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Humility—to put a seal upon your lips and forget what you have done.

“Humility—to put a seal upon your lips and forget what you have done.”

Drummond defines humility as allowing good work to remain larger than the ego that performed it: kindness is followed by a refusal to turn the act into self-advertisement or private self-congratulation.

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“The Greatest Thing in the World,” in The Greatest Thing in the World and Other Addresses, Project Gutenberg #16739. Drummond explicitly places Humility among the “ingredients” of Christian love and glosses it as love that does not vaunt itself.

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This inward peace, this silence, this harmony, this Love, is the Kingdom of Heaven.

“This inward peace, this silence, this harmony, this Love, is the Kingdom of Heaven.”

Allen describes spiritual fulfillment as an inward condition of peace, harmony, and love rather than as a reward measured primarily by external circumstance.

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The Way of Peace; the sentence belongs to Allen’s account of the inward qualities he associates with spiritual peace and selfless love.

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We have all a better guide in ourselves, if we would attend to it, than any other person can be.

“We have all a better guide in ourselves, if we would attend to it, than any other person can be.”

Voice: Fictional character · Fanny Price

Inner judgment can be more reliable than social pressure when a person has reflected carefully and understands the circumstances firsthand.

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The novel contrasts outside pressure with the value of attending to one’s own judgment.

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She had been forced into prudence in her youth, she learned romance as she grew older: the natural sequel of an unnatural beginning.

“She had been forced into prudence in her youth, she learned romance as she grew older: the natural sequel of an unnatural beginning.”

Voice: Narrator voice · Narrator

The narrator summarizes Anne’s development as a reversal: excessive caution shaped her early choice, while experience later teaches her to value warmer confidence and attachment.

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Persuasion, Chapter IV, Project Gutenberg #105. This is narrator commentary after Anne reconsiders the engagement she ended at nineteen under Lady Russell’s persuasion.

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All the privilege I claim for my own sex (it is not a very enviable one; you need not covet it), is that of loving longest, when existence or when hope is gone.

“All the privilege I claim for my own sex (it is not a very enviable one; you need not covet it), is that of loving longest, when existence or when hope is gone.”

Voice: Fictional character · Anne Elliot

Anne claims endurance in love for women within a debate about constancy, but Austen gives the argument to a character in a particular social setting rather than presenting it as objective psychology about either sex.

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Persuasion, Chapter XXIII, Project Gutenberg #105. Anne Elliot says this to Captain Harville after he describes men’s attachment to wives and families; the exchange immediately leads into Wentworth’s written declaration.

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It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune, must be in want of a wife.

“It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune, must be in want of a wife.”

Voice: Narrator voice · Narrator

The famous opening exposes assumptions about money, marriage, and social expectations while sounding as if it were stating an unquestionable fact.

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Opening sentence of Chapter 1; the narrator immediately signals the novel’s social irony.

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Love is like the measles; we all have to go through it.

“Love is like the measles; we all have to go through it.”

Romantic love is compared to an unavoidable childhood illness, making intense emotion comic by treating it as something people catch, endure, and eventually recover from.

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The Idle Thoughts of an Idle Fellow, “On Being in Love”; the comparison opens the essay’s mock-medical treatment of romance.

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A boy’s love comes from a full heart; a man’s is more often the result of a full stomach.

“A boy’s love comes from a full heart; a man’s is more often the result of a full stomach.”

The contrast punctures mature romantic eloquence by suggesting comfort and appetite can masquerade as passion, while youthful awkwardness may reveal more direct feeling.

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The Idle Thoughts of an Idle Fellow, “On Being in Love”; the narrator contrasts youthful shyness with the polished declarations of older men.

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Jesus wept.

“Jesus wept.”

Voice: Narrator voice · Gospel narrator

The shortest sentence records grief without explanation or denial, showing sorrow as compatible with love, presence, and compassion in the face of death.

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John 11:35, King James Version; Jesus weeps shortly before the raising of Lazarus, within a scene of mourning and bereavement.

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These things have I spoken unto you, that my joy might remain in you, and that your joy might be full.

“These things have I spoken unto you, that my joy might remain in you, and that your joy might be full.”

Voice: Reported speaker · Jesus

Joy is presented as something that can remain and become full through a sustained relationship rather than a passing mood.

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John 15:11 in the King James Version.

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Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.

“Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.”

Voice: Reported speaker · Jesus

The verse defines love through costly action, making willingness to sacrifice for friends a measure of devotion rather than merely affectionate language.

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John 15:13 in the King James Version.

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I have called you friends.

“I have called you friends.”

Voice: Reported speaker · Jesus

The brief phrase reframes the relationship from mere obedience toward disclosed trust and personal closeness.

