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Above all, don’t lie to yourself.
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“Above all, don’t lie to yourself.”

Voice: Fictional character · Father Zossima

Self-deception is presented as especially damaging because it corrupts the person’s ability to recognize truth both inwardly and around them.

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The Brothers Karamazov, Book II, Chapter 4, “A Lady of Little Faith,” Constance Garnett translation, verified against Project Gutenberg #28054 and Wikisource. Father Zossima tells the visitor, “Above all, don’t lie to yourself,” and develops the warning into an argument about self-deception, respect and love; this is fictional character counsel inside the novel.

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I neither know nor think that I know.
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“I neither know nor think that I know.”

Voice: Dialogue speaker · Socrates

Socrates locates a small advantage in recognizing the boundary of his own knowledge: uncertainty is intellectually healthier than possessing the same ignorance while mistaking it for wisdom.

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Plato, Apology, Benjamin Jowett translation, Project Gutenberg #1656. Socrates says this after examining a politician whom others considered wise; the wording is dialogue speech attributed to Socrates within Plato’s work, not a claim that Socrates knew literally nothing.

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Both sides of me were in dead earnest.
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“Both sides of me were in dead earnest.”

Jekyll describes his opposed impulses as sincerely felt rather than treating one side as merely a performance, intensifying the novel’s exploration of divided identity.

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Strange Case of Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde, “Henry Jekyll’s Full Statement of the Case,” Project Gutenberg #42. This is Jekyll’s fictional account of moral and psychological division inside the novel, not a medical or psychological diagnosis.

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Men are but children of a larger growth;
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“Men are but children of a larger growth;”

Voice: Fictional character · Dolabella

Dolabella compares adult appetite and instability with childhood, using the maxim to criticize desires that remain changeable despite age.

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All for Love, represented by Project Gutenberg #2062. Dolabella speaks the line while reflecting on Antony’s passion and his own conflicting attraction to Cleopatra. It is dramatic character speech inside a tragedy, not Dryden autobiography or a universal developmental claim.

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The unexamined life is not worth living.
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“The unexamined life is not worth living.”

Voice: Dialogue speaker · Socrates

Socrates links a worthwhile human life with reflection on beliefs, conduct, and reasons rather than unexamined routine.

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Apology 38a; wording varies by translation.

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One principal of action is sufficient—Respect thyself.
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“One principal of action is sufficient—Respect thyself.”

Wollstonecraft makes self-respect a moral standard rather than self-flattery: conduct should remain compatible with one’s own sense of truth and justice instead of being reorganized around gaining a respectable social position.

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An Historical and Moral View of the Origin and Progress of the French Revolution, Project Gutenberg #68724. Wollstonecraft connects “Respect thyself” with religion, justice and self-love while criticizing social arrangements that encourage people to sacrifice truthful character for status.

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Life is easy to chronicle, but bewildering to practice.
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“Life is easy to chronicle, but bewildering to practice.”

Forster’s narrator contrasts the clarity of describing another person’s life from outside with the confusion of recognizing one’s own desires while actually living them.

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A Room with a View, Chapter XIV, Project Gutenberg #2641. The frozen catalog wording is a clause extract from the narrator’s longer sentence: “Life is easy to chronicle, but bewildering to practice, and we welcome ‘nerves’ or any other shibboleth that will cloak our personal desire.” The passage concerns Lucy Honeychurch’s self-deception in fiction, not modern psychological evidence.

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A moment's insight is sometimes worth a life's experience.
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“A moment's insight is sometimes worth a life's experience.”

Holmes’s breakfast-table speaker argues that a concentrated moment of perception can sometimes yield understanding that ordinary experience accumulates only slowly.

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The Professor at the Breakfast-Table, Project Gutenberg #2665. The sentence appears in a reflection on young poets whose sensitivity can seem older than their years; it is literary-philosophical observation by the book’s conversational persona, not a measurable law of learning.

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I believe the first test of a truly great man is his humility.
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“I believe the first test of a truly great man is his humility.”

Ruskin defines greatness without self-worship: genuine ability can be recognized accurately while still being held inside a larger sense of proportion, dependence and responsibility.

