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Source-backed quotations about remorse, missed chances, mistakes, irreversible choices, wasted time, repentance, hindsight, and what can still be learned or repaired after the past cannot be changed. The collection distinguishes useful regret from endless rumination, self-punishment, and pretending consequences can simply be erased.

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What’s done cannot be undone.

“What’s done cannot be undone.”

Voice: Fictional character · Lady Macbeth

Some consequences cannot be reversed, so the practical question becomes how to respond now rather than how to erase the past.

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Macbeth, Act V, Scene I, reviewed against the scan-backed 1918 Yale text. Lady Macbeth says 'What's done cannot be undone' during the sleepwalking scene; the dramatic context is guilt and psychological disintegration, not generic advice that consequences should simply be accepted.

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While we are postponing, life speeds by.

“While we are postponing, life speeds by.”

Seneca warns that postponement is itself a use of finite life: waiting for a more convenient future can become the very way the available present is lost.

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Moral Letters to Lucilius, Letter 1, “On Saving Time,” Richard M. Gummere translation. The line follows Seneca’s advice to hold every hour and precedes his claim that nothing is truly ours except time.

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I wasted time, and now doth time waste me.

“I wasted time, and now doth time waste me.”

Voice: Fictional character · King Richard II

Time ignored earlier becomes painfully visible later, when opportunities narrow and delay can no longer be recovered.

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Richard II, Act V, Scene V in the represented 1921 Yale edition. Richard's 'I wasted time, and now doth time waste me' occurs in the prison soliloquy as he compares broken musical time with his ruined political life. The First Folio facsimile numbers the corresponding prison scene differently, so the Yale route is used to preserve this collection's modern scene numbering.

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You pierce my soul. I am half agony, half hope.

“You pierce my soul. I am half agony, half hope.”

Voice: Fictional character · Captain Frederick Wentworth (letter)

Wentworth’s letter holds pain and possibility together: the renewed declaration is intense because he still does not know whether Anne’s feelings have survived their long separation.

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Persuasion, Chapter XXIII, Project Gutenberg #105. Captain Frederick Wentworth writes the line to Anne Elliot while listening to her conversation with Captain Harville; the letter is signed “F. W.” and is fictional character writing, not Austen autobiography.

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Experience is the name everyone gives to their mistakes.

“Experience is the name everyone gives to their mistakes.”

The epigram turns a flattering word into a comic rebrand for error, suggesting that experience often arrives only after something has gone wrong.

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Lady Windermere’s Fan; a characteristic Wildean epigram linking experience and mistakes.

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We do not indeed so often disappoint others as ourselves.

“We do not indeed so often disappoint others as ourselves.”

Private expectations can exceed what anyone else demands of us, so a life may feel disappointing chiefly by comparison with unfulfilled plans known only to oneself.

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The Idler, No. 88; the surrounding paragraph concerns private hopes, proposed tasks and the gap between imagined achievement and lived action.

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It is foolish to lay out money in a purchase of repentance.

“It is foolish to lay out money in a purchase of repentance.”

Voice: Authorial persona / framed maxim · Poor Richard maxim, repeated through Father Abraham

Money spent on an unnecessary bargain can create regret rather than value, making restraint part of good purchasing judgment.

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The Way to Wealth, frugality section; Project Gutenberg #43855. Father Abraham uses the maxim while warning auction buyers against purchases made only because they seem cheap.

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Misfortunes springing from ourselves are the hardest to bear.

“Misfortunes springing from ourselves are the hardest to bear.”

Harm is especially painful when our own choices, tools, or contributions helped create the conditions that made the loss possible.

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Moral printed after “The Oak and the Woodcutters”; the oak laments wedges made from its own branches.

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I knew it was much to be regretted, but still it was not to be helped.

“I knew it was much to be regretted, but still it was not to be helped.”

Voice: Fictional narrator · Pip

Pip recognizes that his changed ambitions separated him from a simpler life he now sees could have been better, yet he also acknowledges that the lost path cannot simply be restored by wishing.

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Great Expectations (1861), global Chapter XVII / Volume I Chapter XVII in the Chapman & Hall three-volume first book edition. Pip tells Biddy that the simpler life he might have led at the forge was “much to be regretted,” then admits that his ambitions make that lost alternative impossible to restore. Verified against the scan-backed Wikisource Chapter XVII transcription and cross-checked with Project Gutenberg #1400. This remains Pip’s retrospective fictional narration and dialogue, not Dickens autobiography.

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we have suffered our purposes to sleep till the time of action is past

“we have suffered our purposes to sleep till the time of action is past”

Johnson describes procrastination as allowing intended work to remain dormant until the opportunity to act has disappeared.

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The Idler, No. 88; this clause comes from Johnson’s reflection on private ambitions that remain unfinished while days and years pass.

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The truth seems to be that it is impossible to lay the ghost of a fact.

“The truth seems to be that it is impossible to lay the ghost of a fact.”

Marlow reflects that an established event can continue to shape reputation and self-understanding even after a person tries to escape its consequences.

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Lord Jim, Project Gutenberg #5658. Marlow’s narration concerns Jim’s effort to live beyond the Patna scandal; the sentence is literary reflection on memory, fact and moral consequence.