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John 15:15 in the King James Version; Jesus contrasts servants with friends who have been told what he has heard.

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Your heart shall rejoice, and your joy no man taketh from you.

“Your heart shall rejoice, and your joy no man taketh from you.”

Voice: Reported speaker · Jesus

The promise describes a joy durable enough to survive separation and difficulty rather than one controlled entirely by other people.

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John 16:22 in the King James Version; Jesus speaks about sorrow being turned into joy.

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Her sins, which are many, are forgiven; for she loved much.

“Her sins, which are many, are forgiven; for she loved much.”

Voice: Reported speaker · Jesus

The line links forgiveness with a transformed response of love, emphasizing that mercy changes the meaning of a person’s past rather than denying it.

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Luke 7:47 in the King James Version; Jesus explains the woman’s actions during the meal at the Pharisee’s house.

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Love me against temptation, and I will love thee notwithstanding thine infirmities.

“Love me against temptation, and I will love thee notwithstanding thine infirmities.”

Voice: Fictional character · Emmanuel

Within Bunyan’s Christian allegory, Emmanuel asks Mansoul for continued loyalty amid temptation while promising continuing love despite weakness.

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The Holy War, represented by Project Gutenberg #395. Emmanuel addresses the allegorical town of Mansoul in an explicitly Christian passage about redemption, temptation and divine love. Emmanuel is the Christ-like fictional/allegorical speaker; the sentence is not Bunyan autobiography or a nonreligious factual guarantee.

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Men are but children of a larger growth;

“Men are but children of a larger growth;”

Voice: Fictional character · Dolabella

Dolabella compares adult appetite and instability with childhood, using the maxim to criticize desires that remain changeable despite age.

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All for Love, represented by Project Gutenberg #2062. Dolabella speaks the line while reflecting on Antony’s passion and his own conflicting attraction to Cleopatra. It is dramatic character speech inside a tragedy, not Dryden autobiography or a universal developmental claim.

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For of all sad words of tongue or pen, The saddest are these: “It might have been!”

“For of all sad words of tongue or pen, The saddest are these: “It might have been!””

Voice: Poetic speaker · Narrator of “Maud Muller”

Whittier compresses regret into the imagined alternative life: both Maud and the Judge later measure their ordinary lives against a possibility neither chose when they briefly met.

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“Maud Muller,” in The Works of Whittier, Volume I, Project Gutenberg #9567. The poem first shows both characters imagining the life they might have shared, then calls “It might have been” the saddest formulation before ending with a separate note of hope.

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What matter how the night behaved? What matter how the north-wind raved? Blow high, blow low, not all its snow Could quench our hearth-fire's ruddy glow.

“What matter how the night behaved? What matter how the north-wind raved? Blow high, blow low, not all its snow Could quench our hearth-fire's ruddy glow.”

Voice: Poetic speaker · Narrator of “Snow-Bound”

Against the storm outside, the remembered family hearth becomes an image of warmth, companionship and emotional shelter that the winter cannot extinguish.

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Snow-Bound: A Winter Idyl, around printed page 22 in the represented Project Gutenberg #20226 illustrated witness. ‘What matter how the night behaved?...’ follows Whittier's remembered family gathered around the winter hearth and is immediately followed by his later-life reflection on the family members who have died. It is autobiographically rooted poetic memory shaped by nostalgia and bereavement, not a literal rule that home or warmth removes hardship.

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Give a little love to a child, and you get a great deal back.

“Give a little love to a child, and you get a great deal back.”

Ruskin presents affection toward children as relational rather than one-way: care given to a child can be met with trust, warmth and generosity in return.

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The Crown of Wild Olive, Lecture I, “Work,” Project Gutenberg #26716, printed page 41. Ruskin places the sentence inside a Victorian Christian discussion of what he calls the loving and generous character of “right childhood”; this collection preserves that historical moral framework rather than treating every surrounding prescription as modern child-development evidence.

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He who chooses his plan for himself, employs all his faculties.

“He who chooses his plan for himself, employs all his faculties.”

Choosing for oneself exercises observation, reasoning, discrimination, and self-command in ways that passive imitation does not.

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On Liberty, Chapter III, in Mill’s discussion of individuality and self-directed choice.

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A person whose desires and impulses are his own—are the expression of his own nature, as it has been developed and modified by his own culture—is said to have a character.

“A person whose desires and impulses are his own—are the expression of his own nature, as it has been developed and modified by his own culture—is said to have a character.”

Character is connected with developed individuality rather than passive conformity: a person’s motives should reflect cultivated judgment rather than borrowed scripts.

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On Liberty, Chapter III; Mill links individuality, cultivated impulses and energetic character.