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Modern Painters, Volume III, Part IV, Chapter XVI, “Of Modern Landscape,” section 24, printed page 260, Project Gutenberg #38923. Ruskin calls humility the first test of a truly great man, then immediately distinguishes humility from doubting one’s real power or hesitating about one’s opinions; his point is proportion, not self-denial. This is Victorian art criticism and moral reflection, not modern clinical or psychological evidence about humility.

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Your hearts know in silence the secrets of the days and the nights.
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“Your hearts know in silence the secrets of the days and the nights.”

Voice: Fictional character · Almustafa

In the work’s poetic frame, inward knowledge exists before it is fully verbalized; the line values listening closely to one’s own interior understanding without claiming that intuition is automatically infallible.

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The Prophet, section “Self-Knowledge.” A man asks Almustafa to speak about self-knowledge, and Almustafa answers with this line before describing the heart’s knowledge and the self as a boundless sea. The represented wording is the 1923 text preserved by Wikisource/Project Gutenberg #58585.

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The fool doth think he is wise, but the wise man knows himself to be a fool.
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“The fool doth think he is wise, but the wise man knows himself to be a fool.”

Voice: Fictional character · Touchstone

Recognizing the limits of one’s knowledge is presented as a mark of wisdom, while certainty about one’s own wisdom can be evidence of the opposite.

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As You Like It, Act V, Scene 1, Touchstone; 1919 Yale Shakespeare edition edited by Jack R. Crawford, printed page 89 / Wikisource scan leaf 101. Touchstone says, “The fool doth think he is wise, but the wise man knows himself to be a fool,” while verbally outmaneuvering William in a comic exchange over Audrey. The maxim remains fictional comic dialogue rather than a direct Shakespearean self-help proposition.

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But nobody can account for the possession of fear when it takes hold of the mind.
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“But nobody can account for the possession of fear when it takes hold of the mind.”

Defoe’s narrator observes how fear can persist and spread beyond what the immediate facts justify, especially during collective crisis and rumor.

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A Journal of the Plague Year, Project Gutenberg #376. The remark follows a false rumor that meat in Newgate Market was infected. It is historical-literary plague narration, not modern psychological or medical guidance.

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Thou ill-form’d offspring of my feeble brain, Who after birth didst by my side remain,
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“Thou ill-form’d offspring of my feeble brain, Who after birth didst by my side remain,”

Bradstreet compares her published book to an imperfect child, combining embarrassment, affection and the writer’s persistent wish to revise work already exposed to readers.

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“The Author to Her Book,” represented by Poetry Foundation from Bradstreet’s posthumous 1678 collection. The extended parent-child metaphor reflects authorship, unauthorized publication and revision rather than a literal statement about children.

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The man did not know the rest of my faults, for he would not have mentioned these only.
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“The man did not know the rest of my faults, for he would not have mentioned these only.”

Epictetus answers insult without retaliation by turning attention toward his own fallibility; the joke reduces the critic’s power because reputation is treated as an external judgment rather than something that must be avenged.

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Enchiridion, section 33 in George Long’s public-domain translation, Project Gutenberg #10661. The line is the suggested reply after hearing that someone has spoken ill of you; it is Stoic self-command, not an instruction to accept abuse without boundaries.

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In reality, there is, perhaps, no one of our natural passions so hard to subdue as pride.
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“In reality, there is, perhaps, no one of our natural passions so hard to subdue as pride.”

Franklin treats humility as a continuing discipline rather than a completed achievement: pride is difficult precisely because it can survive attempts to suppress it and can even attach itself to the appearance of modesty.

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The Autobiography of Benjamin Franklin, Part II, Humility discussion near the close of the Passy 1784 continuation. Franklin reflects that pride survives attempts to suppress it and can attach itself even to apparent humility; the reviewed direct locator is Wikisource Section Thirty Nine.

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If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles.
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“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles.”

Accurate understanding of both one’s own capabilities and the opposing side reduces avoidable strategic surprise and miscalculation.

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The Art of War, Chapter III “Attack by Stratagem,” section 18, Lionel Giles translation (1910), beginning on printed page 24 / scan leaf 80 and continuing onto printed page 25 / scan leaf 81 in the original Giles edition on Wikisource, cross-checked against Project Gutenberg #17405. The enemy/self-knowledge sentence closes Chapter III’s discussion of conditions for victory and remains translation-mediated military strategy rather than a modern psychological or self-help claim.

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A sensible polite person does not assume to be better or wiser or richer than his neighbour.
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“A sensible polite person does not assume to be better or wiser or richer than his neighbour.”