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I ardently wished to extinguish that life which I had so thoughtlessly bestowed.

“I ardently wished to extinguish that life which I had so thoughtlessly bestowed.”

Voice: Fictional narrator · Victor Frankenstein

Victor’s regret is inseparable from responsibility and revenge: after William and Justine’s deaths, he wishes he could reverse the act of creation whose consequences he believes he failed to foresee or govern.

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Frankenstein, Chapter 9 in Project Gutenberg #84. Victor narrates the wish to extinguish the life he created after William’s murder and Justine’s execution, amid remorse, guilt, hatred and a stated desire for revenge. It is fictional first-person narration, not a healthy coping model or clinical guidance.

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To mourn a mischief that is past and gone is the next way to draw new mischief on.

“To mourn a mischief that is past and gone is the next way to draw new mischief on.”

Voice: Fictional character · Duke of Venice

Grief over what cannot be changed can become a second injury when it prevents attention to what can still be done.

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Othello, Act I, Scene III, reviewed against the scan-backed 1910 First Folio facsimile on Wikisource. The Duke's 'To mourne a Mischeefe that is past and gon' sentence is part of the same attempt to redirect Brabantio after Desdemona's marriage; this collection preserves modernized spelling and punctuation rather than Folio orthography.

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For of all sad words of tongue or pen, The saddest are these: “It might have been!”

“For of all sad words of tongue or pen, The saddest are these: “It might have been!””

Voice: Poetic speaker · Narrator of “Maud Muller”

Whittier compresses regret into the imagined alternative life: both Maud and the Judge later measure their ordinary lives against a possibility neither chose when they briefly met.

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“Maud Muller,” in The Works of Whittier, Volume I, Project Gutenberg #9567. The poem first shows both characters imagining the life they might have shared, then calls “It might have been” the saddest formulation before ending with a separate note of hope.

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Dread remorse when you are tempted to err, Miss Eyre; remorse is the poison of life.

“Dread remorse when you are tempted to err, Miss Eyre; remorse is the poison of life.”

Voice: Fictional character · Edward Rochester

Rochester describes remorse as corrosive because wrongdoing can continue to poison later life; the scene immediately turns to the harder question of whether repentance or actual reformation can change what follows.

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Jane Eyre, Project Gutenberg #1260. Rochester says this to Jane while recounting his own decline. Jane replies that repentance is said to cure remorse; Rochester answers that reformation may be its cure. This is fictional character dialogue, not Charlotte Brontë’s direct psychological advice.

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The bitterest tears shed over graves are for words left unsaid and deeds left undone.

“The bitterest tears shed over graves are for words left unsaid and deeds left undone.”

Stowe links some of grief’s deepest regret to affection, appreciation or helpful action that was withheld until death made expression impossible.

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The Chimney-Corner, IV, ‘Little Foxes.—Part III,’ first published in The Atlantic Monthly (April 1865) and represented by Project Gutenberg #30611, around printed page 500. ‘The bitterest tears shed over graves...’ follows Stowe's argument that affection left unexpressed can become remorse after death and is followed by examples of words people wish they had said. This collection's ‘Repression’ label describes this moral section rather than a separate printed chapter title; the passage is domestic-moral essay rhetoric, not clinical grief guidance or a guarantee about bereavement.

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When he had gone, I thought of a splendid answer I ought to have given him. However, I will keep it for another occasion.

“When he had gone, I thought of a splendid answer I ought to have given him. However, I will keep it for another occasion.”

Voice: Fictional narrator · Charles Pooter

Pooter’s perfect comeback arrives only after the argument has ended, a familiar social failure made comic by his confidence that the delayed answer can simply be saved for later.

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The Diary of a Nobody, Chapter I, April 6 entry; Project Gutenberg #1026. Immediately after Borset leaves, Charles Pooter thinks of the “splendid answer” he should have given and decides to save it for another occasion. This is the same continuous comic exchange as the preceding Borset record and illustrates Pooter’s delayed wit rather than generic communication advice.

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Live all you can; it’s a mistake not to. It doesn’t so much matter what you do in particular so long as you have your life.

“Live all you can; it’s a mistake not to. It doesn’t so much matter what you do in particular so long as you have your life.”

Strether urges a younger man not to let caution consume the opportunity to experience life, speaking from his own painful sense of what he postponed or missed.

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The Ambassadors, Book Fifth, Chapter II, Project Gutenberg #432. Strether tells little Bilham “Live all you can; it’s a mistake not to” during the Gloriani-garden conversation, speaking from regret about opportunities he believes he missed. James’s own Preface identifies this speech as central to the novel, but the line remains fictional character dialogue rather than James autobiography or universal life advice.

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Regrets are the natural property of grey hairs; and I enjoy, in common with all other men, at least my share of such inheritance.

“Regrets are the natural property of grey hairs; and I enjoy, in common with all other men, at least my share of such inheritance.”

Voice: Fictional character · Old Martin Chuzzlewit

Old Martin treats regret as an almost ordinary inheritance of age: living long enough produces memories of choices, estrangements and missed opportunities that cannot all be revisited without hindsight.