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Nothing, say you? Perhaps so; nothing but a charming woman, who, strange as it may appear, made him the happiest of men!

“Nothing, say you? Perhaps so; nothing but a charming woman, who, strange as it may appear, made him the happiest of men!”

The narrator undercuts a purely material accounting of Fogg’s journey by suggesting that the relationship he found matters more than the wager or possessions he brought home.

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Around the World in Eighty Days, final chapter, Project Gutenberg #103, in the represented public-domain English translation. This is the narrator’s comic-romantic conclusion after Phileas Fogg completes the journey; the English wording is translation-specific.

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And ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.

“And ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.”

Separation can expose the depth of attachment that ordinary familiarity concealed, making loss a painful measure of how much the bond mattered.

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The Prophet, “On Love.”

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When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.

“When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.”

Grief is connected to former delight: the pain of loss can reveal how much value, affection, or meaning the lost relationship once carried.

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The Prophet, “On Joy and Sorrow.”

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A person can’t have everything in this world; and it was a little unreasonable of her to expect it.

“A person can’t have everything in this world; and it was a little unreasonable of her to expect it.”

The narrator closes with dry irony after Nathalie secures the wealthy marriage she wanted but loses the romantic attention she also expected to keep.

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“The Kiss,” 1895, represented by Wikisource. This is ironic narrator commentary on Nathalie’s calculated choices and disappointment; it is literary satire about desire, money and relationships rather than prescriptive relationship advice.

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For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.

“For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.”

Fear is contrasted with capacities for strength, care, and disciplined judgment, encouraging action that is not governed solely by anxiety.

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2 Timothy 1:7 in the King James Version; the verse contrasts fear with power, love, and disciplined-mindedness.

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Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.

“Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.”

Guarding inner life is presented as practical because attention and motives influence conduct downstream.

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Proverbs 4:23 in the King James Version.

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All you need is confidence in yourself.

“All you need is confidence in yourself.”

Self-confidence is presented as the missing permission to use capacities that may already exist but have been underestimated or doubted.

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The Wonderful Wizard of Oz; the line appears in the story’s recurring contrast between perceived deficiency and existing ability.

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I know but too well how time flies along, That we live but few years, and yet fewer are young.

“I know but too well how time flies along, That we live but few years, and yet fewer are young.”

Voice: Poetic speaker · Poetic speaker

The speaker recognizes that both life and youth are brief, then uses that awareness to explain why a relationship should be worth the time and consequences it demands.

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The Lover: A Ballad, represented by the University of Toronto Representative Poetry Online text from Robert Dodsley’s 1748 A Collection of Poems by Several Hands. The line belongs to a lyric speaker weighing desire against the risk of later regret; it is not treated as a verbatim autobiographical confession by Montagu.

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Who is content needs fear no shame. Who knows to stop incurs no blame.

“Who is content needs fear no shame. Who knows to stop incurs no blame.”

Knowing what is enough protects dignity from endless comparison and acquisition; the ability to stop becomes part of self-respect rather than evidence of insufficient ambition.

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Tao Teh King, chapter 44, James Legge translation; these compact poetic lines follow a contrast among fame, life, and wealth.

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Therefore the sufficiency of contentment is an enduring and unchanging sufficiency.

“Therefore the sufficiency of contentment is an enduring and unchanging sufficiency.”

Contentment supplies a form of enoughness that does not depend on continually acquiring more, making inward sufficiency less vulnerable to comparison and appetite.

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Tao Teh King, chapter 46, James Legge translation; the statement follows warnings about ambition, discontent, and the wish to keep getting.

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He who knows other men is discerning; he who knows himself is intelligent. He who overcomes others is strong; he who overcomes himself is mighty.

“He who knows other men is discerning; he who knows himself is intelligent. He who overcomes others is strong; he who overcomes himself is mighty.”

Knowledge of others and external power are contrasted with the harder achievements of self-knowledge and self-mastery, locating a more durable form of strength within.

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Tao Teh King, chapter 33, James Legge translation; the chapter continues by connecting contentment with richness and steadfastness with will.

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The more did I love them, and the easier it became for me to live.

“The more did I love them, and the easier it became for me to live.”

Understanding ordinary people and their lives changes Tolstoy’s relation to existence: growing sympathy makes life more bearable by replacing detached judgment with human connection.

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My Confession, Leo Wiener translation; Tolstoy describes how closer attention to living and departed people increased his affection for them and altered his ability to live.

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The motor power of his life is love.

“The motor power of his life is love.”

Within Tolstoy’s three-part account of life, the divine conception is motivated by love rather than personal enjoyment or social glory.