Smiles connects humility with ordinary social behavior: modest conduct resists turning differences in knowledge, wealth, rank or achievement into claims of personal superiority over other people.

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Character, Chapter IX, “Manner—Art,” Project Gutenberg #2541. Smiles places the sentence in his discussion of politeness as respect for the personality and circumstances of others, then describes the well-mannered person as modest, unpretentious and more interested in doing than boasting.

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Self-reverence, self-knowledge, self-control, These three alone lead life to sovereign power.
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“Self-reverence, self-knowledge, self-control, These three alone lead life to sovereign power.”

Voice: Poetic speaker · Pallas

Tennyson joins respect for oneself with knowledge and restraint: durable personal power is presented as the result of living by an inward law rather than seeking power merely for its own sake.

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Oenone, in The Early Poems of Alfred, Lord Tennyson, Project Gutenberg #8601. Pallas speaks the lines while arguing that self-reverence, self-knowledge and self-control lead to a life governed by right rather than by reward; this is poetic character speech, not a prose maxim detached from the poem.

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Discourses on humility give occasion for pride to the boastful, and for humility to the humble.
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“Discourses on humility give occasion for pride to the boastful, and for humility to the humble.”

Pascal points to a self-referential danger: even learning or speaking about humility can become another stage for vanity unless a person is willing to examine the motives behind the performance.

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The Thoughts of Blaise Pascal, C. Kegan Paul translation, Project Gutenberg #46921. The next sentence extends the paradox by observing how difficult it is to speak humbly about humility.

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For, what other dungeon is so dark as one’s own heart! What jailer so inexorable as one’s self!
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“For, what other dungeon is so dark as one’s own heart! What jailer so inexorable as one’s self!”

Hawthorne’s narrator turns imprisonment inward, suggesting that guilt, memory and self-judgment can confine a person more relentlessly than an external cell.

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The House of the Seven Gables, Project Gutenberg #77. This is Gothic literary narration surrounding Clifford’s long history of confinement and inner suffering; the metaphor is not a clinical account of mental illness.

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But there is this terrible thing in evil thoughts, that evil minds soon grow familiar with them.
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“But there is this terrible thing in evil thoughts, that evil minds soon grow familiar with them.”

Voice: Fictional narrator · Narrator

The narrator warns that repeatedly entertaining a harmful idea can reduce the resistance a person initially feels toward acting on it.

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The Black Tulip, Chapter VIII, “An Invasion,” Project Gutenberg #965. Exact-witness review corrects the inherited Chapter VI locator: the narrator says that evil minds soon grow familiar with evil thoughts immediately after Boxtel first shrinks from informing against Van Baerle and before he rationalizes the act.

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Satire is a sort of glass, wherein beholders do generally discover everybody's face but their own;
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“Satire is a sort of glass, wherein beholders do generally discover everybody's face but their own;”

Swift jokes that readers readily recognize other people in satire while overlooking themselves, making self-exemption part of the very behavior satire exposes.

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The Battle of the Books, 'The Preface of the Author,' represented by Project Gutenberg #623. Swift's 'satire is a sort of glass' image opens the Preface and explains why readers recognize other people's faults more readily than their own. The retained semicolon marks a frozen excerpt from a longer sentence; this is satirical/literary metaphor rather than a psychological measurement rule.

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This self-deceit, this fatal weakness of mankind, is the source of half the disorders of human life.
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“This self-deceit, this fatal weakness of mankind, is the source of half the disorders of human life.”

Smith treats distorted self-judgment as a major moral problem because people can preserve flattering interpretations of conduct instead of examining themselves impartially.

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The Theory of Moral Sentiments, Part III, discussion of self-examination and the impartial spectator; Smith is describing the difficulty of judging one’s own conduct fairly.

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Education, n. That which discloses to the wise and disguises from the foolish their lack of understanding.
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“Education, n. That which discloses to the wise and disguises from the foolish their lack of understanding.”

Bierce’s satirical definition suggests that learning may deepen understanding in reflective people while giving the unreflective additional ways to conceal ignorance.

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The Devil’s Dictionary, entry “Education,” Project Gutenberg #972. This is a deliberately cynical comic dictionary definition and should be read as satire rather than as a literal educational theory.