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Martin Chuzzlewit, Chapter X, Project Gutenberg #968. Old Martin Chuzzlewit says that regrets are the natural property of grey hairs while speaking to Pecksniff during a deliberately strategic performance. The maxim remains fictional character speech shaped by manipulation and family conflict rather than direct Dickens autobiography or a clinical claim about aging.

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She had been forced into prudence in her youth, she learned romance as she grew older: the natural sequel of an unnatural beginning.

“She had been forced into prudence in her youth, she learned romance as she grew older: the natural sequel of an unnatural beginning.”

Voice: Narrator voice · Narrator

The narrator summarizes Anne’s development as a reversal: excessive caution shaped her early choice, while experience later teaches her to value warmer confidence and attachment.

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Persuasion, Chapter IV, Project Gutenberg #105. This is narrator commentary after Anne reconsiders the engagement she ended at nineteen under Lady Russell’s persuasion.

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Lost wealth may be replaced by industry, lost knowledge by study, lost health by temperance or medicine, but lost time is gone for ever.

“Lost wealth may be replaced by industry, lost knowledge by study, lost health by temperance or medicine, but lost time is gone for ever.”

Many losses can be repaired through later effort, but spent time cannot be recovered, giving attention and method unusual importance.

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Self-Help, Chapter IX, “Men of Business,” Project Gutenberg #935. The sentence appears in Smiles’s discussion of method, punctuality and the economical use of time, contrasting losses that may be repaired with time once spent, which cannot be recovered.

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The Moving Finger writes; and, having writ, Moves on: nor all thy Piety nor Wit Shall lure it back to cancel half a Line, Nor all thy Tears wash out a Word of it.

“The Moving Finger writes; and, having writ, Moves on: nor all thy Piety nor Wit Shall lure it back to cancel half a Line, Nor all thy Tears wash out a Word of it.”

Voice: Poetic speaker · Rubáiyát poetic voice in Edward FitzGerald’s rendering

The quatrain turns irreversibility into an image of writing that cannot be erased: tears, intelligence and devotion cannot literally rewrite what has already entered the past.

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Rubáiyát of Omar Khayyám, quatrain LI in Edward FitzGerald’s English rendering, Project Gutenberg #246. The famous English wording is FitzGerald’s creative translation and adaptation, so the record does not present it as a literal English sentence written by the historical Omar Khayyam.

Topic guide

A quick guide to regret

Life-oriented quotations range across time, change, hope, memory, nature, happiness, loss, and the ordinary decisions that gradually become a life.

Reading lenses

Remorse that leads to repair versus self-punishmentMissed chances and irreversible timeHindsight without rewriting the pastAccepting consequences while choosing the next useful action

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Short & memorable

Concise lines for readers who want the core idea without a long passage.

  1. “What’s done cannot be undone.” — William Shakespeare · Macbeth
  2. “Let the dead Past bury its dead!” — Henry Wadsworth Longfellow · A Psalm of Life
  3. “While we are postponing, life speeds by.” — Seneca · Moral Letters to Lucilius — Letter 1
  4. “I wasted time, and now doth time waste me.” — William Shakespeare · Richard II
  5. “You pierce my soul. I am half agony, half hope.” — Jane Austen · Persuasion

Reflective & philosophical

Quotations connected with deeper interpretation, perspective, philosophy, or sustained thought.

  1. “I wasted time, and now doth time waste me.” — William Shakespeare · Richard II
  2. “You pierce my soul. I am half agony, half hope.” — Jane Austen · Persuasion
  3. “Experience is the name everyone gives to their mistakes.” — Oscar Wilde · Lady Windermere’s Fan
  4. “We do not indeed so often disappoint others as ourselves.” — Samuel Johnson · The Idler
  5. “Misfortunes springing from ourselves are the hardest to bear.” — Aesop · Aesop’s Fables — The Oak and the Woodcutters

Growth through difficulty

Material about failure, adversity, recovery, resilience, or learning from pressure.

  1. “Let the dead Past bury its dead!” — Henry Wadsworth Longfellow · A Psalm of Life
  2. “Experience is the name everyone gives to their mistakes.” — Oscar Wilde · Lady Windermere’s Fan
  3. “Misfortunes springing from ourselves are the hardest to bear.” — Aesop · Aesop’s Fables — The Oak and the Woodcutters
  4. “I ardently wished to extinguish that life which I had so thoughtlessly bestowed.” — Mary Shelley · Frankenstein
  5. “To mourn a mischief that is past and gone is the next way to…” — William Shakespeare · Othello

Earlier sources

Older works represented in the collection, useful for comparing how the topic changes across time.

  1. “What’s done cannot be undone.” — William Shakespeare · Macbeth
  2. “Let the dead Past bury its dead!” — Henry Wadsworth Longfellow · A Psalm of Life
  3. “While we are postponing, life speeds by.” — Seneca · Moral Letters to Lucilius — Letter 1
  4. “I wasted time, and now doth time waste me.” — William Shakespeare · Richard II
  5. “You pierce my soul. I am half agony, half hope.” — Jane Austen · Persuasion
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