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The Kingdom of God Is Within You, Chapter IV; Constance Garnett translation, Project Gutenberg #43302. In Tolstoy’s threefold account of animal, social and divine conceptions of life, the divine conception is governed by love and directed toward God rather than personal enjoyment or social glory.

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It must be beautiful to have a mother!

“It must be beautiful to have a mother!”

Voice: Fictional character · Rose Campbell

The brief exclamation treats maternal care as something precious precisely because the speaker recognizes what it would mean to have that relationship available.

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Eight Cousins; Or, The Aunt-Hill, Chapter 17, Project Gutenberg #38567. Spoken during a conversation about parents and confidences; the emotional force comes from imagined or absent maternal care.

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I don't want any time! I know who I love best, who I'm happiest with, and I choose uncle.

“I don't want any time! I know who I love best, who I'm happiest with, and I choose uncle.”

Voice: Fictional character · Rose Campbell

Rose’s choice of guardian is grounded in affection, trust and felt happiness, making chosen family attachment central to where she understands home to be.

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Eight Cousins; Or, The Aunt-Hill, Chapter 21, Project Gutenberg #38567. Rose chooses Uncle Alec when relatives ask which household she wants to join.

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fatherly and motherly hearts often beat warm and wise in the breasts of bachelor uncles and maiden aunts

“fatherly and motherly hearts often beat warm and wise in the breasts of bachelor uncles and maiden aunts”

Voice: Narrator voice · Narrator

The novel broadens family care beyond biological parents, recognizing that uncles and aunts can provide forms of affection, judgment and protection associated with parenthood.

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Eight Cousins; Or, The Aunt-Hill, Chapter 17, Project Gutenberg #38567. Narrator commentary about Rose and Mac turning naturally to Dr Alec.

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It was Phebe, poor little Phebe, who never had a home, never knew the love of father or mother, brother or sister

“It was Phebe, poor little Phebe, who never had a home, never knew the love of father or mother, brother or sister”

Voice: Narrator voice · Narrator

Phebe’s exclusion from ordinary family relationships makes the household’s sense of home visible by contrast and deepens Rose’s awareness of what belonging provides.

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Eight Cousins; Or, The Aunt-Hill, Chapter 19, Project Gutenberg #38567. Narrator description contrasts Phebe's childhood without family with the Campbell household around her.

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Because true mothers never forget their children

“Because true mothers never forget their children”

Voice: Fictional character · Jo Bhaer

The compact line expresses Mrs Jo’s conviction that maternal attachment persists despite separation, distance and a troubled family history.

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Jo's Boys, Chapter 4, Project Gutenberg #3499. Spoken by Mrs Jo while urging Dan to remember his mother; it reflects fictional dialogue and Alcott's narrative world.

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I see that Daisy is bound up in Nat; and if he is worthy of her I shall let them be happy in their own way

“I see that Daisy is bound up in Nat; and if he is worthy of her I shall let them be happy in their own way”

Voice: Fictional character · Meg Brooke

Parental care here includes allowing an adult child to choose her own relationship when the parent judges the partner worthy rather than controlling the outcome.

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Jo's Boys, Chapter 10, Project Gutenberg #3499. Mrs Meg is considering Daisy and Nat; the surrounding dialogue explicitly compares her choice with the freedom her own parents gave her.

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My mother gave it to me; and when you read it try to believe that neither of your mothers will ever forget you.

“My mother gave it to me; and when you read it try to believe that neither of your mothers will ever forget you.”

Voice: Fictional character · Jo Bhaer

A book passed from one mother to another generation becomes a symbol of continuing care, linking memory, reading and the idea of maternal presence across absence.

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Jo's Boys, Chapter 4, Project Gutenberg #3499. Mrs Jo gives Dan a book that came from her own mother and speaks of both maternal bonds.

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One of my favorite fancies is to look at my family as a small world.

“One of my favorite fancies is to look at my family as a small world.”

Voice: Fictional character · Jo Bhaer

A household becomes a miniature society where different temperaments must learn cooperation, responsibility, affection, boundaries, and ways of living together despite their differences.

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Little Men; the family-as-world image frames Plumfield as a community in which varied children practice the habits needed for wider social life.

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Best of all the harvest are the happy children in the home to-night.

“Best of all the harvest are the happy children in the home to-night.”

Voice: Narrator voice · Narrator

The household’s most valuable outcome is not material production but the children growing within it; family care is pictured as a harvest measured in human flourishing.

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Little Men; the closing harvest imagery turns the children gathered at home into the household’s most important yield and source of gratitude.

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Love is a great beautifier.

“Love is a great beautifier.”

Voice: Narrator voice · Narrator

Affection changes perception, making the loved person and the surrounding world feel more vivid and valuable.