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What a long time it requires to know ourselves, and yet every one has more of this knowledge than he is willing to own.
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“What a long time it requires to know ourselves, and yet every one has more of this knowledge than he is willing to own.”

Self-knowledge develops slowly, and the second clause suggests that people may resist acknowledging what experience has already taught them about their own motives or limitations.

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Letters Written During a Short Residence in Sweden, Norway, and Denmark, Letter IX; represented Cassell & Company 1889 text in Project Gutenberg #3529. The frozen catalog reads “What a long time it requires to know ourselves, and yet every one has more of this knowledge than he is willing to own,” while the represented witness reads “What a long time it requires to know ourselves; and yet almost every one has more of this knowledge than he is willing to own, even to himself.” This collection retains its legacy shortened wording and explicitly records the omitted “almost” / closing phrase rather than silently rewriting it. Wollstonecraft is reflecting on her own solitude, experience and knowledge of the heart.

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To know and yet (think) we do not know is the highest (attainment); not to know (and yet think) we do know is a disease.
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“To know and yet (think) we do not know is the highest (attainment); not to know (and yet think) we do know is a disease.”

The chapter values an awareness of the limits of knowledge and treats false certainty as a disorder of judgment, making intellectual humility a form of protection against confident ignorance.

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Tao Teh King, Chapter 71, James Legge translation, Project Gutenberg #216.

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The fool who knows his foolishness, is wise at least so far. But a fool who thinks himself wise, he is called a fool indeed.
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“The fool who knows his foolishness, is wise at least so far. But a fool who thinks himself wise, he is called a fool indeed.”

The verse treats recognition of one’s own foolishness as the beginning of wisdom, while self-certainty without understanding becomes a deeper form of ignorance.

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Dhammapada 63, Chapter V, “The Fool,” F. Max Müller translation, Project Gutenberg #2017. The verse belongs to a Buddhist canonical collection and remains a textual source voice rather than a modern individual-author quotation.

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those know little of real love or grief who do not know how much we deceive ourselves when we pretend to aim at the cure of either.
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“those know little of real love or grief who do not know how much we deceive ourselves when we pretend to aim at the cure of either.”

Voice: Fictional character · Captain William Booth

Booth recognizes that people may claim to be curing love or grief while unconsciously choosing actions that keep those feelings alive.

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Amelia, Book II, Chapter III, “The narrative continued. More of the touchstone,” Project Gutenberg #6098, George Saintsbury edited witness. Captain Booth says the love / grief sentence while recounting his failed attempts to cure himself of attachment to Amelia. It is fictional retrospective speech, not clinical guidance about grief or relationships.

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He who knows other men is discerning; he who knows himself is intelligent. He who overcomes others is strong; he who overcomes himself is mighty.
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“He who knows other men is discerning; he who knows himself is intelligent. He who overcomes others is strong; he who overcomes himself is mighty.”

Knowledge of others and external power are contrasted with the harder achievements of self-knowledge and self-mastery, locating a more durable form of strength within.

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Tao Teh King, chapter 33, James Legge translation; the chapter continues by connecting contentment with richness and steadfastness with will.

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No man, for any considerable period, can wear one face to himself and another to the multitude, without finally getting bewildered as to which may be the true.
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“No man, for any considerable period, can wear one face to himself and another to the multitude, without finally getting bewildered as to which may be the true.”

Hawthorne warns that sustained conflict between a private self and a public performance can eventually confuse a person’s own sense of identity.

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The Scarlet Letter, Chapter XX, “The Minister in a Maze,” Project Gutenberg #33. Hawthorne’s narrator says that a man who long wears one face privately and another before the multitude may become bewildered about which is true while describing Arthur Dimmesdale’s divided identity. It remains literary moral and psychological characterization rather than a clinical diagnosis.

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We ought, however, first to examine our own selves, next the business which we propose to transact, next those for whose sake or in whose company we transact it.
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“We ought, however, first to examine our own selves, next the business which we propose to transact, next those for whose sake or in whose company we transact it.”

Before committing to action, Seneca asks for an ordered examination of self, task, and company, treating clear self-knowledge as protection against avoidable agitation and mismatch.

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Of Peace of Mind, section VI, Aubrey Stewart translation (1889), cross-checked against Project Gutenberg #64576 and Wikisource. Seneca orders practical deliberation as an examination of oneself, the proposed business, and the people for whose sake or in whose company it will be done.

