable; wording is later than the ancient Greek tradition.

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Hurry never realizes that slow, careful foundation work is the quickest in the end.

“Hurry never realizes that slow, careful foundation work is the quickest in the end.”

Speed without preparation can create rework; Jordan argues that careful foundational effort can be more efficient over the full course of a task.

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The Majesty of Calmness, essay II, “Hurry, the Scourge of America,” Project Gutenberg #6911. Jordan contrasts purposeful haste with confused hurry and says that slow, careful foundation work can be quickest in the end. It is period moral rhetoric about overwork, pace and preparation rather than a universal productivity finding.

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Keep the faculty of effort alive in you by a little gratuitous exercise every day.

“Keep the faculty of effort alive in you by a little gratuitous exercise every day.”

James recommends deliberately exercising effort in small ways so that the capacity to act despite difficulty remains practiced rather than being left unused until a crisis.

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Talks To Teachers, chapter on Habit; Project Gutenberg #16287. James calls this his fifth practical maxim about habits. The physiological vocabulary is historical psychology, not modern clinical guidance.

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what is an artist but a workman who is determined that, whatever else happens, his work shall be excellent?

“what is an artist but a workman who is determined that, whatever else happens, his work shall be excellent?”

Morris defines artistic practice through workmanship and a deliberate standard of excellence, joining creative identity to sustained attention to the quality of the work itself.

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Hopes and Fears for Art, lecture “Making the Best of It”; Project Gutenberg #3773. The sentence addresses artistic workmanship rather than claiming every form of labor is art.

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Life in day-tight compartments.

“Life in day-tight compartments.”

Osler compresses his daily-living method into a boundary around the present day: yesterday and tomorrow are acknowledged without being allowed to consume the work and choices available now.

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A Way of Life, section I, printed page 5, London: Constable & Company Ltd. (1913), Project Gutenberg #73116. Osler condenses his proposed daily-living habit into “Life in day-tight compartments,” using the metaphor of watertight ship compartments. This remains historical conduct-of-life rhetoric, not a treatment for anxiety or other health conditions.

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Concentration is an art of slow acquisition

“Concentration is an art of slow acquisition”

Concentration is treated as a capacity built gradually through repeated practice, making sustained attention a training process rather than an instant demand for maximum efficiency.

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A Way of Life, section IV, printed page 14, London: Constable & Company Ltd. (1913), Project Gutenberg #73116. “Concentration is an art of slow acquisition” follows Osler’s advice about steady daily dedication and hour-tight focus. It remains historical educational/professional counsel rather than a quantified modern efficiency rule.

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calmness amid storm

“calmness amid storm”

The compact metaphor describes steadiness under pressure: difficulty remains present, but it need not dictate the quality of judgment or conduct.

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Aequanimitas, 1889 valedictory address. Osler uses the phrase while defining imperturbability for physicians and surgeons; it is retained as a professional ideal in its historical medical setting.

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coolness and presence of mind under all circumstances

“coolness and presence of mind under all circumstances”

Osler defines professional imperturbability as maintaining enough composure to perceive and act clearly when circumstances are difficult or urgent.

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Aequanimitas, valedictory address delivered at the University of Pennsylvania on May 1, 1889; reviewed against the represented 1906 second edition of Aequanimitas with Other Addresses, Internet Archive identifier aequanimitaswith00osle_0. Osler defines imperturbability as ‘coolness and presence of mind under all circumstances,’ immediately followed by ‘calmness amid storm’ and ‘clearness of judgment in moments of grave peril.’ This remains historical medical-professional rhetoric about composure, not clinical guidance or an instruction to suppress emotion.

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The master-word is Work

“The master-word is Work”

Osler makes sustained work the organizing principle of his address to medical students, emphasizing disciplined practice over brilliance without application.

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The Master-Word in Medicine, address delivered October 1, 1903 at the opening of the new buildings of the University of Toronto Medical Faculty; reviewed against the represented 1903 John Murphy pamphlet, Internet Archive identifier b28060805. ‘The master-word is Work’ is Osler’s organizing refrain and is followed by his appeal to write the word on the heart and forehead. This remains historical professional rhetoric rather than an endorsement of unsafe working hours or workaholism.