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Little Women, Chapter 24, “Gossip,” Project Gutenberg #514. The narrator says Meg has grown prettier than ever because “love is a great beautifier” while describing the three years before her wedding. This is literary narrator commentary about Meg’s happiness and maturation, not an empirical claim that affection produces a guaranteed physical effect.

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We've got Father and Mother, and each other.

“We've got Father and Mother, and each other.”

Voice: Fictional character · Beth March

Beth answers material lack by naming the relationships the sisters still possess, turning family presence into a concrete reason for gratitude rather than denying hardship.

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Little Women, Chapter 1, “Playing Pilgrims,” Project Gutenberg #514. Beth March answers her sisters’ complaints about poverty with “We’ve got Father and Mother, and each other,” naming family relationships as what remains available to them. This is Beth’s fictional dialogue inside the opening domestic scene.

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Love mankind. Follow God.

“Love mankind. Follow God.”

The compressed instruction joins humane concern for other people with commitment to a larger moral order.

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Meditations; George Long translation in Thoughts of Marcus Aurelius Antoninus.

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It is in thy power whenever thou shalt choose to retire into thyself.

“It is in thy power whenever thou shalt choose to retire into thyself.”

A person can create an inward pause even when external conditions are noisy, using reflection to restore order before returning to action.

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Meditations, Book IV, in George Long’s translation; this is the central clause of the retreat passage.

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Men exist for the sake of one another. Teach them then or bear with them.

“Men exist for the sake of one another. Teach them then or bear with them.”

Human interdependence creates two practical choices when others fall short: help them learn when possible, or practice patient endurance when change is unavailable.

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Meditations, Book VIII; George Long translation in Thoughts of Marcus Aurelius Antoninus.

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Look within. Within is the fountain of good, and it will ever bubble up, if thou wilt ever dig.

“Look within. Within is the fountain of good, and it will ever bubble up, if thou wilt ever dig.”

Moral resources are pictured as something cultivated inwardly through continued examination rather than obtained only from external approval or circumstance.

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Meditations, Book VII, section 59, George Long translation in Thoughts of Marcus Aurelius Antoninus.

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For the soul seeks not adorers, but peers.

“For the soul seeks not adorers, but peers.”

Respectful relationship is distinguished from worship or dependency: a developed person seeks equals capable of intelligent sympathy rather than admirers who surrender judgment.

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Life Without and Life Within, Part I ‘Reviews,’ essay ‘Menzel's View of Gœthe,’ Project Gutenberg #39037. ‘For the soul seeks not adorers, but peers’ appears in Fuller's discussion of the youth of genius, mockers and worshippers, immediately contrasting blind worship with ‘intelligent sympathy.’ It remains nineteenth-century literary criticism and intellectual reflection rather than a universal social or relationship rule.

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There is reason and reality in some degree of self-reliance.

“There is reason and reality in some degree of self-reliance.”

Self-reliance becomes credible when it grows from tested knowledge of what one can actually endure and do, rather than from empty confidence or social display.

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Life Without and Life Within, “The Poor Man”; Fuller argues that difficult experience can produce realistic knowledge of one’s resources and a grounded degree of self-reliance.

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Whether this be the best way is of no consequence, if it be the one individual character points out.

“Whether this be the best way is of no consequence, if it be the one individual character points out.”

Fuller gives individual character real authority in choosing a path: the decisive question is whether the course belongs honestly to the person living it.

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Summer on the Lakes, in 1843; the sentence appears in Fuller’s dialogic reflection on temperament, inquiry, and following the direction one’s own character requires.

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I must depend on myself as the only constant friend.

“I must depend on myself as the only constant friend.”

The statement does not deny friendship with others; it names the continuity of one’s relationship with oneself as a reason to cultivate dependable inward resources.

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Woman in the Nineteenth Century; spoken by Fuller’s illustrative figure Miranda while explaining the self-dependence encouraged by her upbringing.

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That her hand may be given with dignity, she must be able to stand alone.

“That her hand may be given with dignity, she must be able to stand alone.”

A relationship entered from the ability to stand independently can preserve dignity more fully than one made necessary by the inability to exist outside it.

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Woman in the Nineteenth Century; Fuller connects the dignity of freely giving oneself in relationship with the prior ability to stand independently.

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And let your self-respect forbid you to do imperfectly anything that you do at all.

“And let your self-respect forbid you to do imperfectly anything that you do at all.”

Self-respect becomes a standard for workmanship: valuing oneself should appear not only in feeling but in the care brought to responsibilities and chosen work.

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Woman in the Nineteenth Century and Kindred Papers; the sentence appears in advice about practical education, precision, and the development of the whole person.

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I have urged upon the sex self-subsistence in its two forms of self-reliance and self-impulse.