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For herein is the evil of ignorance, that he who is neither good nor wise is nevertheless satisfied with himself: he has no desire for that of which he feels no want.
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“For herein is the evil of ignorance, that he who is neither good nor wise is nevertheless satisfied with himself: he has no desire for that of which he feels no want.”

Voice: Reported speaker · Diotima, recounted by Socrates

Ignorance becomes difficult to correct when a person feels no lack in understanding, because satisfaction with one’s present judgment removes the motivation to seek what is missing.

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Symposium, Socrates recounting Diotima’s teaching, Benjamin Jowett translation, Project Gutenberg #1600. Diotima is a reported speaker within the dialogue; the passage is philosophical argument about ignorance and desire for wisdom.

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There are two insults which no human being will endure: the assertion that he hasn’t a sense of humor, and the doubly impertinent assertion that he has never known trouble.
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“There are two insults which no human being will endure: the assertion that he hasn’t a sense of humor, and the doubly impertinent assertion that he has never known trouble.”

Lewis satirizes two kinds of self-image people defend fiercely: being able to laugh and believing their own life has contained genuine difficulty.

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Main Street, Project Gutenberg #543. The narrator gives this comic generalization immediately before Carol reacts angrily to Vida’s suggestion that she has not suffered; it is satirical fiction, not a psychological finding about every person.

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It must be a spirit much unlike my own which can keep itself in health and vigor without sometimes stealing from the sultry sunshine of the world to plunge into the cool bath of solitude.
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“It must be a spirit much unlike my own which can keep itself in health and vigor without sometimes stealing from the sultry sunshine of the world to plunge into the cool bath of solitude.”

Hawthorne’s essayistic narrator describes periodic withdrawal into solitary nature as personally restorative, contrasting social heat with the cooling distance of forest and sea.

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“Footprints on the Seashore,” represented in Twice-Told Tales, Project Gutenberg #13707. The narrator immediately says that forest and ocean summon him away from human haunts; “health and vigor” is literary self-description, not medical advice.

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Whenever I find myself growing grim about the mouth; whenever it is a damp, drizzly November in my soul; whenever I find myself involuntarily pausing before coffin warehouses, and bringing up the rear of every funeral I meet; and especially whenever my hypos get such an upper hand of me, that it requires a strong moral principle to prevent me from deliberately stepping into the street, and methodically knocking people’s hats off—then, I account it high time to get to sea as soon as I can.
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“Whenever I find myself growing grim about the mouth; whenever it is a damp, drizzly November in my soul; whenever I find myself involuntarily pausing before coffin warehouses, and bringing up the rear of every funeral I meet; and especially whenever my hypos get such an upper hand of me, that it requires a strong moral principle to prevent me from deliberately stepping into the street, and methodically knocking people’s hats off—then, I account it high time to get to sea as soon as I can.”

Ishmael describes going to sea as his personal response when his mood turns bleak and restless, linking emotional self-recognition with movement toward the ocean.

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Moby Dick; Or, The Whale, Chapter 1, “Loomings,” represented by Project Gutenberg #2701. Ishmael describes going to sea when his mood becomes grim, restless and drawn toward death imagery. The passage is fictional first-person narration and a literary coping pattern, not mental-health, suicide-prevention or medical advice.

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Reflective & philosophical

Quotations connected with deeper interpretation, perspective, philosophy, or sustained thought.

  1. “Above all, don’t lie to yourself.” — Fyodor Dostoevsky · The Brothers Karamazov
  2. “I neither know nor think that I know.” — Plato · Apology
  3. “Both sides of me were in dead earnest.” — Robert Louis Stevenson · Strange Case of Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde
  4. “Men are but children of a larger growth;” — John Dryden · All for Love
  5. “The unexamined life is not worth living.” — Plato · Apology

Earlier sources

Older works represented in the collection, useful for comparing how the topic changes across time.

  1. “Above all, don’t lie to yourself.” — Fyodor Dostoevsky · The Brothers Karamazov
  2. “I neither know nor think that I know.” — Plato · Apology
  3. “Both sides of me were in dead earnest.” — Robert Louis Stevenson · Strange Case of Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde
  4. “Men are but children of a larger growth;” — John Dryden · All for Love
  5. “The unexamined life is not worth living.” — Plato · Apology
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