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It is the open sesame to every portal

“It is the open sesame to every portal”

The metaphor presents work as a means of opening opportunities that remain inaccessible to intention alone, within Osler’s larger argument for disciplined professional effort.

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The Master-Word in Medicine, 1903. “It” refers to the master-word Work in the immediately preceding passage; the source page preserves that antecedent so the excerpt is not detached from its meaning.

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the paramount importance of the work-habit

“the paramount importance of the work-habit”

The address stresses that useful work becomes more dependable when it is habitual, making consistency part of professional formation rather than something left to occasional motivation.

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The Master-Word in Medicine, 1903. Osler immediately acknowledges that acquiring the work-habit can be a hard battle; the context therefore supports persistence without turning the passage into a modern workaholism prescription.

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Time is what we want most, but what, alas! we use worst;

“Time is what we want most, but what, alas! we use worst;”

Penn argues that time is indispensable yet commonly spent carelessly, making attention to its use a central responsibility in the conduct of life.

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Some Fruits of Solitude, Preface, reviewed against the Oxford Text Archive transcription of the licensed 1693 edition. Penn says time is what people want most but use worst and immediately frames stewardship of time in explicitly religious accountability to God, neighbour and self; it remains Quaker conduct-of-life reflection rather than productivity research.

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Give every man thy ear, but few thy voice.

“Give every man thy ear, but few thy voice.”

Voice: Fictional character · Polonius

Listening broadly while speaking selectively is presented as a practical discipline for judgment, relationships, and self-control.

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Act 1, Scene 3; Polonius advises Laertes before his departure.

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The better part of valour is discretion.

“The better part of valour is discretion.”

Voice: Fictional character · Falstaff

Courage is balanced with judgment here: avoiding a needless danger can sometimes be wiser than performing bravery for appearance.

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Henry IV, Part 1, Act V Scene 4; reviewed against the 1917 Yale Shakespeare edition edited by Samuel B. Hemingway, printed page 110 / scan leaf 124. Falstaff says 'The better part of valour is discretion' after counterfeiting death during the battle and immediately boasts that this discretion saved his life. It remains comic fictional self-justification rather than a universal rule for courage or risk.

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Men at some time are masters of their fates.

“Men at some time are masters of their fates.”

Voice: Fictional character · Cassius

Circumstances matter, but people also have moments when their own decisions meaningfully shape what follows.

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Julius Caesar, Act I, Scene 2, in the 1919 Yale Shakespeare edition edited by Lawrence Mason. Cassius says ‘Men at some time are masters of their fates’ immediately before the fuller stars/underlings argument; the retained short record is part of the same local persuasion scene.

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The fault, dear Brutus, is not in our stars, but in ourselves, that we are underlings.

“The fault, dear Brutus, is not in our stars, but in ourselves, that we are underlings.”

Voice: Fictional character · Cassius

The line rejects passive fatalism and places responsibility for circumstances more directly on human decisions, ambition, and action.

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Julius Caesar, Act I, Scene 2, in the 1919 Yale Shakespeare edition edited by Lawrence Mason. Cassius tells Brutus that men can be masters of their fates and immediately continues, ‘The fault, dear Brutus, is not in our stars, / But in ourselves, that we are underlings.’ This is Cassius’s political persuasion inside the drama, not neutral historical evidence or Shakespeare speaking directly.

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Wisely and slow; they stumble that run fast.

“Wisely and slow; they stumble that run fast.”

Voice: Fictional character · Friar Laurence

Speed without judgment can undermine the very goal a person is pursuing, so patience becomes part of effective action.

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Act 2, Scene 3; Friar Laurence urges Romeo to move with greater care.

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The rarer action is in virtue than in vengeance.

“The rarer action is in virtue than in vengeance.”

Voice: Fictional character · Prospero

Prospero chooses deliberate mercy over retaliation, presenting forgiveness not as weakness but as the more difficult exercise of reason and character.

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The Tempest, Act 5, Scene 1; Prospero decides against vengeance after considering the suffering of his enemies.

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Omit needless words.

“Omit needless words.”

Conciseness is treated as removal of words that do no useful work, not as a demand that every sentence be short or stripped of necessary detail.

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The Elements of Style, Chapter III, Rule 13, Project Gutenberg #37134; the surrounding paragraph explicitly says detail need not be eliminated.