“I have urged upon the sex self-subsistence in its two forms of self-reliance and self-impulse.”

Fuller argues for the ability to stand and act from within rather than living only through prescribed dependence, making self-reliance part of a wider claim to human development.

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Woman in the Nineteenth Century; Fuller explicitly names self-subsistence, self-reliance, and self-impulse within her argument about women’s independence.

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A dignified sense of self-dependence was given as all her portion, and she found it a sure anchor.

“A dignified sense of self-dependence was given as all her portion, and she found it a sure anchor.”

Fuller presents self-dependence as an anchor that makes relationships more secure rather than less human, because connection is no longer built entirely on dependence.

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Woman in the Nineteenth Century, in Fuller’s account of “Miranda”; this is the narrator’s description of the illustrative figure rather than a standalone autobiographical maxim.

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I do not wish them to have power over men; but over themselves.

“I do not wish them to have power over men; but over themselves.”

The sentence defines empowerment as self-command rather than domination, centering education, judgment, and personal agency as the basis of freedom.

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A Vindication of the Rights of Woman; Wollstonecraft distinguishes equality and self-government from power over others.

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One principal of action is sufficient—Respect thyself.

“One principal of action is sufficient—Respect thyself.”

Wollstonecraft makes self-respect a moral standard rather than self-flattery: conduct should remain compatible with one’s own sense of truth and justice instead of being reorganized around gaining a respectable social position.

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An Historical and Moral View of the Origin and Progress of the French Revolution, Project Gutenberg #68724. Wollstonecraft connects “Respect thyself” with religion, justice and self-love while criticizing social arrangements that encourage people to sacrifice truthful character for status.

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Thinking of death makes us tenderly cling to our affections.

“Thinking of death makes us tenderly cling to our affections.”

Awareness of mortality intensifies attachment by reminding a person that relationships and opportunities for affection are finite.

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Letters Written During a Short Residence in Sweden, Norway, and Denmark, Letter VII; represented Cassell & Company 1889 text in Project Gutenberg #3529. “Thinking of death makes us tenderly cling to our affections” closes the same meditation on mortality and immediately becomes a personal assurance to the recipient of the letter. The line remains first-person epistolary reflection, not a universal clinical claim about bereavement or attachment.

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The greatest thing in the world is for a man to know that he is his own.

“The greatest thing in the world is for a man to know that he is his own.”

Self-possession means keeping enough inward independence that obligations and attachments do not erase the person who carries them.

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Essays of Montaigne, Book I, Chapter XXXVIII, ‘Of Solitude,’ Charles Cotton translation edited by William Carew Hazlitt (1877); Project Gutenberg Volume 06 #3586 / Complete Essays #3600. Montaigne’s self-possession sentence occurs in his discussion of inward independence and making a retreat that does not leave the self owned by external obligations.

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Others form man; I only report him.

“Others form man; I only report him.”

Rather than presenting an ideal model of humanity, Montaigne describes a particular changing self and makes observation central to his method.

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Essays of Montaigne, Book III, Chapter II, “Of Repentance,” Charles Cotton translation; Project Gutenberg Volume 14 #3594 / Complete Essays #3600. Montaigne distinguishes reporting a changing particular self from constructing an ideal model of humanity.

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Life is made up of sobs, sniffles, and smiles, with sniffles predominating.

“Life is made up of sobs, sniffles, and smiles, with sniffles predominating.”

O. Henry turns Della’s financial distress into a comic-sad observation that ordinary life often mixes sorrow, small complaints and happiness rather than arriving in a single emotional register.

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The Gift of the Magi, Project Gutenberg #7256. The narrator offers the line just after Della counts her $1.87 and cries on the couch before Christmas; it is humorous literary narration within a story of poverty, love and gift-giving.

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We cannot deceive ourselves any of the time, and the only way to enjoy our own respect is to deserve it.

“We cannot deceive ourselves any of the time, and the only way to enjoy our own respect is to deserve it.”

Self-respect is linked to conduct rather than self-flattery: a stable good opinion of oneself is earned by behaving in ways one can honestly stand behind.

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How to Succeed, “Hold Up Your Head”; Marden follows a Lincoln anecdote by arguing that self-respect depends on deserving one’s own approval.

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Shame and its consequent degradation follow the loss of our own good opinion rather than the esteem of others.

“Shame and its consequent degradation follow the loss of our own good opinion rather than the esteem of others.”

The sentence places moral injury in losing one’s own considered respect, not merely in losing social approval, making conscience a more important measure than reputation.

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How to Succeed; the sentence appears in Marden’s discussion of temptation, aspiration, and the damage caused when self-respect is surrendered.

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Believe in yourself; you may succeed when others do not believe in you, but never when you do not believe in yourself.

“Believe in yourself; you may succeed when others do not believe in you, but never when you do not believe in yourself.”

External encouragement can help, but Marden makes self-belief the non-substitutable part of action: progress is difficult when a person has already decided internally that success is impossible.

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How to Succeed, chapter “Hold Up Your Head,” in the Project Gutenberg text; the book’s period language and success philosophy are preserved as historical self-development writing.

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Let no one shake your faith in yourself.

“Let no one shake your faith in yourself.”

The brief command protects an internal source of confidence from being surrendered automatically to criticism or discouragement from outside.

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The Victorious Attitude; the sentence is followed by explicitly religious language about faith, so the source page keeps that spiritual context visible.

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Remember it is not other people's faith in you but your faith in yourself that counts most.

“Remember it is not other people's faith in you but your faith in yourself that counts most.”

Other people’s confidence is useful but not decisive; Marden emphasizes the belief that must remain available when approval, reassurance, or encouragement from others is absent.

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The Victorious Attitude, chapter on faith; Marden explicitly distinguishes other people’s good opinion from the faith in oneself he calls imperative.

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Show the world that you respect yourself, that you believe in yourself, and that, no matter how hard the way, you are marching on to victory.

“Show the world that you respect yourself, that you believe in yourself, and that, no matter how hard the way, you are marching on to victory.”

Marden treats visible self-respect as a refusal to let hardship define identity, encouraging a posture of agency even when material circumstances are difficult.

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The Victorious Attitude, opening chapter; the rhetoric is deliberately motivational and reflects early twentieth-century success literature rather than an empirical psychological claim.

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When one is in love one begins by deceiving oneself. And one ends by deceiving others.

“When one is in love one begins by deceiving oneself. And one ends by deceiving others.”

Voice: Fictional character · Lord Illingworth

The line turns romance into a two-stage comedy of self-deception and social deception, exaggerating cynicism to expose how desire distorts judgment.

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A Woman of No Importance, Act III; Lord Illingworth answers Gerald’s question about love with the romance/self-deception epigram. The exact catalog wording is supported by this play, not by The Picture of Dorian Gray.

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The only possible society is oneself.

“The only possible society is oneself.”

Voice: Fictional character · Lord Goring

The comic exaggeration makes self-company part of Wilde’s joke about society while still centering comfort with oneself.

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An Ideal Husband, Act III; Lord Goring tells Phipps “The only possible society is oneself” immediately before the lifelong-romance epigram. Verified against the public-domain Wikisource Act III transcription and Project Gutenberg #885; the line remains dandyish comic character speech rather than uncomplicated authorial doctrine.

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To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.

“To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.”

Voice: Fictional character · Lord Goring

The line playfully treats self-acceptance not as a one-time achievement but as a relationship that lasts throughout life.

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An Ideal Husband, Act III; Lord Goring tells Phipps that “To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance” immediately after saying that the only possible society is oneself. Verified against the public-domain Wikisource Act III transcription and Project Gutenberg #885. This remains comic fictional dialogue in Wilde’s social comedy rather than a psychological finding.

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To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all.

“To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all.”

Wilde separates deliberate individual living from merely passing through existence, making self-realization and chosen purpose part of what it means to live fully.

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The Soul of Man under Socialism; Wilde develops individualism as the freedom to form a life from within rather than conform to social expectation.

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Debt robs a man of his self-respect, and makes him almost despise himself.

“Debt robs a man of his self-respect, and makes him almost despise himself.”

The rhetoric emphasizes the psychological burden Barnum associated with unpaid consumption debt, linking financial obligation with dependence and loss of confidence.

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The Art of Money Getting, “Avoid Debt”; Project Gutenberg #8581. This is Barnum’s forceful moral rhetoric, not a clinical claim about every debtor’s mental state.

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Remember that thou art a man and do not degrade thyself: this is self-respect.

“Remember that thou art a man and do not degrade thyself: this is self-respect.”

Janet treats human dignity as a floor below which humility should not push a person: recognizing weakness does not require degrading oneself or surrendering self-respect.

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Elements of Morals, Chapter XIV, section 165, printed page 296, Caroline Rollin Corson’s 1884 English translation, Project Gutenberg #37016. “Remember that thou art a man and do not degrade thyself: this is self-respect” appears in the same paragraph as Janet’s paired reminder against vain pride, making self-respect and humility complementary parts of his moral argument rather than generic affirmation copy.

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Humility should not be an abasement; for it is never a virtue in man to lower himself.

“Humility should not be an abasement; for it is never a virtue in man to lower himself.”

Janet sharply separates humility from self-degradation: accurate awareness of human weakness should coexist with dignity, so humility does not require pretending that one has no worth or abilities.

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Elements of Morals, Chapter XIV, section 165, printed page 296, Caroline Rollin Corson’s 1884 English translation, Project Gutenberg #37016. Janet distinguishes humility from abasement: humility arises from recognition of human weakness, but lowering oneself is not itself a virtue. The passage belongs to nineteenth-century systematic moral philosophy rather than modern clinical self-esteem guidance.

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And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity.

“And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity.”

Faith and hope remain important, but the chapter concludes by placing love above them as the greatest continuing virtue.

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1 Corinthians 13:13 in the King James Version.

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God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.

“God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.”

Courage is balanced with love and sound judgment, keeping strength from being confused with recklessness or aggression.

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2 Timothy 1:7 in the King James Version.

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Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another.

“Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another.”

Affection is joined with honor: care for others includes deliberately giving them regard rather than competing for status.

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Romans 12:10 in the King James Version.

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Then love, and desire, and friendship would appear to be of the natural or congenial. Such, Lysis and Menexenus, is the inference.
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“Then love, and desire, and friendship would appear to be of the natural or congenial. Such, Lysis and Menexenus, is the inference.”

Voice: Dialogue speaker · Socrates

Socrates tentatively suggests that attachment may arise from an affinity between people, after reasoning about what desire lacks. He and his companions immediately test—and ultimately fail to settle—this proposal; the sentence is a provisional inference, not Plato’s final definition of love or friendship.

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Lysis, around Stephanus 221e, Socrates addressing Lysis and Menexenus while exploring desire, affinity and friendship. Benjamin Jowett English, Project Gutenberg #1579. The dialogue goes on to challenge whether the congenial is simply the like and ends without reaching a settled definition; do not present the tentative argument as an unconditional fact.

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For love is the desire of the whole, and the pursuit of the whole is called love.

“For love is the desire of the whole, and the pursuit of the whole is called love.”

Voice: Dialogue speaker · Aristophanes

Aristophanes presents love as a longing to recover wholeness, but the claim belongs to his deliberately mythic account of divided human beings rather than to a literal theory of human origins.

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Symposium, Aristophanes’s speech, Benjamin Jowett translation, Project Gutenberg #1600. The sentence concludes the comic myth of humans split into halves; it is a speaker position inside Plato’s dialogue, not direct autobiography or anthropology by Plato.

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For wisdom is a most beautiful thing, and Love is of the beautiful; and therefore Love is also a philosopher or lover of wisdom

“For wisdom is a most beautiful thing, and Love is of the beautiful; and therefore Love is also a philosopher or lover of wisdom”

Voice: Reported speaker · Diotima, recounted by Socrates

Diotima links love with philosophy by treating wisdom as something beautiful that the lover does not fully possess but continues to seek, placing philosophical desire between ignorance and completed wisdom.

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Symposium, Socrates recounting Diotima’s teaching, Benjamin Jowett translation, Project Gutenberg #1600. The represented wording belongs to Diotima’s account of Love as intermediate between the wise and the ignorant.

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He that covereth a transgression seeketh love.

“He that covereth a transgression seeketh love.”

The proverb distinguishes repairing a relationship from repeatedly reopening an offence, presenting discretion as one way love protects community.

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Proverbs 17:9 in the King James Version; excerpt from the contrast between covering a transgression and repeating a matter.

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He that covereth a transgression seeketh love; but he that repeateth a matter separateth very friends.

“He that covereth a transgression seeketh love; but he that repeateth a matter separateth very friends.”

The proverb contrasts discretion with repeated reopening of an offence, recognizing that the way conflict is handled can preserve or fracture friendship.

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Proverbs 17:9 in the King James Version.

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A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly.

“A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly.”

Friendship is reciprocal: wanting reliable relationships also creates a responsibility to practice friendliness and presence toward other people.

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Proverbs 18:24 in the King James Version; this record uses the opening clause.

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There is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.

“There is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.”

Some friendships become as dependable as family bonds, emphasizing closeness measured by steadfast presence rather than category alone.

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Proverbs 18:24 in the King James Version; concluding clause of the verse.

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Ointment and perfume rejoice the heart: so doth the sweetness of a man’s friend by hearty counsel.

“Ointment and perfume rejoice the heart: so doth the sweetness of a man’s friend by hearty counsel.”

Good counsel from a trusted friend is compared with a pleasing fragrance because it can refresh the heart while also offering substance.

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Proverbs 27:9 in the King James Version.

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Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of his saints.

“Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of his saints.”

Death is framed as significant rather than unnoticed, offering a religious language of value and remembrance around the loss of a faithful person.

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Psalm 116:15, King James Version; the statement appears within a psalm of deliverance, gratitude, and devotion.